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Mathew Lyons @mathewlyons.bsky.social

Honestly, any way that you find works for you is ok. Whatever gets you through the night, etc. And no worries. I know when I've been going through things in the past, people have been tolerant and generous, so I try to pass that on a bit. Take care of yourself.

aug 24, 2025, 4:30 pm • 1 0

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Siobhan Hoffmann Sønderborg @siobhanhoffmann.bsky.social

Thanks. Sending love. I'm... I just don't know what to do to be honest. It's... Yeah. Thank you.

aug 24, 2025, 5:16 pm • 1 0 • view
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Mathew Lyons @mathewlyons.bsky.social

Grief is a monster. Take it a day at a time, an hour at a time if need be. You don't need to have a plan. You just have to do whatever you need to do to get by. Eventually you make your peace with it and take a kind of comfort from its presence. Hang in there. You'll find your path. You'll be ok.

aug 24, 2025, 9:21 pm • 1 0 • view
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Siobhan Hoffmann Sønderborg @siobhanhoffmann.bsky.social

Seems like sound advice. 🩶 I just hope I can deal with the rest of it, too...

aug 24, 2025, 9:29 pm • 0 0 • view
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Mathew Lyons @mathewlyons.bsky.social

You can and, when you have to, you will. Platitudes, I know… I don’t know you well, but I’ve known you a long time. John likewise. I don’t have his gift for blessings, but sending what care I can. I’m a bit concerned. Look after yourself, ok?

aug 24, 2025, 10:28 pm • 2 0 • view
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Siobhan Hoffmann Sønderborg @siobhanhoffmann.bsky.social

I'm trying my best. On all fronts. The platitudes mean something coming from you. I know you're no stranger to grief. So. 🩶

aug 25, 2025, 5:54 am • 1 0 • view