Here's the thing, in general, nobody gives a fuck who is gay, straight, trans, etc. sorry you think it's "hate" when somebody speaks against it. Like everything else the left does, you immediately go to the worst case scenario and have absolutely zero ability to just ignore shit.
Well if you've been through the kind of things I've been through you would understand better. I don't think everyone who has problems with aspects of my community hates us but I do know there are a lot of people who still do hate us and I want to protect my people from those who hate us
For reference I'm ex-nifb(new independent fundamentals Baptist movement) and I know damn good and well there are people who genuinely hate me with every fiber of their being just because I breathe. I'm more concerned with them than I am people who have mildly problematic opinions
That said I may overreact a little bit sometimes I'm not a perpetual victim I'm just a survivor of abuse. And I have a lot of trauma responses as a result so apologies if I do overreact I'm not trying to I'm just trying to protect my community.
There's no call to apologise to them, Leia. They clearly either aren't aware - or simply don't care - about the regular abuse that some get subjected to. While there are times when letting it slide is certainly prudent, in general not addressing this crap head on can just encourage its promulgation.