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Jinwoo Park @jinwoo-park.com

My parents just called me to tell me that they finished reading my novel and said that they loved it and are proud of the work I've done, and as an Asian immigrant child, the fact that I got them to say this after having fought for years over my writing career feels like a massive achievement.

aug 31, 2025, 6:28 pm • 2,977 107

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BRIAN DE AMORIM @briandeamorim.bsky.social

Ya, I'm familiar with the Asian culture and family structure, so this is a huge win for you. Congratulations!

aug 31, 2025, 6:54 pm • 1 0 • view
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Michelle Mabelle 💙🌍☮️🎶🎶 @i-michelle.bsky.social

Congratulations

sep 1, 2025, 3:43 am • 0 0 • view
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Jackie Albrecht @jakamo.bsky.social

Congrats for persevering and getting the acceptance & praise you deserve!

sep 1, 2025, 3:44 am • 0 0 • view
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Luci-Lu @obdami.bsky.social

Your parents are lying.

sep 1, 2025, 12:38 am • 0 0 • view
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A. Rascal @rascality.bsky.social

outstanding work :)

sep 1, 2025, 12:53 am • 2 0 • view
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Covid cave dweller @mariablack.bsky.social

FANTASTIC 👏👏🎉

sep 1, 2025, 5:15 am • 0 0 • view
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lit agent tasneem motala @seraphecda.bsky.social

TT__TT achievement unlocked: parental acceptance and pride over your hard-fought personal decisions

aug 31, 2025, 6:44 pm • 1 0 • view
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FarleyBDancin @farleybdancin.bsky.social

That’s wonderful news, congratulations!!

sep 1, 2025, 2:01 am • 0 0 • view
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culley58.bsky.social @culley58.bsky.social

Congratulations first for acting on the need to share a vision of life with others and second to receive acknowledgement and appreciation from those who rented brain space in your writing struggles. It must be such a gentle salve for bruised feelings.

sep 1, 2025, 2:11 am • 0 0 • view
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CosmosXX @cosmosxx.bsky.social

Congratulations.

sep 1, 2025, 3:08 am • 0 0 • view
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foghornleghorn1357.bsky.social @foghornleghorn1357.bsky.social

Congrats Jinwoo!

sep 1, 2025, 3:47 am • 0 0 • view
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Maureen “FusionFellow” @fusionfellow.bsky.social

Really special! Such a wonderful achievement and so great that you believe in yourself! That is your superpower, i think!!!!!

sep 1, 2025, 2:21 am • 1 0 • view
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gozion @ravnica11.bsky.social

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Colleen @wildplumbay.bsky.social

Looks like a book I would enjoy.

aug 31, 2025, 9:42 pm • 0 0 • view
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Rachna @rachinita.bsky.social

Congrats on raising mature parents!

sep 1, 2025, 1:58 am • 0 0 • view
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ComeOnPeople (Smile On Your Brother) @comeonpeopl.bsky.social

Because it is. Good job 👍👍👍

aug 31, 2025, 11:44 pm • 0 0 • view
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Angel Cees @lifesgood2024.bsky.social

👏👏👏👏 good for you. It's really special for them to accept your gift.

sep 1, 2025, 7:42 am • 0 0 • view
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808caryl.bsky.social @808caryl.bsky.social

You earned it. Enjoy❤️. Aloha

sep 1, 2025, 1:06 am • 0 0 • view
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Steven Evangelista @sevangelistany.bsky.social

Wonderful!!

sep 1, 2025, 5:43 am • 0 0 • view
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Aleks Pusz @somethingwickedtwd.bsky.social

Nice one!

sep 1, 2025, 8:47 am • 0 0 • view
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Gina @cissybgood67.bsky.social

💝😊

sep 1, 2025, 1:10 am • 0 0 • view
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Todd Walker @toddwalker.bsky.social

I love this for you! 🙏☸️

sep 1, 2025, 1:27 am • 0 0 • view
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Donnie R. Wallen @drwpoet.bsky.social

This is wonderful. I am happy for you.

sep 1, 2025, 1:31 am • 0 0 • view
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sinmam.bsky.social @sinmam.bsky.social

What is the title of your book?

sep 1, 2025, 3:19 am • 0 0 • view
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Jinwoo Park @jinwoo-park.com

Oxford Soju Club!

sep 1, 2025, 3:32 am • 0 0 • view
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sinmam.bsky.social @sinmam.bsky.social

Both your asian parents complimented your work???? That's like seeing a unicorn and a carebear in one day!! Congratulations!!! The most i ever got from my mom was . . . nothing! She continues to be silent regarding my success, which is her way of giving me her appoval!

sep 1, 2025, 3:18 am • 0 0 • view
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C Bailey @cbailey8525.bsky.social

🥳🥳🥳💕

aug 31, 2025, 7:06 pm • 1 0 • view
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TexaKiwi 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇸🇳🇿🐈🫘 @texaskiwi70.bsky.social

🙏♥️

sep 1, 2025, 5:49 am • 0 0 • view
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Susan Brown @sactowngrandma.bsky.social

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

sep 1, 2025, 3:34 am • 0 0 • view
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medicinetacklebox.bsky.social @medicinetacklebox.bsky.social

Don’t think I could ever achieve this. Many congrats!!

sep 1, 2025, 5:00 am • 0 0 • view
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The Rune Scholar @runescholar.bsky.social

Big congrats!

aug 31, 2025, 9:12 pm • 0 0 • view
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Dr Josephine K (Retd) @drjoretd.bsky.social

It is, they've finally accepted that you're never going to be a doctor.

aug 31, 2025, 6:55 pm • 6 0 • view
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Colin Camerer @cfcamerer.bsky.social

👏

aug 31, 2025, 9:53 pm • 0 0 • view
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Banksta @banksta.bsky.social

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

sep 1, 2025, 11:01 pm • 0 0 • view
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J.Jareth @jenejareth.bsky.social

Awesome! #Librarystaff

sep 1, 2025, 1:49 am • 0 0 • view
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Pam🇺🇸🇺🇦🇨🇦💙💙 @roseblosum.bsky.social

When it comes from your parents, that is the achievement!! Unlike our Prez who is still trying to please his parents unresolved childhood issues with goals he will never or can ever achieve... Sometimes you just have to pity the fool!!

aug 31, 2025, 11:21 pm • 0 0 • view
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springtomind.bsky.social @springtomind.bsky.social

Congrats! It's a great feeling getting the approval from those you love

aug 31, 2025, 9:01 pm • 0 0 • view
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Rae @esterlina-arts.bsky.social

My version of this was hearing my bootstrap dad say "if I did everything exactly as I did to get where I am, but had to do it in your timeline, I know I wouldn't have it"

sep 1, 2025, 2:16 am • 12 0 • view
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Kaz Carr @kazuwacky.bsky.social

My poor father used to tell me "get training" because his life was transformed through government offered training. Took him a long time to realise no one my age has those opportunities anymore.

sep 1, 2025, 8:57 am • 1 0 • view
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reasonmatters.bsky.social @reasonmatters.bsky.social

Massive indeed. Congratulations! Can't wait to read your book.

sep 1, 2025, 8:22 pm • 1 0 • view
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jaffisam.bsky.social @jaffisam.bsky.social

Congratulations to you—and to them! Well done, all!

aug 31, 2025, 7:41 pm • 0 0 • view
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Lynn Demarest @lynndemarest.bsky.social

Still haven't gotten Mom to read The Soul Gene. Everything is not for everybody.

sep 1, 2025, 5:01 am • 0 0 • view
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leebarrx.bsky.social @leebarrx.bsky.social

😂👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

sep 1, 2025, 4:48 am • 0 0 • view
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angelab8888.bsky.social @angelab8888.bsky.social

Congratulations for following your dream! It’s not always easy, correction, it’s bloody hard, but this is why you were put on this earth. Thank you for giving your writing to the rest of us.

sep 1, 2025, 5:24 am • 0 0 • view
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Gitross @brucey1973.bsky.social

Congratulations! That must feel Amazing to hear what you already know, your parents are so Proud of you

aug 31, 2025, 10:40 pm • 0 0 • view
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Kathy @khegler2024.bsky.social

Congratulations 🎊

sep 1, 2025, 4:49 am • 0 0 • view
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PolkSalad @polksalad.bsky.social

Kudos to you for tenacity and your parents for you!

aug 31, 2025, 10:02 pm • 0 0 • view
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Paul Barnes @barnz65.bsky.social

Because, it is, it just is.

sep 1, 2025, 8:38 am • 1 0 • view
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TERESA @lgbtqiamomma.bsky.social

Congratulations

aug 31, 2025, 9:45 pm • 0 0 • view
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Heron @heronfem.bsky.social

Congratulations!!! Genuinely a monumental life achievement

sep 1, 2025, 2:52 am • 0 0 • view
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Eileen Metzger @eileenlm.bsky.social

Congrats. You're lucky. Not all writers have had that affirmation.

sep 1, 2025, 12:18 am • 0 0 • view
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Yomiko @read-ordie.bsky.social

Amazing! So happy for you!

aug 31, 2025, 8:15 pm • 0 0 • view
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Rebecca Holcomb @rebeccaholcomb.bsky.social

You don’t need anyone to be proud of you as long as long as YOU are proud of you, but that’s still awesome. I’m glad you got to experience that feeling of pride for yourself and from your parents 💚

sep 1, 2025, 7:29 am • 1 0 • view
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Emma Nicole W. @emnicw.bsky.social

Proud parents ftw

aug 31, 2025, 7:27 pm • 0 0 • view
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AquariusinAZ @aquariusinaz.bsky.social

Congratulations!!!

sep 1, 2025, 6:43 am • 0 0 • view
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dj-blue.bsky.social @dj-blue.bsky.social

How wonderful for them. And what a great accomplishment for you and them.

aug 31, 2025, 7:46 pm • 0 0 • view
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Kaz Carr @kazuwacky.bsky.social

Amazing stuff, that must be so meaningful to you and makes me smile 😊

sep 1, 2025, 8:56 am • 0 0 • view
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Craig Carl 🐕 @craigrcarl.bsky.social

Congratulations!

aug 31, 2025, 7:16 pm • 0 0 • view
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Texting Typo Queen 👸 @msmele.bsky.social

Congratulations 🎉

aug 31, 2025, 10:53 pm • 0 0 • view
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Diedrich Bader @diedrichbader.bsky.social

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

sep 1, 2025, 5:12 am • 4 0 • view
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Vicki Hall, OG Liberal Chattel @vickiannie1.bsky.social

Congratulations!! 🎊🎉

sep 1, 2025, 6:32 pm • 1 0 • view
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Sid Olufs @sidster7.bsky.social

That IS a massive achievement. You can best serve your parents and other family by being successful at what you do.

aug 31, 2025, 7:23 pm • 0 0 • view
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Lindsay @lwgowin.bsky.social

You have arrived.

sep 1, 2025, 4:49 am • 0 0 • view
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Bullix @bullix.bsky.social

This is parade worthy!

sep 1, 2025, 1:39 am • 0 0 • view
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crasterimage.bsky.social @crasterimage.bsky.social

Next question is: How do you know they are not just blowing smoke up your skirt?

aug 31, 2025, 10:59 pm • 0 0 • view
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Jinwoo Park @jinwoo-park.com

I mean I'll take what I can get

aug 31, 2025, 11:10 pm • 0 0 • view
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Taylor Drew @mollymay5000.bsky.social

Love this for you! 🎉

aug 31, 2025, 9:31 pm • 1 0 • view
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ll7177.bsky.social @ll7177.bsky.social

Congratulations! 🥳

aug 31, 2025, 8:34 pm • 0 0 • view
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MinnesotaMeMoments @minnesnowtame.bsky.social

YOU are blessed ... the only words spoken to me after an honorable achievement were ... how much are they going to pay you ... ?

sep 1, 2025, 7:22 am • 0 0 • view
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trishus.bsky.social @trishus.bsky.social

Very happy for you. We never outgrow our need for parental approval ... unfortunately.

sep 1, 2025, 3:05 am • 0 0 • view
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Jon Smith @destroy2025now.bsky.social

Congratulations! Rumour has it that Asian parents are only second to German parents for not ever praising their children’s achievements. That’s what I heard anyway.

aug 31, 2025, 10:54 pm • 0 0 • view
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Claudia Chow @clauchow.bsky.social

I feel you, my friend!! I also can imagine how proud your parents are to make this call to you!

aug 31, 2025, 6:32 pm • 1 0 • view
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PurpleRain10 @purplerain10.bsky.social

Congrats to you!!! Writing a novel is an amazing accomplishment!!!

sep 1, 2025, 5:22 am • 0 0 • view
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Heather @xgoogleplex2.bsky.social

💕

aug 31, 2025, 7:21 pm • 0 0 • view
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Dr. Arica L. Coleman @alcphd.bsky.social

Congratulations. I am a retired professor. Years ago I had an Asian student in my class who was an excellent writer and wanted to embark on a writing career but her parents did not approve. I read your post and thought of her. I hope she is happy like you are.

aug 31, 2025, 7:25 pm • 1 0 • view
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B Beshoar @bbeshoar.bsky.social

👍🥂

sep 1, 2025, 9:04 am • 0 0 • view
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Gjerrus @gjerrus.bsky.social

!!!

sep 1, 2025, 12:06 am • 0 0 • view
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Squirrel Lord @lithrian.bsky.social

Wow that hits home. Also the child of Asian immigrants. Until you can show that your 'hobby' can make you money its all a meaningless distraction and you should stop indulging in childish things and get a real job.🤬

sep 1, 2025, 8:03 am • 0 0 • view
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polynesiankingg @spiritofmateo.bsky.social

I’m so proud of you! May your cup continue to overflow with more abundance of love, strength, happiness, protect & opportunities. You deserve it! Don’t stop and don’t change who you are and what your calling is. God continues to give his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers Keep fighting(:

sep 1, 2025, 10:31 am • 0 0 • view
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monagray55.bsky.social @monagray55.bsky.social

Congratulations

aug 31, 2025, 8:03 pm • 0 0 • view
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GuyBlu @guyblu1.bsky.social

If they didn't apologise for their shitty behaviour though you are still just living to validate their needs rather than your own....

sep 1, 2025, 7:30 am • 1 0 • view