it doesn't get said enough, that patriarchy and misogyny hurt men as well as women. also i'm sorry you personally have to deal with that
it doesn't get said enough, that patriarchy and misogyny hurt men as well as women. also i'm sorry you personally have to deal with that
(they hurt everyone, to be clear, including enby, et al) (and saying nothing about relative harms here, there are burdens and harms on everyone from this structure)
right, there's no point in "X has it worse," I think people are just less aware of this aspect, and cis people *can't* be aware of it because they don't have experience on "both sides." I never would have truly grasped this concept without having had both experiences.