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Cookie @cookstead.bsky.social

It’s frustrating how quickly people jump to criticize the parents or label the kid as “an asshole.” Not every moment like this is a sign of bad parenting. Sometimes kids, even when they've been told not to do something, need to experience the consequences firsthand in order to really learn.

jul 26, 2025, 3:55 pm • 65 0

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cμʁᴉƨ @evilalien.bsky.social

Regardless, Team Bird

jul 26, 2025, 4:56 pm • 62 0 • view
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Cookie @cookstead.bsky.social

Bird ftw

jul 26, 2025, 6:20 pm • 1 0 • view
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dianeps.bsky.social @dianeps.bsky.social

They need to learn to be kind to animals and to not mess with mom.

jul 26, 2025, 5:11 pm • 19 0 • view
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Sage Morrigan @rune1im.bsky.social

Hopefully this was a learning lesson for her.

jul 26, 2025, 5:49 pm • 14 0 • view
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Cookie @cookstead.bsky.social

youtube.com/shorts/f5VUd...

aug 5, 2025, 5:48 pm • 0 0 • view
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Squiggley Sam @squiggleysam.bsky.social

Also the intention can be more playful than mean

jul 26, 2025, 6:28 pm • 1 0 • view
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LazyCuttlefish @lazycuttlefish.bsky.social

What the attention was does not matter to the animal.

jul 26, 2025, 7:52 pm • 2 0 • view
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Libby @libbyizliberal.bsky.social

EXACTLY! My brother, 54 now, had to learn this lesson as well. And trust me, he was told over and over again to leave the geese alone. He did not, they pecked his little ass, and he's been very respectful of them ever since. He was 8 then, he's 54 now. lol

jul 26, 2025, 6:20 pm • 1 0 • view
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LazyCuttlefish @lazycuttlefish.bsky.social

But it’s usually the animal paying the price. Living beings aren’t some sort of lesson object.

jul 26, 2025, 7:50 pm • 6 0 • view
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Ash Vamproot @ashprotogen.bsky.social

TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR BEING A DAMN PARENT MORON FFS!🤦🏻‍♀️

jul 27, 2025, 1:18 am • 0 0 • view
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Virginia Lambert @sapphire3232.bsky.social

Every generation must learn for themselves that the stove is hot.

jul 26, 2025, 6:18 pm • 2 0 • view
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Cookie @cookstead.bsky.social

Exactly. You can be told the stove is hot, but can you really believe it's hot unless you feel the heat yourself? 🤔

jul 26, 2025, 6:19 pm • 2 0 • view
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Murk @murky.org

Reminds me of the time I was looking after a friends’ kid. Took him for a curry. Poppadom and dips time, I said “you shouldn’t have that one, its very hot”. After a few minutes of “hhoooo!” said the wisest thing I’ve heard from that age “that’s why I like you, you warned me but let me do it anyway”

jul 26, 2025, 7:33 pm • 3 0 • view
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Murk @murky.org

… hardly a hot stove, given it was someone else’s kid, but I was willing to let him FAFO with the hot sauce…

jul 26, 2025, 7:34 pm • 1 0 • view
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Cardigan Backyardigan @cardiganbakyardign.bsky.social

Yes! I have a vivid memory of this from my childhood, reaching to touch the coil burner. I knew my parents said to not touch because it was hot, but I had no idea that level of hot even existed!

jul 26, 2025, 6:43 pm • 1 0 • view
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LazyCuttlefish @lazycuttlefish.bsky.social

But not at another living being’s expense!

jul 26, 2025, 7:51 pm • 0 0 • view
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Virginia Lambert @sapphire3232.bsky.social

No, of course not. The saying or proverb about the hot stove has been around much longer than I have. It only means that we learn from personal experience more effectively than we do from advice or an explanation from others.

jul 26, 2025, 8:14 pm • 1 0 • view
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Dave Percival @tetrapod.bsky.social

jul 26, 2025, 4:01 pm • 6 0 • view
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hopea@Bsky.social @hopea.bsky.social

It most definitely IS!!! STOP making excuses for bad behavior!!

jul 26, 2025, 7:23 pm • 5 0 • view
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Cardigan Backyardigan @cardiganbakyardign.bsky.social

Exactly! This kid is young and still learning and may not have been meaning to upset the birds. Parents can't pre-teach every scenario and this whole incident happened in a few seconds, not even enough time for a parent to intervene.

jul 26, 2025, 6:36 pm • 1 0 • view