To pretend that a war can be fought with an entity that pays no regard to the moral & legal framework we live by, without resorting to some of those same tactics, is fundamentally dishonest. What do you expect Israel to do? Sit back and wait for Iran to drop a nuclear bomb on it.
This perspective is 100% fair, ill own that if one side is not playing by the rules, the other side can't either (hence why I support democratic counter gerrymandering). However, mutual dissarmament is an option here. And netanyahus government are the LARGEST obstacle to that outcome