Yes. 20 years ago in class discussion of ‘lying’ popped up and I found almost everyone in the class prefers to be lied to if the truth is upsetting. I hadn’t know I was an outlier on that. Believing lies or being in a fog of untruth is a disturbing idea to me even if nothing happens. I NEED to know.
Kind of interesting they were so self-aware though! I would expect everyone to say they want the truth, and then in the moment to prefer the lie...
Can’t say why it sounds horrifying—maybe a similar thing to society for the self (to me)? If your primary thing in life is to BE then you base this on lies where’s the feedback? You aren’t a self-formed being you are instead a created/manipulated being. Tho yeah, OK —lots of my beliefs may be false.
They started giving lots of examples and for each example I would say ‘Nobody better lie to me about THAT!’ And they’d say ‘oh, I definitely want to be lied to about that.’ Eventually agreed if they felt good with lies but bad with truth they prefer lies. Even living in an illusion!
Wow, that's super interesting! I'm with you, I have a hard enough time getting my bearings even when people aren't lying to my face.