Like, I get that you want to "win", but win what? A 4 year time out, while fascism continues to build momentum? That's all you're going to get without introspection & self critique on the part of the Dems. Refusing to hear criticism or learn from mistakes is literally self-defeating.
Electing lesser evils is like putting a bandage over sepsis. It barely hides the infection & does nothing to cure it. If you want to win, you need to be pushing these parrots & the party they serve out of the aisle, & demanding a stronger antidote in terms of policy.
Dems want to chase vibes, & reward empty rhetoric, & performative antics without ever having to have any consequences for supporting people who threw the trans community under a bus & funded genocide. You cannot defeat fascism this way. Quit worrying about your hurt feelings & evolve your strategy.