between someone suffering unwanted intrusive thoughts/urges, vs someone actually fully endorsing and glorifying those thoughts and actions and reveling in their abuse of others. tldr; like any taboo kink, it's fine as long as it stays either purely fictional, or is indulged in a safe, sane, and+
consensual manner solely between *adult human* participants.
this is a rly well spoken take, thank you for ur reply !! I completely admit being pretty ignorant of loli/sho (bc i avoid it for my comfort) so I wasnt aware of the nuances of it. tbh i think i agree w you entirely - u bring up a great point w comparing cnc (which i have no issue with). i think
that im just so sensitive to the Idea of children being harmed that i struggle to not judge them unequally yk ?? but i acknowledge that thats like a logical failure on my part. ultimately the reality is also that i have no control over (nor the right to control) whether or not ppl are going to make
art that triggers/upsets me, no matter How i feel about it. and ultimately i am always going to be an advocate for freedom of sexual expression. so I think the best way i can advocate in this situation is to just Look Away LOL. anyway - thank you again for your reply !!!
of course!! its not easy to try and dismantle those knee jerk reactions especially when it comes to triggers close to home, but at the end of the day i just boil it down to controlling my feeds and simply letting it slide off my back if no real life harm is being done. someone said it in a really+
good way, i can't remember who or exactly what but the sum of it is that there are completely people who believe in purely doing missionary only for the purpose of having kids who have done far more real life harm than many, *many* kinksters and freaks in the world ever will.
YES I do love that quote!! there’s also smth to be said abt how real world child abuse is much more often about an imbalance of power than attraction. another quote im thinking of is smth along the lines of “sexual violence is more about violence than sex” which i agree with as well
yeah!! at the end of the day we're all sick little puppies having fun with thought crimes. as long as they stay thoughts, then it's fine! it's when it crosses into action that it becomes a problem.