Well, no though. You are a person who replied to me as if I was unreasonable on this thread. Is it too much trouble for you to scroll up and try to identify which comment made you feel like I was not informed on trans topics?

Pardon me. I misread this: "The trans topic is the one where it always goes the worst. Any ideas for me??"

This is going to read wrong lol the tone I had in my head when I typed it will not come across. That is another problem I have. I am not used to the lack of tone issue, and I don't seem to have as much trouble reading others as they do reading me

Thanks for trying haha I would like to be less discordant in online trans spaces, I just don't know how if the basic premise that a cis woman's discomfort is valid is triggering to people

Discomfort with what and who, though? With trans women?

Yes, the bigots fundamentally are just uncomfortable people, and their discomfort has historically never been a good enough reason to result in anyone else changing what they do. It's not enough to tell a man "this makes me uncomfortable" he will just laugh and be dismissive. Women are therefore now

So but they make up bullshit and nonsense because they have been conditioned their whole lives to believe "I am uncomfortable" is invalid. And then the more we dismiss their discomfort and call them names, the more the fear grows inside them. Women have lost more rights than trans people.

Women are primed to lose the right to vote. They're dying on tables for babies they wanted to have. I mean, women are the most oppressed group in history, WOMEN. Of all colors and creed. That takes a toll, so instead of saying "hey, this isn't going to work, let's compromise" -> healthy boundary,

they say, "fuck you and your stupid penis, you don't get me, I have different physical experiences than you, I was raised to believe I am worth nothing without a man, and that I have no right to my body or personal space, and you weren't! And you are skinnier than I'll ever be and fuck you"

And then you get teenage girls withing they were born men because they'll never be as skinny as Dylan Mulvaney, and then you get old women seeing that and seeing their daughters feel an even worse call to patriarchy than they or their mothers did, in spite of it being the fucking 50s back then

And then the existential fear of their daughters being sold into sex slavery and domestic slavery hits them, because that's been the reality for all people born with a vagina since the dawn of civilization, and then they feel a fear so overpowering and a powerlessness of countless raped girls, and

more adapted to logic, because they have to find objective reasons for everything to make any man think they're worth listening to. This is one of the drivers for my truth engine being what it is, and I am a special largely insufferable person, hi, sorry in advance lol