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Gally22 @gally227.bsky.social

Both my parents were U.S citizens my father was a USAF Pilot Captain and he and his crew went down in the last days of Vietnam. Bodies were never found.. MIA to KIA 10 yrs later. My mother died in 1997 a yr later after being hit by a drunk driver on her way home from her nursing shift.

aug 28, 2025, 5:55 am • 2 0

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🔥🗽🔥SoCal Redhead🔥🗽🔥 @vlf79.bsky.social

I'm 💔 for your pain. My father served in Vietnam too im told. Idk much really. I was 10 when he died and my mother lied to me daily so she got away with it. So I can't trust anything of what she said.

aug 28, 2025, 5:57 am • 1 0 • view
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Gally22 @gally227.bsky.social

Your mother sounds like she needed a mental health facility. I am so sorry you had to experience a mother that didn’t show you how to survive and thrive. No child should ever go through that.

aug 28, 2025, 6:00 am • 1 0 • view
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🔥🗽🔥SoCal Redhead🔥🗽🔥 @vlf79.bsky.social

That's just the tip of the iceberg. Was going to write 3 books on it all because it's all connected to the failing system. Watching whats going on here is like watching my father get killed all over again. 28yrs he served. He was my hero. She in the end was terrified of me cuz she knew if i found...

aug 28, 2025, 6:05 am • 0 0 • view
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🔥🗽🔥SoCal Redhead🔥🗽🔥 @vlf79.bsky.social

... Out id come for her. She got away with it. Wow i can type that out now and not get 😡😢 it's taken a min to get here.

aug 28, 2025, 6:05 am • 1 0 • view
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Gally22 @gally227.bsky.social

Healing takes time.. and once we start it never stops.

aug 28, 2025, 6:06 am • 2 0 • view
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🔥🗽🔥SoCal Redhead🔥🗽🔥 @vlf79.bsky.social

I know she's guilty because innocent people would never say the things she did. I went digging to prove myself wrong not to confirm. It sadly didn't go that way. I'm kinda more 😡 at the adults who discredited my suspicions back then. I'm crashing need 😴. Catch you all later. 🥰

aug 28, 2025, 6:15 am • 0 0 • view
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Gally22 @gally227.bsky.social

Sleep well my friend!

aug 28, 2025, 6:17 am • 2 0 • view
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patrick6669.bsky.social @patrick6669.bsky.social

My father served many tours. Honestly. My father's last words to me were about his agreement with his wife to treat me like shit. When I was a teenager in the 1980s.

aug 28, 2025, 6:01 am • 2 0 • view
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Gally22 @gally227.bsky.social

Time to do some healing there Patrick.. it’s time!

aug 28, 2025, 6:03 am • 1 0 • view
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patrick6669.bsky.social @patrick6669.bsky.social

I can heal. I will never be what I might have. The only one in my memory who encouraged me wasn't my "parents". He was a Saturn Rocket engineer the math was slightly above me though. I'm more polyglot.

aug 28, 2025, 6:13 am • 1 0 • view
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Gally22 @gally227.bsky.social

Patrick.. we are never who we were meant to be.. but we can certainly become our best versions. We learn to love ourselves and others worthy of our love. ❤️❤️

aug 28, 2025, 6:16 am • 2 0 • view
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patrick6669.bsky.social @patrick6669.bsky.social

I can point (I won't) at many. How can anyone love me when...

aug 28, 2025, 6:22 am • 0 0 • view