Dude, I felt sincerely gob smacked. You....someone who's spent presumably a long time playing DND, are judging someone about how they have fun....

I sincerely wish people had to look back and say that stuff to the little kid version of themselves that probably would have been so excited to have so many people into a game that they like or care aout, ya know?

I'm still pretty happy to meet new players *now*...