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Transphobes Can't Read @lordaslan.bsky.social

Does anyone else cringe when someone says "males" or "females"?

aug 31, 2025, 8:55 pm • 130 10

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Syphist 🏳️‍⚧️ @syphist.bsky.social

Depends. In the scientific concepts explaining sexual dimorphism then it's normal. When using it to speak about humans it's dehumanizing and indeed cringe.

aug 31, 2025, 10:53 pm • 1 0 • view
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farmergilesofham.bsky.social @farmergilesofham.bsky.social

Pov, being on the ground, stared at by a bunch of ferengis.
sep 1, 2025, 10:55 am • 2 0 • view
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Reinout @reinout.bsky.social

Absolutely, unless we're talking about animals.

aug 31, 2025, 9:35 pm • 3 0 • view
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Dredfy @dredfy.bsky.social

But humans ARE animals. We should be consistent.

sep 1, 2025, 3:00 am • 0 0 • view
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Reinout @reinout.bsky.social

Should we eat humans too then, for consistency?

sep 1, 2025, 5:22 am • 0 0 • view
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Dredfy @dredfy.bsky.social

Of course! There are several places and people that already do this. I mean I am consistent by not eating ANY meat but that’s just me. If you’re going to eat animal, it seems stupid to discriminate against human animal.

sep 1, 2025, 3:59 pm • 0 0 • view
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nebulacritter @nebulacritter.bsky.social

YES. DEFINITELY YES.

sep 1, 2025, 12:35 am • 0 0 • view
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Dee Vida @dee-vida.bsky.social

Only when referring to human people

aug 31, 2025, 11:25 pm • 1 0 • view
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Voppie Deluxe @vorpalpaws.bsky.social

Yeag for me it gets to the point where i just think they’re going to start going down the incel pipeline calling women femoids or whatever weird fucking deranged terms they’ll come up with, since it’s just a fucked up us vs them kinda sexist mentality people like that have idk thats the vibes i get

sep 1, 2025, 7:06 am • 1 0 • view
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Voppie Deluxe @vorpalpaws.bsky.social

also reminds me of the fucker on some news channel that was calling that poor pregnant brain dead woman in georgia like a vessel or some insane shit, like idk why but always calling women females give me that feeling too where they’ll dehumanize women even more than what the patriarchy does already

sep 1, 2025, 7:09 am • 1 0 • view
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Gabe Puratekuta, Witch Analyst @gabepuratekuta.bsky.social

If it's not in a conversation of anatomical sciences, then yes.

sep 1, 2025, 1:03 am • 0 0 • view
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Brad from TKPK @bxe123.bsky.social

What if it’s Attenborough?

aug 31, 2025, 10:17 pm • 1 0 • view
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Quilo @quilowisp.bsky.social

Unless you're some taxonomist speaking about animals.

sep 1, 2025, 12:19 am • 0 0 • view
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Ash Vamproot @ashprotogen.bsky.social

Only when it’s followed by a sexist sentence by the words. Otherwise if it’s followed by something supportive I’m all for it.

aug 31, 2025, 9:23 pm • 1 0 • view
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Melanie Jean Nelson 🫘 @flowers4melanie.bsky.social

This is what pops into my mind. 🙄

Image of a Ferengi extraterrestrial from the
sep 1, 2025, 3:09 am • 2 0 • view
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Nik @spaceshipp.bsky.social

4000000% yes I can't even bring myself to say it unless I'm talking about animals or actual biology

aug 31, 2025, 9:00 pm • 6 0 • view
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HeyMickie42 @heymickie42.bsky.social

Every time Most who insist on using it outside of specific scientific discussions never mean well

sep 1, 2025, 4:58 am • 1 0 • view
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Professor Otaku @professorotaku.bsky.social

I always hear it coming from a Ferengi's voice.

aug 31, 2025, 9:15 pm • 2 0 • view
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Kairos (any/all) @doggirlinstem.bsky.social

It feels really weird 😭😭😭

sep 1, 2025, 3:31 am • 2 0 • view
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Shinri Shiogami @jikuutenshonazca.bsky.social

Even if those words weren't hijacked by those online "alpha male" types, it's still awkward to say in regular conversation. Like referring to salt as "sodium chloride."

aug 31, 2025, 9:03 pm • 11 0 • view
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BlueDingus3 @bluedingus3.bsky.social

"Like referring to slat as "sodium chloride""

Skeet from Jimmy Neutron with a speech bubble
aug 31, 2025, 9:36 pm • 7 0 • view
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Shinri Shiogami @jikuutenshonazca.bsky.social

"Actually dude"

aug 31, 2025, 9:37 pm • 2 0 • view
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Kintsugi Kid @nicky9lives.bsky.social

Every time

sep 1, 2025, 11:48 pm • 0 0 • view
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Autistic Game Master (they/them) @theramblerouser.bsky.social

[Maximally autistic] depends on the context

aug 31, 2025, 9:35 pm • 5 0 • view
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Rylee C. @ryleecoyote.bsky.social

Big Ferengi Energy.

Star Trek Ferengi alien smirking and saying
aug 31, 2025, 11:55 pm • 5 0 • view
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Atomic Timmy @atomictimmy.bsky.social

So happy I'm not the only one who immediately thinks of the Ferengi when I hear "females".

sep 1, 2025, 7:56 am • 3 0 • view
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Zoyya @helashandproductions.com

yeah, except in certain very specific contexts, they sound like Ferengi

sep 1, 2025, 2:47 pm • 1 0 • view
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Lycan Ferret @lycanferret.bsky.social

Males and females? Unless they're saying "males/females of our species", yes. Because it's grammatically incorrect. Now male/female clothes/chromosome/organs? That's fine. Because it is also correct.

sep 1, 2025, 2:26 am • 0 0 • view
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Linda Henderson @lincynity.bsky.social

"females" especially. Makes me think of the Ferengi

aug 31, 2025, 10:33 pm • 6 0 • view
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Kicia 🖤🎮🤍💜 @tardiskicia.bsky.social

When I'm referring to armor in a video game (as in male and female version, if the characters are clearly gendered. I am modding Skyrim. Again.) I'm fine with it. Referring to actual humans? Don't like it. Especially if it's "female and man".

aug 31, 2025, 10:00 pm • 1 0 • view
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Fry Incognito @fryincognito.bsky.social

I use male and female exclusively at work when I am trying to find out what kind of terminal connector a customer needs for their wiring.

aug 31, 2025, 11:14 pm • 5 0 • view
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That Jade Life 🏳️‍⚧️ @thatjadelife.bsky.social

When men call women “females”, yes. Though not when people are talking about sex. And I find it more cringy when people use gender and sex interchangeably

sep 1, 2025, 10:49 am • 2 0 • view