QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Can someone tell me again how we carry on in the face of such suffering and relative powerlessness
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Can someone tell me again how we carry on in the face of such suffering and relative powerlessness
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Nah, but thanks. It was just too much.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Having a day where my bones are just leaden. Getting to the pool might’ve helped but it’s a hump I cannot get over today. Boo hoo etc
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None of this would be fun past the first walkthrough (if it ever was then) IDGI.
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Might go for a crossover of yours and the other idea and have it be Satin Teal. Not as imaginative but it’s so variable it gives me room
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Fucking love a duck, too…
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This glaze (same glaze on all of them. I know, I know) is a recipe I got from the studio owner, and there it’s simply called “Teal”, which is fine but I think we could do better. Any ideas? Something teal, or teal something?
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Thanks, couple of these on my list but will look at the others
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I liked Severance but after ep 1 of Slow Horses I was going to give up, is it more of the same?
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Apple TV is so stressful. Every show has the worst synopsis you’ve ever read and stars two of the most famous Hollywood actors. Absolutely no way of sorting out the good from the terrible.
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I find music a very intense thing, even music I like, it takes up like 60% of my mental capacity, it’s not a passive experience for me at all. Music I don’t like is just so draining. I might cry.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
I slept really badly because the church near us inexplicably holds loud services overnight on a Friday (like 11pm-6am, with full PA system, drums, the lot). Then, ridiculously, I was awoken by AN OWL. Cleaned the bath, lit a candle, got in… next door have chosen this moment to blast generic pop.
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Ok the wet clay portion of this is almost done. I have one more day, I think, and then it’s just firing and glazing stuff. Tomorrow.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
I am really, really trying to finish this project I started and it is very hard to get myself to do the final push and not wander away to start something fresh!
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Been for a swim, didn’t do too badly, got a (microwave, but still) curry & naan, a cold Pepsi max and The Godfather Part II. Not bad work.
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Sure but I more meant financial crime is the only thing that’ll likely bring regulation in at all
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
My swimming pool currently has no lane ropes. It’s a three lane, 20m pool, the fast lane is in the middle. This is going to go very, very badly.
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Gonna have to have this for breakfast tomorrow now, shan’t be sated without it
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
I haven’t figured out a complimentary body yet, but I think this may be a winner of a lid style
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Hey how come all grief lives in one big bucket, and if you get a little new grief it’s all the grief all at once. What’s that about huh
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Thought this was rather familiar until I realised who you were 😂 thank you. I know I shouldn’t be nervous, I wouldn’t be friends with a bigot anyway, but once burned etc
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Normally I would not give a fuck but I’m slightly traumatised by having my best friend turn out to secretly be a terf for a LONG time and kept silent on it
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
After furiously avoiding discussing myself in any way I’ve finally come out as non-binary to the potter group chat. These people have known me like two years lmao pray for me
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Ahhh of course, this will be how we defeat it in the end
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
I have been to therapy, which was at least semi-productive (no mean feat with my panicky body atm) and am now walking back in the rain, which smells very good.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Picked up a little pendant at the ceramic fair at the weekend, bought myself a new chain. I’ll probably wear the chain often & the pendant just sometimes.
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Flattery I will take! I am somehow 40, which is an achievement really but I may well start lying anyway
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Thank you!!
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Would you believe me if I told you I was 35
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Thank you :)
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Thank you!
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For my birthday I got a do-all trimming tool, a scraper, some coveted stamps, a very good sieve and a proper good banding wheel! I have to share this with you all bc you’ll understand my excitement lol
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Thank you :)
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This makes up for the lack of profile balloons!
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Thank you, the pottery supply place is benefitting 😂
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Ty ty x
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Thank you friend
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Thanks lovely
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Ty!
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It’s my birthday but this place doesn’t have balloons!
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Two days later is the worst for me for anything muscular. Gardening is 48 hours like clockwork
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Needs a pot imo 😬😂
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Genuinely, well done. 💖
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Not if it’s already been fired once, no. People use sintered glaze as additives in clay; I imagine there’s some testing but as a general rule it’s not introducing any liquid
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Small wins: this week I managed a GP appointment and a haircut, despite the not-remotely-abating panic I’m facing at every turn. The former was just a clusterfuck, the latter took a triple PRN and was still terrible, but they are both done.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
You do sometimes have to enforce the rest/napping, they are not v good at it!
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It mightn’t be minor enough but I have cubical tunnel so I must swim less (none) front crawl only I have a bad knee made worse by breaststroke and walking so that’s basically everything. And I have PMT so I’m furious 😬😂
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Yeah this’ll use some, definitely
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I can’t see any reason it would do this? I have limited use for grog really but I can’t see any reason not to use it this way
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Aside from therapeutically smashing them, are there any uses for pieces of pottery that are not up to scratch? I am not likely to bother with mosaic stuff honestly, and I can’t imagine it’s worth the postage for anyone who is?
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Might not be up at launch but do hope to have a FAQ at some point
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Ceramics has you realising you have to think about where cobalt is coming from and trying to sub local ingredients in glaze recipes when a single mine in California runs out and closes!
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
This is a good point. Raw materials are subject to import in some cases so you can imagine what that’s like atm!
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Up to now I’ve operated a policy of ‘if you can’t afford this, contact me and we’ll work smth out’, but that’s probably less feasible if I move to a website. I will continue to think about it though. In the meantime I shall have to bite the bullet and decide on a pricing structure!
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
I think the balance is that what I make is a luxury (shouldn’t be, but is) and I don’t like the idea of pricing out my peers. But that might be something I cannot reasonably accomplish.
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I’m such a socialist I’m struggling lmao
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
D is building me a website, slowly, and I’m shortly going to have to have to decide on a pricing structure for my work. I’ve been keeping it pretty low, I think I’m going to have to up my prices a bit. This is tough!
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It RAINED and I was COLD 🥳
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah honestly if you weren’t feeling like this it would be odd after the time you’ve had x
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Thank you. Just venting. Back to regular scheduled programme (clay) shortly
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Gave myself a full fortnight of not doing anything overly anxiety-inducing (ie everything outside the house) to see if I could get my body to calm down a bit and… it’s no better. Stuff I’ve done before, stuff I want to do, stuff I’m not worried about? Doesn’t matter, body panics. I’m stuck.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Shall we try to get out of bed and get breakfast? There’s crumpets.
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Yeah, I would hope the ME community of all groups would know better than to perpetuate the kind of harmful ideas that have been levied against them incessantly. But it is complex, me/cfs is largely in this hole because of a handful of prominent UK psychiatrists using just that framing.
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The ‘we are REALLY sick’ crowd can get to fuck, obviously. There’s like a hundred reasons to campaign for the truth about me/cfs to be found & well known, and none of it needs to mention validity at all
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Validity is a nonsense framing for this really. The assertion of me/cfs as solely/primarily psychological in nature has done untold harm, and is still a huge problem, one that affects treatment and research.
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Appreciate this!
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Wild spinach
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I’m standing outside the GP Surgery waiting to be called, and there’s a guy waiting out here too, but the automatic door is broken so it keeps swinging open and we both swivel our heads like a couple of fucking owls every 4 seconds
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Thank you!
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I made this little cup as a tester for various things, and it’s far from perfect (need new lettering for a start), but it’s quickly become my new favourite thing.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Interesting. Not had two people pick out the same one yet!
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The tall one? Hate it 🤣
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Wax melt burners in all their glory. I am pretty pleased; first substantial bunch of work thrown, trimmed, finished, glazed & fired all by my own hands that I’m proud of. Got a favourite? #pottery
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If you’re in the market for a wax melt burner BOY am I gonna be the potter for you in 2-7 days
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Omggggg everything came out p welllll
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The last 50° of a kiln cooling gotta be the worst in terms of patience
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Ah this sucks. I am not a handle expert but my teacher basically just uses water, and barely any of it at that, and his seem fine, doesn’t babysit them really at all. Worth trying less is more approach wrt slip maybe?
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
The Jean Pormanove/Raphaël Graven story is absolutely fucking abysmal.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Trying to get my bisqueware glazed and my in-progress projects wrapped up for a fresh start for September. Be nice to start a new block at the community studio at the same time as new work at home. To that end, the kiln is on again!
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Ah it’s ok, thank you, some people do like to hold onto their stuff… I just enjoy comparing and contrasting!
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It’s easy to forget how different it was, esp here I think, I got served buying alcopops in an Alldays when I was 13 🤷🏼
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Do you have the glaze recipe by any chance? I’m a magpie of white recipes
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Do you think it’s true that there’s less available media/accounts of psychological/emotional maltreatment within the community? I haven’t really read a lot from people further on that resonates with me, personally
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
Duckweed testers… so much promise over the dolomite but it wants to crawl… unsure whether to risk it on smth larger… didn’t crawl last time… hmmm
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
The dolomite white is still too thick — actually already fixed this for next time — but the spearmint with the change is MUCH better. Look at the contrast; so pleased I made a fresh batch with amended ingredients. And the dipping version of that nice blue is… idk man, idfk
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social) reply parent
The iron red is happy and lovely on the outside, miserable inside the lid, not entirely sure what to amend there yet. Transparent still working beautifully, the inside of this bowl was a clusterfuck 😂
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These two were *almost* perfect - both came out with a tiny smattering of blistering. White I could fix in application, but it’s not a glaze I’m going to keep making. Underglaze is a WIP.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Just finished another glaze firing! Learning a lot. These were successful! The blue is a paint-on glaze though, so I hope to replace that with one I can make myself. The teal is performing well. I need better letter stamps.
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Hey, happy birthday x
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💖 rest rest x
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Anyone have an opinion on ‘slow’ vs ‘medium’ bisque firing? Nothing is thick or sculptural or remotely wet, so I’ve been choosing medium because it’s more convenient and seems fine, but figured it’s worth an ask! FWIW: small electric Skutt ^04 #pottery #potters
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QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Hooooo my body is not happy. I get “overuse” injuries all the time despite doing almost nothing, but not usually all at once. The cubical tunnel is a constant but rn I also have a knee I can’t go up a step on, a sore hip on the other side and my back is stiff, threatening to spasm.
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Took my cubical tunnel arm and my inexplicably bad knee for a swim and came out with a sore hip flexor 😂
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Glazing aside, the wax burner deep dive is all but done. What will I throw next 🤔
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Gave the consultant my wife’s phone number and explained that I do not answer or talk on the phone so she’s booked a telephone consultation 👍🏼
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The one on the left may end up in the reclaim yet 😂 and ty, it’s always interesting to hear what people like
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
Finally got enough energy to go to the pool but I’ve got a bad knee 🤬 having to force myself to be sensible, I’ll swim through pain (else I’d never go) but can’t currently get up a step with that leg so probably best not
QuietQueer (@quietqueer.bsky.social)
I don’t think these will become part of my regular rotation of things to make, but since someone requested one I tried a bunch of different styles. These are the last four of nine total.
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I’m perfectly content to be that way with combinations etc but at the moment I’m still developing glazes right from scratch, it’s that steep curve combined with my general apathy for the thing 😂