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R.L. Stollar

@rlstollar.bsky.social

Child liberation theologian, child and survivor advocate. Learn more about my work: www.rlstollar.com. He/him.

created July 23, 2023

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Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"They believe God ordains and brings about child rape and murder for God’s own self-glory." ~ @rickpidcock.bsky.social baptistnews.com/article/here...

5/9/2025, 3:22:48 AM | 12 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Homeschool abuse cases are the worst type of deja vu.

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4/9/2025, 2:08:14 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

I'd recommend @bradleyonishi.bsky.social and @abbinye.bsky.social.

4/9/2025, 3:35:41 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Christin (@christinh.bsky.social) reposted

I grew up in conservative christianity and am now a liberal parent. My parents always said I would understand being treated like property once I had my own kids, but the opposite is true - it is unconscionable and dangerous that children are not given rights and autonomy. Thank you for writing this

2/9/2025, 8:10:35 PM | 120 14 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Mike Baker (@mikebaker.bsky.social) reposted

Teens calling Idaho's suicide hotline are being told they can't proceed with the conversation without parental consent. Many of the callers are then hanging up. Idaho approved a strict parental consent law last year. idahocapitalsun.com/2025/08/29/i...

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2/9/2025, 2:52:51 PM | 3122 1403 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Kirby (@kirbytheawsum.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

religiondispatches.org/the-american...

2/9/2025, 11:54:06 PM | 3 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Kirby (@kirbytheawsum.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

Cant talk about this without the Family Research Council & plethora of international "pro-family' orgs working against rights globally. Jennifer wrigley's old thesis is a great primer. @rlstollar.bsky.social is an expert on this topic. Of note US rejoined Geneva Consensus Declaration (nonUN doc).

2/9/2025, 11:15:28 PM | 5 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Karen Attiah (@karenattiah.bsky.social) reposted

I wrote about how the U.S. refuses to ratify the UN Convention of the Rights of the Child. "ParentalRights.org is an organization that has been actively campaigning against U.S. ratification of “dangerous U.N conventions that “threaten parental rights” www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-p...

2/9/2025, 6:26:56 PM | 314 115 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Sexuality at the Chronic Illness Store (@morgan666.bsky.social) reposted

This. Children are not weapons. Children are not property. Children desperately *need* the freedom to exist for themselves--not for their parents' causes.

1/9/2025, 6:27:36 PM | 14 5 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Ahab (@ahabofgilead.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

We’re already seeing that solution in action. How many fundamentalist homeschool families have children who deconverted, or sought out a more progressive version of Christianity, or embraced left-leaning politics?

1/9/2025, 3:58:22 PM | 14 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture zaratustra (@zaratustra.bsky.social) reposted

"chatGPT 5 is like having a bunch of phds in your pocket" here's ten trillion dollars "bluesky is having an *actual* bunch of phds in your pocket" dying platform. it disgusts me

1/9/2025, 10:39:58 AM | 2696 378 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture The GrindDad (@grinddad.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

Their surety is telling that their authority and training is what will carry each of their offspring into conservatism.

1/9/2025, 2:19:45 PM | 6 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

The solution to Christofascists trying to outbreed progressives isn't progressives outbreeding Christofascists. Arms races of children only harm children. The solution is deradicalizing Christofascists' children and creating safety nets and support networks for when they leave.

1/9/2025, 2:15:06 PM | 80 19 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture I.B. Blackman Ed.S (@afrikanfengshui.bsky.social) reposted

“The overwhelming majority of child sexual predators are male (94%) and the majority are white (58%). This is according to the United States Sentencing Commission in 2021.”

31/8/2025, 11:06:04 PM | 3 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Brent Snavely (@brentasnavely.bsky.social) reposted

hidden in plain view

31/8/2025, 11:28:26 AM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

From 1978: "The adult heterosexual male constitutes a greater risk to the underage child than does the adult homosexual male."

31/8/2025, 3:38:18 AM | 8 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Tim-my Eat World 😋🌍🎶 (@t2thacoops.bsky.social) reposted

other language for this phenomenon might be 'folks used to trusting narcissistic systems can only feel safe when they see their own personality quirks reflected & mimicked back at them'

30/8/2025, 9:19:21 PM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Three thoughts: 1. Compulsive sexual behavior and unhealthy porn use are real, but "porn addiction" is not. 2. Abuse is not the result of porn use. Abuse is the result of abusers abusing. 3. Purity culture harms survivors and survivor advocacy.

30/8/2025, 11:53:12 PM | 9 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Lee Heffner (@leeheffer.bsky.social) reposted

2. The overwhelming majority of child sexual predators are male (94%) and the majority are white (58%). This is according to the United States Sentencing Commission in 2021.

30/8/2025, 8:06:05 PM | 7 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Conservatives only think children are blessings when they are carbon copies of themselves.

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30/8/2025, 9:06:52 PM | 13 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

There are many myths and stereotypes about sexual predators who prey on children. These myths and stereotypes are not harmless.

30/8/2025, 8:03:01 PM | 29 7 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture edifiedlistener.bsky.social (@edifiedlistener.bsky.social) reposted

"Only 10 percent of child molesters molest children that they don’t know. We must come to terms with the heartbreaking reality that those who pose the greatest risk to our children are within our families, churches, and circle of friends.” This.

30/8/2025, 7:18:00 PM | 37 14 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

I would partially agree. Not all child molesters are pedophiles, or people who are sexually attracted to children. Some abuse children because they love power and some abuse children because they are the easiest target in their communities. But pedophiles certainly exist.

30/8/2025, 7:55:22 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Stephen Charles (@stephenvcharles.com) reposted

Tracks with non immigrant male teachers, clergy and LEOs we see often in the news.

30/8/2025, 7:47:07 PM | 3 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Joel Cunningham (@joelevard.com) reposted

If you read the r/AdultSurvivors subreddit, you'll find a lot of "my mom/dad/sibling/trusted family friend molested me for a decade" posts. You will not find any "a trans person assaulted me in a bathroom" posts

30/8/2025, 7:01:44 PM | 15 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture D.L. Mayfield (they/them) (@dlmayfield.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

From here: strongwilled.substack.com/p/chapter-15...

30/8/2025, 3:55:42 PM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture D.L. Mayfield (they/them) (@dlmayfield.bsky.social) reposted

"Spanking — whether it was ritualized or not — created not just compliant children, but children with disorganized attachment to their caregivers. It blurred the lines, on purpose, between what was abuse and what wasn’t, and taught children to equate pain from godly authority figures as love."

30/8/2025, 3:55:24 PM | 33 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"I was told that if I didn’t go to work, or if I did the job poorly, my baby siblings (3 of them at the time) would be starving on the streets."

30/8/2025, 6:01:26 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Kellye Burke (@kellyetx.bsky.social) reposted

In summary, the average child sexual predator’s profile is: married, male, white, heterosexual, religious, surrounded by friends and family, and a parent.

30/8/2025, 4:18:24 PM | 781 370 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

My favorite line: "Government regulation is poison. Self-regulation is like manna from heaven." 🤣

30/8/2025, 4:18:54 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Eleven years ago, homeschool alum Thomas Umstattd declared fellow homeschool alumni "a bigger threat to homeschooling than any teacher’s union." Not child abusers. Not leaders promoting child abuse. But rather the homeschool alumni calling them out.

30/8/2025, 3:56:47 PM | 9 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Child Liberation Theology (@childliberation.bsky.social) reposted

"Rational or impressive as our adult theologies may be, if they are hurting children, Jesus cares little for them. He would rather such theologies sink to the bottom of the ocean."

30/8/2025, 3:14:33 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Amy Ferrell (@amyshadow.bsky.social) reposted

"In summary, the average child sexual predator’s profile is: married, male, white, heterosexual, religious, surrounded by friends and family, and a parent. If you put that all together, you get the average, church-going husband or father—the very person many faith communities think is safest..."

30/8/2025, 2:19:12 PM | 34 13 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Jack Crabtree wants to know what “neighbor” means in the original Greek; Ada Maria Isasi-Diaz wants to find her neighbor and free her.

30/8/2025, 3:06:50 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"It’s not unusual for ‘hard-core’ child molesters — with more sexual-offense convictions, more victims and younger victims — to be well-respected members of Christian congregations, and to be actively involved as church leaders."

30/8/2025, 1:23:40 PM | 13 5 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"When people get angry with their children or grandchildren, they used to hit them physically or curse them verbally, but now we are teaching them the dharma about non-violence."

30/8/2025, 12:33:42 PM | 10 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

Agreed!

30/8/2025, 12:16:43 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Child Liberation Theology (@childliberation.bsky.social) reposted

"The average child sexual predator’s profile is: married, male, white, heterosexual, religious, surrounded by friends and family, and a parent. If you put that all together, you get the average, church-going husband or father."

30/8/2025, 12:15:01 PM | 11 6 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

If you care about protecting children from abuse, it is necessary that you understand who the actual child sexual predators are.

30/8/2025, 12:08:43 PM | 81 27 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

A child protection policy is not something you create once, post online, and then forget about. You have to review and assess and update it annually and actually implement it in your interactions with children.

29/8/2025, 10:32:09 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Thinking of Tegan Giesel, who we lost 5 years ago. We've lost so many brilliant and passionate homeschool alumni. 💔🕯️

29/8/2025, 7:55:36 PM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Before exvangelicals and deconstruction, there was...

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29/8/2025, 5:47:50 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"We lived in three places where the churches we attended never checked on us. Like, we had one car and my dad had it all the time and no one once asked if we need help going to the doctor, grocery shopping, or if we wanted to have a play date."

29/8/2025, 5:26:55 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"All theology has to start with self-disclosure." ~Ada Maria Isasi-Diaz

29/8/2025, 5:13:07 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Rebecca Diamond ✡️🧶🇺🇸🇨🇦 (@rebeccadiamond.online) reposted

I was safe from school shootings by being homeschooled! I wasn't safe from incestuous rape, sexual molestation, physical abuse so horrific I'm permanently disabled, damage that led to cPTSD, religious trauma, emotional abuse, etc. But hey, I didn't get shot, only burned/punched/beaten/ripped open.

29/8/2025, 2:27:51 PM | 10 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"Growing up, my mother told us nothing about sex. Nothing. As girls, she didn’t educate us about having your period, bras, body changes, nothing."

29/8/2025, 1:09:01 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Homeschoolers have always used school shootings as marketing. After the 1999 school shooting at Columbine, Howard Richman from PA Homeschoolers wrote, "With the increase in school violence we have a new bumper sticker, ‘Homeschool: The Safe Alternative.'”

29/8/2025, 12:58:45 PM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Child Liberation Theology (@childliberation.bsky.social) reposted

“It’s not just about the way we raise children, but also advocating for issues that matter to children, whether those are issues like food insecurity, access to medical care and poverty."

29/8/2025, 12:39:59 PM | 4 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

Mainly acquaintances and relatives (and rarely strangers)... web.archive.org/web/20090126....

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29/8/2025, 4:23:27 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Tori Williams Douglass (@toriglass.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

zero percent surprising. “families solve everything” is absolute garbage ideology.

29/8/2025, 3:36:41 AM | 10 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

In the United States, sixty-one percent of murdered children under 5 years old are killed by their own parents: 30% by their mothers and 31% by their fathers. Source: psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/....

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29/8/2025, 3:34:05 AM | 13 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

It is true that political violence transcends demographics, but it is equally true that rightwing extremists perpetrate the vast majority of political violence in the United States. Both truths deserve our attention.

29/8/2025, 2:37:02 AM | 2 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"It is unusual for federal border agents to make arrests during the fighting of an active fire." "Unusual" might be an understatement.

28/8/2025, 10:36:45 PM | 4 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Child Liberation Theology (@childliberation.bsky.social) reposted

"It’s important to create space for children not just to know that disobedience can be good and holy, but also to give them opportunities to practice this."

28/8/2025, 10:28:40 PM | 4 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Brent Snavely (@brentasnavely.bsky.social) reposted

...some people should probably take a look at their youth ministers...

28/8/2025, 8:35:55 PM | 6 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

The traditional nuclear family has been the site of the majority of child abuse—with parents as the primary perpetrators.

28/8/2025, 8:01:38 PM | 10 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Whereas homeschool alumni had to spend our actual childhood acting like adults and being paraded around as mature, we now spend our actual adulthood being rejected as immature children who are simply bitter at our parents.

28/8/2025, 7:42:56 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture 𝓕𝓲𝓻𝓮𝔂 𝓣𝓸𝓹𝓪𝔃 (@fireytopaz.bsky.social) reposted

Way too many people see their children as property. Children are little PEOPLE🤦‍♀️ Why are you treating people like property? Is it because they're smaller than you? Because that would make you a piece of shit bully.

28/8/2025, 5:28:42 PM | 19 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

I've seen so many liberal and progressive homeschoolers who believe children are their property as well.

28/8/2025, 5:20:48 PM | 15 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Three times as many children are shot in domestic violence incidents as in school shootings and eight times as many die. The majority of these children are intentionally shot by a parent, stepparent, or guardian.

28/8/2025, 5:16:46 PM | 8 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

I apologize, I forgot the alt text. It is a screenshot of the title of this article titled "James Dobson was right all along about the family" by J.P. De Gance for Religion News Service: religionnews.com/2025/08/27/j...

28/8/2025, 1:55:34 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

As one of @rns.org's "new leaders in the world of faith to follow in 2025," I would like you to follow me in questioning their decision to publish this opinion piece praising child abuse apologist and animal abuser James Dobson as "prophetic" and "right."

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28/8/2025, 1:53:15 PM | 12 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Bruce Lesley (@brucelesley.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

Democratic consultants need to learn the lesson… The Party of Neglect: When Democrats Forget About Kids open.substack.com/pub/bruceles... (2)

27/8/2025, 1:07:08 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Bruce Lesley (@brucelesley.bsky.social) reposted

How did Catelin Drey (D-IA) resoundingly overturn that Iowa State Senate seat by double digits? Drey (Moms for Iowa) made children’s issues, including public education, health care, and children’s care, a centerpiece of her campaign. Children’s issues > culture wars #VoteKids (1)

27/8/2025, 1:05:29 PM | 5 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"Republicans dominated the 2024 narrative with fearmongering about trans kids and 'parental rights,' while many Democrats offered little affirmative vision for families. This silence is political malpractice." ~ @brucelesley.bsky.social

28/8/2025, 1:37:32 PM | 4 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Homeschooling parents (and their leaders and lobbying organizations) love making grandiose claims about the impact of homeschooling on their children. Actual homeschool alumni outcomes, on the other hand, tend to be more nuanced and complicated.

27/8/2025, 11:58:46 PM | 7 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

He was a child abuse apologist who beat a dachshund with a belt. This opinion is not worth publication.

27/8/2025, 11:54:12 PM | 18 5 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Daniel - Desert Apostate (@hcexvangelical.bsky.social) reposted

Ugh...Come on, RNS. You're next article about the unholy eugenist father of animal and child abuse better be something like this:

27/8/2025, 10:24:17 PM | 8 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

This is extremely disappointing from @rns.org.

27/8/2025, 10:09:18 PM | 17 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"Similar to the gun lobby’s refusal to concede any regulation despite its popularity, HSLDA considers any restriction of homeschooling to be a nonstarter."

27/8/2025, 4:46:36 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"Children under 15 years old made up almost a third of outpatients treated for wounds in field hospitals run by Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) in Gaza last year, statistics published in The Lancet reveal."

27/8/2025, 4:14:24 PM | 2 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"Doctors, nurses, or teachers typically notice these cases and report them, but since the child was not in school or may have been homeschooled, the pregnancy went unnoticed."

27/8/2025, 2:05:02 PM | 19 9 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Ah, we've reached this point.

A screenshot of a Fox News video with the title,
27/8/2025, 3:58:53 AM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Dr. Bradley Onishi (@bradleyonishi.bsky.social) reposted

States rights is now a Democratic issue. The GOP is all in on a big invasive federal government. The parties have switched places in real time before our eyes. The question is whether the Dems can build infrastructures of resistance to hurt the dying dictator and his wannabe successors.

27/8/2025, 2:41:34 AM | 72 22 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Pretty much. 🤷🏻‍♂️

27/8/2025, 2:38:17 AM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture economymedicine.bsky.social (@economymedicine.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

Homeschool lobby is incredibly powerful and has gotten rid of a bunch of child protections because a lot of them think children are property and society has no role in protecting them. To train up a child and other abuse manuals are frequently followed. I loathe them.

26/8/2025, 7:17:49 PM | 28 5 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Snowden St. (@snowden.st) reposted reply parent

absolutely, and it’s been a blindspot in the world for a long time, any effort to center children runs in the face of millenia of assumptions. RL’s got some great resources on the particular war that homeschoolers have had against anyone trying to protect children

26/8/2025, 7:14:35 PM | 18 4 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Snowden St. (@snowden.st) reposted reply parent

i don’t know if you’ve ever encountered @rlstollar.bsky.social’s work, but he’s an ex-homeschooler who is a child advocate (and child liberation theologian). i think he’s doing incredibly important work.

26/8/2025, 7:10:15 PM | 14 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture ellie lockhart (she/they) (@eleanor.lockhart.contact) reposted

if you're wondering how the government could possibly have become so cruel, you should be aware that where they got it from is the religious right culture where you're property of your parents until age 18, which is fully enabled by our society's laws and rules. it's a dehumanizing system of abuse.

26/8/2025, 6:46:01 PM | 186 37 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Bi King Gent 👑 💖💜💙 (@thesnarkygent.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

After a century and change of witnessing just how utter a piece of shit the Evangelical movement is, the audacity of men like him in not even waiting a minute before explaining their latest plan in helping us stupid heathens and apostates finally learn how to be moral upstanding citizens.

26/8/2025, 5:41:14 AM | 5 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Alan Noble using the death of James Dobson to preach about how much we need evangelical institutions is Will Estrada-level bullshit. Just, like, spit in your friends' and survivors' faces while you're at it.

26/8/2025, 5:50:03 AM | 10 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

Never-ending. 🫠

26/8/2025, 5:44:01 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"The need for evangelical institutions is not going to go away." As a Christian, I completely disagree. There's zero need for evangelical institutions.

26/8/2025, 5:20:27 AM | 17 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

To evangelicals, parental rights mean more than adults having duties towards the children they bring into existence. Parental rights mean ownership. Children literally belong to, or are property of, their parents.

26/8/2025, 2:18:31 AM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Child Liberation Theology (@childliberation.bsky.social) reposted

"Liberation theologies have tended to focus on suffering and marginalized adults. Where are the children in liberation theologies?"

26/8/2025, 2:09:29 AM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"It’s not unusual for 'hard-core' child molesters — with more sexual-offense convictions, more victims and younger victims — to be well-respected members of Christian congregations, and to be actively involved as church leaders."

25/8/2025, 10:22:36 PM | 22 6 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social) reply parent

The Memphis-Area Home Education Association has no child protection policy posted on their website.

25/8/2025, 10:05:39 PM | 3 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Andreus Shannon, a basketball coach for the evangelical Memphis-Area Home Education Association (MHEA), was sentenced to 144 months in federal prison for traveling in interstate commerce to engage in sexual activity with a minor and stalking.

25/8/2025, 10:05:39 PM | 3 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"The worst part of Dobson’s cruel legacy was not the pain — it was the shame and the erosion of safety in a generation of children."

25/8/2025, 6:35:12 PM | 7 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture rdarinmbob.bsky.social (@rdarinmbob.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

This 100% reflects what I knew growing up, and what now, as a parent, I've tried my hardest to never be or do. Dobson and people like him really damaged alot of us. The whole 'I'm doing this out of love' really doesn't ring true when you're getting the shit beat out of you.

25/8/2025, 2:22:16 PM | 7 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Child Liberation Theology (@childliberation.bsky.social) reposted

Seeking alternative approaches to children and childhood for your family, faith community, or religious organization that eschew the authoritarianism of James Dobson? Check out @rlstollar.bsky.social's book "The Kingdom of Children" from @eerdmansbooks.bsky.social: www.amazon.com/Kingdom-Chil....

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Profile picture Marie-Pierre Cleret (@marie-pierre.bsky.social) reposted

Are we really surprised?

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Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"[Dobson] mainstreamed authoritarian parenting, then helped translate it into politics. What started as family 'discipline' became the foundation for an entire culture of obedience — one that extended into pulpits, voting booths, and national policy."

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Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

"A United Nations-backed hunger monitor confirmed for the first time that more than half a million people were experiencing famine in northern Gaza – the first such designation ever recorded in the Middle East."

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Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

Snoop Dogg, defender of family values.

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Profile picture Ediewings (@ediewings.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

The family I grew up in used corporal punishment. I cannot ever imagine doing so to my child. Has what I lived with as a child caused harm? Yes. To all five of us. I also believe it hurt both my parents.

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Profile picture R.L. Stollar (@rlstollar.bsky.social)

To evangelical homeschoolers, child protection will never be a proper use of government.

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Profile picture Taylor Grayson (@taylorgrayson.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

An acquaintance of mine had some mental health issues as a kid and his fundamentalist parents decided he was possessed by the devil and subjected him to frequent beatings. He's still dealing with the aftermath 20 years later.

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