Smart, sceptical observer, SisterVillain and prolific storyteller and writer. Read my work as NatalieSugabelle on Medium.com.
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Best I've had in YEARS! I'd seen 'em for $6-7 earlier in the season but I'd opted for larger ones for the same price. This was $4.99. My luck has been so bad picking watermelons that I just plan & make Drunken Watermelon off-rip! At least it's always gonna be sweet & I can get tipsy too! 🥴
Y'all! These Black Diamond watermelons are The TRUTH! Sweet all the way down to the rind! Am I the last to know about these? Kroger $4.99 #foodsky
My hints fall on deaf ears because rescues have happened for decades, thru raising their own kids, almost into senior citizenry. Even the 20-something grandkids were told they are OWED family help & rescue. Too bad it'll come from the 'mean' relatives but hard lessons usually do!
I know someone who never worries, counting on a huge inheritance when the Matriarch dies. Not only ain't gettin' nothing, but familial support can't wait to stop! Beeeeeen mad that one slacker always got taken care of, never became self-reliant, cautious or $aved. Huge, cruel surprise is PLANNED.
Real life Call of Duty the Upper Echelon are eager to play from secure locations where return fire can't reach them. But ICE as Grand Theft Auto, is what they're telegraphing to Y'al-Quaida to get ready to do on American streets to guess who? 🥷🏾 Other countries don't think this is cute or funny.
Oh, and thoroughness. Show no mercy and leave no remnants.
There has to be. It's the only thing they understand. I just hope all things converge for the good: skill, planning, opportunity and circumstance.
Yeah, I think every Black woman learns this the first time she applies any ol' sunscreen she bought on clearance for her first Caribbean vacation! Or she comes home 3-5 shades darker and can't wear any of her foundations or powders! Help your Sistuhs with good sunscreen brand names & pics, please!
When you have an important job where people have to trust you, don't have a gimmick look. Who would trust a mf'er who looks in the mirror and says,"Yeah, this looks good!" What ELSE can't you see and properly assess?!
You've been told the truth repeatedly...ironically, straight from a liar's mouth. "I grab 'em by the pussy. March to the Capital, take this country. I'll pardon 'patriots'. I'll be a dictator on Day One." Unethical, immoral people know truth is irrelevant without a violent consequence.
Four funerals in 11 mos, learning that 4 cousins had passed in recent years of No Contact while living through my own hard times...has reinforced my pragmatism. I remember fondly but all were grown, lived as they kinda wanted so...I don't consider them tragedies. We are here but a season.
I put on Modern Family, Parks & Rec, The Office and Seinfeld for background noise, comfort and familiarity when I'm in danger of spiraling out... they're everywhere, all the time and all at once.
Because all the reporters work for media moguls who take calls telling them to 'Catch & Kill' the stories! Don't you remember?
Russell Wilson putting a ring on a finger and proudly fathering ALL the kids puts all 💩 🥷🏾 Future's fans to shame! Go 'head, Ciara! You snagged a real one.🏆👨🏾🍼
No sense of pride, dignity or decorum at all! But remember they called Michelle Obama 'ghetto' for installing a vegetable garden?
And to use all the war toys they've all been wanting. The Felon creams at the thought of directing hellfire, walking amongst admiring troops and going on tv bragging about killing while other countries grovel. MAGAts are aligned to making all his little dick dreams come true before he dies!
I'd do the first and second season...
👶🏾Ooo, I got the best of both, especially the brain DNA, but this couple is way too damn young!
I love that he's still excited yet humbly taking pre-instruction! He's gon' always get it!🦵🏾
Niecy is my full-lipped cousin (in my head)!
Yes, people need jobs AND to understand not to play with any or everybody! Waffle House: Don't start none, won't be none! Team:NevaHadAProblem
Doesn't Waddle House also hire felons?
If our first date was RenFaire? Hell yeah! I've been trying to find a man willing to try different things that ain't JUST sexual!! The more thought he put into the costume, the more likely he'll get lucky!💃🏽
Something Stevie Nicks or Fleetwood Mac, baby! Or anything from the '80s.
Yeah, just read a little about this...big shock at the end, eh?!
Saw a tv/doc about them a while back and they were sooooo cool! Reminded me of a coffee table book on Black Cowboys I bought (by chance) for a friend who didn't know about Bass Reeve. I totally didn't know he would be that interested. His daughters told me how he LOVED my silly gift at his funeral.
At every turn men prove 1. There are no 'nice guys' (just ones whose villainy has yet to be discovered) and 2. Why women would rather take our chances happening upon a bear in the woods than any random man
My Sistuh in dislike of ol' Lightbulb Head, good to meetcha!!
Her family member friend who developed the app for the $200M.
😅This is such a 'Dad left alone with the kids, watch what he has them doing' moment! 😂 I guess he's showing her how not to be afraid but...no way I could be that Mom just sliding past my baby wrangling a snake while Daddy films! Australians are special!
I am solidly middle age and still am baffled by selfishness because, even at my lowest, I will share. While others have more than enough that they wouldn't miss a little given freely to the needy and just... WON'T. I swear I'm smart, well-educated with a background in light psychology...still
Head-turning, Fine, way younger-looking than I am broads like me take the elevator one flight up cuz we just got diagnosed with arthritis in one hip, lower spine and some other moving part. 🌈Consider invisible difficulties that ain't quite disabilities
Racists are chomping and the bit, sooo desperate to impose martial law and get the race war started! If they can use a military massacre of Blacks in Detroit, they think the rest of the country would fall in line behind The Felon's authoritarian reign. He could cancel midterms & the general easier.
Aww, you're definitely gonna have sinus trouble coming to The D!
And you slept well in the cool evenings after sunshine-y summer days, didn'tcha?! 😉💃🏽
Greed always trips up the greedy. It's not enough that you're double-dipping great pensions. It's not enough that you have multiple houses. It's not even sufficient that you make $280k a year. No, you've gotta NOT show up for the job AND cheat to save a measly $1,300 a year in property tax!
Hey Dug, nice work in multiple media!
Then why is the pic of the white woman killed by her father in Idaho, seemingly NOT because she was trans featured? Black erasure comes in so many subtle forms. Please post the pic of the Black woman killed in Detroit on the Detroit Feed.
So Adams' ugly Black mug can be the face telling people Section 8 has ended! The Felon is not even kindergarten-level slick.
Why do I love this: a Black marching band and the Black dancers but HATE 😡 HATE 😤 HATE 🤬 HATE with the fire of 1000 suns Black frat stomps and callouts (Black sororities too)?!
I just read your profile. Are you, by any chance, Canadian 🤔🧐 That would explain your tactic cuz that Would NOT Work in the U.S.!
You have a lot of faith in people knowing proper public behavior, making honest errors and understanding the concept of shame.
I knew it as soon as I saw his ugly ass shuckin' and jivin' while invoking slavery: pretty Black girls didn't want no parts of him in his formative years. From Clarence Thomas to Tim Scott to this mug, somehow we gotta get to ugly Black Nerds before they grow up so hateful of their own people!
Michigan, w/notorious potholey roads, already charges larger vehicles more for license tags & high gas price$ for roads! It's about who dictates the spend how once the funds are in the pot. And if Big Auto, doesn't want good public transport, EVs, walkable cities, you won't get 'em! Auto influence.
Just a variation of my mother's words (with too many n-words thrown in): People don't change, they just rearrange things so they don't get caught the same way. My finesse: People only change if: 1. They go to jail 2. It costs them a lot of $ 3. They get their asses beat (illness counts)
Oh, I'll put money on: Demanding 'rights' I and mine are most important here... I don't have what I should and you can't stop me! They're not accepting my made-up excuse for exceptional treatment? Workers are beneath me so I do what I want... I thought for this $, I'd get xyz! Who's gon' stop me?
Yes, I notice that. I also noticed who these types so often are and who they choose to marry. Just as I notice every MAGA policy is hurtful to large swaths of the American Public. Just as I know that Every choice is a rejection of the available alternatives.
Know that my opinion, while controversial, is not singularly focused on neurodivergence. Narcissism and other pathologies are at play in all things. I just believe that ND accelerated/exacerbated the means, methods and results of all the other contributors FASTER than any other historical time.
The largest systems doing the most damage to the world may have been started by typicals but had the atypicals been included by balanced by humanists: NO 1-word texts stopping romance, birthrates NO false propaganda affecting elections & global politics NO vast sucking of planet resources Arguably
If we acknowledge extraordinary abilities of -some- ND, we must do so for their extraordinary ability to wreak havoc. Did Zuck start FB for greed or to get a better chance by covertly gaining info on girls? Murdoch: greed or control of info? Musk: money or world control? What hath they wrought?
I believe there's room for everyone (esp. the neurodivergent) that means they share blame. Those lacking the capacity for expressions of human empathy should have been balanced by pairing with or oversight from those who would speak/act for the highest goals of humanity. Didn't happen, here we are.
Literally everyone's got a super computer yet larger concepts like morality when no one is watching, contributing to make the world better for others, ART! are all LOST because the masses got hoodwinked by the ND's who found no value in those things & hooked y'all on stuff they wanted & controlled.
As an MBA also, I've been shown that we tend to think and observe too highbrow. Media is full of lower-middle, working class and poor MEN railing against the fact they can't get laid let alone a girlfriend! The <50s can't talk, woo, write or even wash their asses properly but they've got tech skills
All holding out hope for truth, justice & the American Way: who would provide armed protection of the Epstein Surviving Tellers? Start GoFundMe's so bosses firing them won't matter? What rich man's media is going to show their proofs unedited? The Felon has shown he'll make calls to do ALL OF THAT!
If ANY actual, truthful info comes to light, it won't be 'files' that have been in the possession of appointees, acolytes and quiet devotees to The Felon! What law enforcement agency would objectively investigate? Who would arrest, charge or judge the people in charge of armed, masked military?!
You HEARD a survivor say out of her own mouth that she is afraid to say The Felon's name. You SEE ICE kidnapping folk off the street & raiding rich men's homes. You HEAR the Supremes & Judges rolling over to comply or feinting at upholding the law. Yet you keep hope alive?
What MIGHT get released shouldn't be trusted. They've had them & access to them for too long. Whatever is released will throw small fish to the wolves and protect the big names right before those big names 'go into seclusion' somewhere non-extradite-able or die. Nobody is afraid of Dems or voters.
It's familiar. There's always a cadre of whites ready & advocating to forgive & open the door to ANY murderous, traitorous, duplicitous, conniving demon if that devil is white. Repeatedly show craven wickedness and you get NO WELCOME anywhere from me! You forgot Grace & Remmick already?! #Sinners
Quirks left unchecked when young look like serious mental illness in middle age. Experiencing it more often every day. Also, Big Mamas & Big Daddies that don't realize they can't command strangers. Grown folk, even your kids' ages, don't jump cuz you're rude & glare. Ain't nobody scared of YOU!
How would balls and taints have smelled? Or mouths with rotten teeth, abscesses and chewing tobacco remnants that have never been brushed? Or pits that worked 12 hours in the sun? Working bodies smell - all around the world. But why is it always Black men talking about the smell of coochie?!
Spent some time with a 3yo little girl this weekend singing a lot of nursery rhymes! She is so bright, insightful and intuitive; just KNOWS unspoken things. I gave her the 'over the glasses Auntie said No'-look a few times. By Mon, her little butt was giving it back to me, in appropriate contexts!
It's always an ugly one, too! You don't have to tell me who he's married to. I know just by the tap-dancing and shuckin' and jivin' that he's working his way into Massa's will.
Especially if it's on clearance!
Unions!
I've found this to be the world-shaking comeback to racist white men that think screaming the n-word hurts me. "And THIS is all you've made of your White man-ness?! Your ancestors are so ashamed of you," spoken neutrally while looking them in the eye. Strikes to their core cuz they know it's true.
We let neurodivergent men with no social skills and apparent misanthropic, megalomaniac, nihilistic tendencies become so powerful they changed the trajectory of human interaction and existence around the globe to become more powerful than governments in less than 30 years!
For all the over-emphasis on STEM and tech at the expense of what humanities teach us about how to get along for the greater good of self and community, what have we gained? People who don't know history, can't discern truth or what's best for most. Most can't socialize enough to procreate.
You have questions? Are whites the majority? Then simple stats would mean they have more pedophiles, right? Whites have solidified political power at all levels, right? Whites have the power to arrest & spotlight some while protecting & covering up others, right? So why do YOU recall the Blacks?
Whites take their majority population numbers for granted in everything... until a minority points out that just by sheer numbers, whites have to rule pedophilia and pederasty! Shining a light on us can never hide you in the shadows! BW remember who raped our daughters systematically & who watched.
Ah, but like the millenia-old institution of slavery practiced around the globe, white men revolutionized, codified and took it to extremes unheard of! Y'all are PIONEERS of all ingenious inventions until their evil is pointed out. Then suddenly it's, "EVERYbody was doing it! Why single us out?!"
That your brain focuses on "EVERYbody does it" to answer for the overwhelming number of whites committing a crime shows just how wedded you 'Never owned a slave'-types are to the culture of anti-Black racism. It really stings to hear how Blacks feel about YOU and yours, eh? Be angry at evil, not us!
The shafting, shivving and taking QUIET PLEASURE in watching humans be harmed is a distinct characteristic of those who loudly proclaim they love animals more than humans. Lot of people who secretly want authoritarian power, a lotta racists and misogynists also looo-oove animals! It.Is.Known.
If this were a movie, you wouldn't believe her! Cheap & easy trope of the dirtiest villain joining the hero squad to speak most vociferously against evil before the big betrayal?! MTG'd gladly volunteer to be the double-agent and go spray Russian poison Polonium-1000 on the victims or something!
I would, cuz she is so ugly, but her mere presence, after all her clownish, ridiculousness (esp. with Rep. Jasmine Crockett!), with ex-bestie Boebert, etc. feels disrespectful! Time and again, she's shown herself too Anti-woman to suddenly believe these victims! To possibly dethrone her king?! Never
Y'all are like battered wives who think he's changed cuz he cried in court! MTG's sole purpose is distraction by ridiculousness! When she speaks, look for more dastardly Project 2025 stuff being quietly initiated elsewhere! I don't trust her even being NEAR the victims! She'll NEVER not be MAGAt!
Nah, y'all are swooning in desperation for MAGAts to be redeemable!! Don't be hoodwinked or bamboozled! This is MTG of space laser, "Liar!" to Biden at the SOTU, flirting with The Felon fame! She is the junkyard dog barking rabidly in front while the thieves are sneaking in back! Look past her!
These are my uncles some kind of way and I don't care what anybody says! My great-grandmother AND grandma's houses were less than 1-1.5 miles from Motown, my other uncles had similar names and could sing just like David & Eddie and this intro RESONATES in my spirit so... Bow down to my fam!
Call 'em true: American RACISTS are like fuccbois: They love minorities while we're cooking (in the bedroom, kitchen, arenas and service industries) but once they've busted...they'd like us to disappear. They don't care WHERE TO as long as they keep what's been supplied (+ future at-will access).
Yet another instance of why Blacks feel so targeted, betrayed and constantly victimized in this country. And then whites call us unpatriotic because we don't wave the flag with gusto?! How many ways can you be shown to have such little value to people while cheerleading theirs?!
OMG, you're right, this rich Intended Parent is a nightmare!!! Feeling owed absolute control of another human being is nothing less than the mindset of a slaver! The AUDACITY of thinking she is guaranteed a successful pregnancy of outside DNA within a stranger's body?! Everything she did after is..!
SATC told stories I lived. Each character was a facet of my personality whose trials & triumphs were about the 1st gen of women who could make all their our choices. And Just Like That was like returning to an old relationship: a mistake. It was over for a reason - and you can't go home again.
Even on BlueSky, whites think it's cute to surprise jumpscare me (and everyone) with rats on food feeds and other places we aren't expecting them. It's insane! Vermin have killed hundreds of thousands of people, Rats Are Not Cute!
For me it's rats, mice, squirrels, anything low to the ground with a tail belonging to the rat family. Somehow an algorithm figured this out about me so my spammy free email has a several un-get-rid-able ads with 'em, Huffpo and a buncha other sites do too!
Oh, stereotypes?! I should look like a dried-up, angry and wicked witch, casting spells at pot-bellied men and planning to eat small children while a cat arches it's back near my hearth.
Weekend funeral for an old man universally beloved. The Navy played taps. Multiple great jobs. Sons told to love & treat the woman they married as they'd seen him treat their mom. Nephews said Unc ice cream & fishing trips, living with him, he paid for school, funded new biz! That was a good life!
Because OF COURSE they did. The noose tightens whether or not average nonwhites believe it.
There are a lot of regional dishes that make me think my palate is not as knowledgeable and adventurous as previously thought.
With celery sticks so you can feel like you're eating healthy, right? 😋
Or breadcrumbing as relationship-building where a morning 'Hi' or afternoon 'Hey' text with no follow-up is considered him showing he's interested or cares!
📣 Dream Interpreters: What does it mean when your name is called loudly and urgently awakening you out of a realistic dream (your bed, one-eighth awake)? Yes, I am a worrier who is & has been stressed a while. Heard it's the ancestors calling me to pay attention to something I don't want to face.
I love you, Mother Jones! I could write an entire series on bad bosses & the coworkers who abetted their crimes. Sometimes I fought back through excellence and meticulous note-keeping so they were fearful of a lawsuit but most times I had to find creative ways to get them unfocused on me. Exhausting
I just feel #RAGE 24/7
Every couple of months I like to post this article voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-...
CEOs are trying to convince you that quiet quitting is worse than wage theft, while they plan on replacing you with a robot. Unions know better. Happy Labor Day Weekend.
The ancestors recognize me. So not only will I be fine, they WANT me to have a lot of money because they know it would be spread around our community to worthwhile people and causes!
Someone I really cared for took a pic of me looking great and feeling super happy bending over to smile at him. The boobage looked fantastic, as did the hair and makeup. The photo hung over my bed for years and people thought it was conceit. It actually commemorated a great moment in my life!
