Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
It is what I've taken as example/inspiration
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view profile on Bluesky Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
It is what I've taken as example/inspiration
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I've been raised very atheist but I think I would understand that phrase, not use it though
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
What a lovely book! Very sea-ish Rest of the day sounds good as well, but I understand that you are tired
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Everything feels normal when manic. At least in my experience. And I felt my robotness sort of simultaneously with my humanity? I've also fully believed things that were more ominous. This was just like an extra layer on reality, not a replacement
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I don't know..... I so wish I had a good answer. Can I offer you a hug?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
When i am manic I sometimes think I am a robot (think, don't believe, but I feel myself being mechanical and with oil in my gears - I am clearly not a very modern robot)
Indie Bites (@indiebites.bsky.social) reposted
Deadline is 28 February 2026!!! Apologies. It’s been a long Monday 🤦♀️
RI DaSēr K (@sotreu.bsky.social) reposted
Sigh. "The legacy sewing pattern brands Simplicity, Butterick, McCalls, and Vogue, commonly referred to as the Big 4, have been sold to a liquidator." craftindustryalliance.org/parent-compa...
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, ok, I felt some confusion. It is an important day and it deserves special attention. I have no idea what the right symbolism is. But I will think of something.
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, poor you! 😉
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
What does that emoji mean? Don't you want a card?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I am sorry about the persisting hump and leaden leg issue. Is the pool still an option? Does it make any sense for me to encourage you towards the water?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh how wonderful!!! Now i want to make a top surgery linocut card for you......
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I went swimming. It was good, hope the gym is good
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
But maybe coke is sticky?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I did a sync swim! 20 laps on my own lane Have done some sunbathing and now time for some shopping and hopefully I have energy for cleaning the kitchen
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Poor moss!!! I hope it can handle the coke And stupid silly DX suckers hope your fresh GP can solve it And may your day improve from now on
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
You only have to be "accompanied by a child"not having have to had made one. (Still bad policy)
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Yeah But do take it as easy as you can
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
No, these things are so heavily edited, i am sure it is his way
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
That is not a house to live in! But apart from the building that showcases some fun fake doors, why is the man driving the woman through it at high speed, demanding she goes at a fast pace. Why not enjoy it?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I have and I do, I've also woken up not depressed while I went to bed very depressed and that is not necessarily a good thing (in my case it meant I was manic). But if I could send you a very mild dose of hypomania that might be a good relief for you (but mind your hands, overtaxing is easy
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I am part of the world and I want you to exist (but I know that is totally not weighing up against the rest and I am not trying to blackmail you, just, you know) Wish you will wake up less depressed (I am not even capable of writing "not depressed" that would be too much)
Emma Evans (@trance.bsky.social) reposted
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Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I have no idea what a trapper keeper is, must be something American, a trapper is something with wildlife? But i don't think being too poor to trap wildlife is logical. NB I am definitely above 30. And too lazy to try and find out by search engine
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Maybe not, but a meal with all the components. Airfryers are terrific kitchen appliances, omelettes are nice and comforting and salads often contain green stuff, sounds excellent I had bread with sausage and sauerkraut, not really a masterpiece either
🇵🇸Martin “Doomsday” Pfeiffer🖖🏳️🌈 (@nuclearanthro.bsky.social) reposted
Anthropologist here! A lot of the evo-anth people are two steps from eugenics and some are already there.
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I am just seeing y your message. Did you manage to prepare any of the food? What have you got?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Yes, whatever reason for wanting to go outside. If you say "i want to go outside" it is equally valid whether tot want to sit in your egg, go to the pool or draw a portrait of a grinning Stella in front of the neighbor's house
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I guess they choose that name fully on purpose (they are from the Dutch speaking part of Belgium and wiegendood is a Dutch word)
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
It means cot death
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
For @dirt-manifesto.bsky.social and other lightning lovers amongst my friends.
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Conversation, but also voice over. I was once in Spain for an intensive course in Spanish, we were not allowed to speak anything but Spanish in class. I remember dreaming in Spanish and experiencing that I couldn't dream on because I didn't know the words
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
What a transformation I once chatted with a hairdresser who spent 3 hours detangling a toddlers hair because she had refused brushing for months. I was impressed with his patience, but this is on a different scale. (Though unhappy toddler is a harder client I think) . Hair is important
derek guy (@dieworkwear.bsky.social) reposted
Beautiful 1860s Victorian butterfly, which was used to store small packets of sewing needles on the underside of the wings. This was a collaboration between a London-based drapers company and a sewing needle manufacturer. On exhibit at Tatter Blue, a Brooklyn textile museum. IG tatterbluelibrary
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Yachts! They believed the spiel that everyone could become an entrepreneur and they will set up a luxury ferry service, no one attacks or demeans people on yachts! (I guess if you buy them for a business they won't be classified as luxury goods?)
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
You have two people to worry for by proxy, that's about like one person worrying for herself? I am sure your daughter will do fine and I hope your eldest will do ok. And hopefully seeing them return in good mood will help you? (Is this optimistic but not too optimistic?)
Eli | Artist and Illustrator (@elijahkart.bsky.social) reposted
Ghost cat oil painting on this #caturday
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
You and Stella are doing well, it will get easier for her and it will get easier for you. Whether it will get easier for annoying neighbour I can't say
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
#3GoodThings Still clearly recovering from the vacation. But even so, managed to 1) go to the gym and have a short and low-key workout 2) sat in the garden, watched taskmaster on my tablet 3) made bread dough so I will have freshly baked bread tomorrow
Street Art Utopia (@streetartutopia.com) reposted
In Which Nadine Amuses a Dragon and Makes Autumn Happen
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
@hlyann.bsky.social Perfect owlet for you “Burrowing Owlet, Salton Sea Desert, California, USA” by Shane Keena
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
@magicalbeing.bsky.social and all skill loving friends, I was reminded of an episode of the allusionist about the famous "keep calm and carry on" poster. It teaches us the rather unimpressive history, but fun to listen to www.theallusionist.org/allusionist/...
Alison Fisk (@alisonfisk.bsky.social) reposted
Happy weekend! From c. 3,600 years ago, here’s an ancient Egyptian bead in the form of a curled-up hedgehog! 🦔💙 Blue faience, c. 1985 -1650 BC. National Museum of Scotland www.nms.ac.uk/search-our-c... 📷 by me #Archaeology
Dr Jay Watts (they/she) (@shrinkatlarge.bsky.social) reposted
If folk are so keen on ‘protecting women and girls’, how about campaigning on the conviction rate for reported rape which is 2%?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I have these moments where things remind me of my mother. Mostly it is more melancholical than full on sad/grief. I think it is good that I keep her in mind, but sometimes it is a bit unexpected what triggers it
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
We did watch Labyrinth with the 13y old, husband is very hetero, 13y old only liked the monsters and I was slightly grief stricken remembering that my mom used to like David Bowie (I am on the ace/demi spectrum and don't get aroused by people on television).
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
In case you want a guided meditation but you also hate guided meditations. This one was fun youtu.be/R0t_OGli0jg?...
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
1986,, definitely the 80s
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
No?? Can't find it. There is a newer movie called troll, from 2022 but it is also bad I believe, I haven't seen it. I did see Troll hunter from 2010 and that was also bad/fun Anyway, I don't know what you said and which movie you had seen
Tympanic & Frisketty (@luckyerica3.bsky.social) reposted
There is so much liberatory overlap in terms of bodily autonomy for us cis disabled people too; access to meds, healthcare, abortion, accessible spaces, workplace rights, marriage equality, housing and third spaces, /1
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
What did you mess up?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh that looks terrific! Quite often I see a technical gimmick solution and my first impulse is to think "yeah". But then there are comments from actual wheel chair users who point out this is a fake techbro kinda thing. But this looks like solid solution, maybe not cheap, but good and stylish
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Terf MacTerfFace party
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
We watched a very bad movie with the 13y old because we were all still tired and she also had to manage the first week of school It features Harry Potter but not that one!!! It is called troll and it is a horror/comedy/fantasy thing www.imdb.com/title/tt0092...
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Learning. And I think I also liked the way the information was presented, I am good with listening and picking up information and I am good at repeating and rephrasing, so I was reasonably good at tests
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I'd say school had good and bad elements. Lots of bullying, lots with sexual elements. Very oblivious teachers who didn't notice when I got pressed porn on my face or had guys playing with my bra straps (I gave him a slap in the face and got punished). I Was also terribly depressed. But I liked
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Did you cook yourself a very fancy dinner?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
You need stamps! I mean, the stampy stamps with a ink thingy and you can do the same stamp in different colours!
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh no, how stressful, how painful. You deserve having it checked, it is very hard to diagnose your own bones, they didn't invent x-rays for nothing Wishing you a speedy healing
manta del ray (@seafoamghost.bsky.social) reposted
kit's GFM is just £82 away from being 10% funded already!! get in touch if you'd like a print in exchange for donating <3 reposts super appreciated, esp as it's likely payday for a lot of people!
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Non, I am not English.... (Not that all Dutch teachers are well meaning competent angels, but I think much less slappy than their English counterparts - on average)
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I am so glad you managed to feel some positive things. Sometimes there are only the little things. But I am glad you could feel them. Hoping for more of them
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Sounds like a logical place. Glad you've got them back
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, I am so sorry
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Half of mine are psych meds and the rest is dealing with the consequences of the psych meds. Can you imagine how healthy I would be if not for my brains???
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I do believe you need to be a US citizen for that? Or do i got this wrong? (I am a European based European citizen)
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
That is cheating! 😉 I forgot i got metamucil on prescription so i am on 6 (i did get an other ibs related one, but i am trying to do without).
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Only 5. Does this mean i am 1/3 ill compared to you?
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
#GetTheFckOutside Little walk with a big swing, making small movements (ie the seat is a big bowl but i didn't make big swinging moves). I describe the playground, nothing much happens
C. S. E. Cooney (@csecooney.bsky.social) reposted
I love this so much. I just bought a bundle for my friend. What a great gift from @marthawells.com to the world, in more ways than one. @wck.org couldn’t be a worthier cause. www.humblebundle.com/books/martha...
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh no, may it be short lived and may there be no nasty after effects
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I think it might be either, 15 years is quite the distance and it all seeming new and alien is I think common. But I can also imagine that your tendency to dissociate might play a role in this. Anyway, glad you were impressed with your own work and very well done for taking up the chapter
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Will you be learning ? I learned cycling when i was little and I remember my granddad running with me to steady me and then letting me go. I've never been good at learning balance things (skating, roller skating) and I took a while learning cycling, but as soon as I managed it was easy. Good luck!
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Good evening Debs with Pets. I've spent most day on bed, resting. I had left over from yesterday's take away. Oh I also bought a bread. Hopefully more energy tomorrow #MadSkyChat
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social)
#GetTheFckOutside Trying a small walk, I am still pretty tired. Made a small video of a group of peahens and some chicks. I am outside the petting zoo but I can see them across the fence
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
My CPN had me start on 5mg (per day!) It did already drop my heart rate
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh, how wonderful!!!!;
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I hope your eyes will be clear and bright soon. And that in the meantime your audiobook can give your comforting company
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
You did what needed to be done. It is good for therapist acknowledged your need and worked with you on containing your distress. Your distress, or better your vulnerability for such distress, is linked with your need for therapy. It just can't be helped
Vagina Museum (@vaginamuseum.bsky.social) reposted
Today in AI Is Not A Good Source For Learning About The World's Most Misunderstood Body Part, meet this ChatGPT gem. Funnily enough, we're actually going to talk about how most of this is kinda sorta right (for small values of right), as a cautionary tale about generative AI.
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
That sounds like a good plan. I've been to tired to go to lino yesterday. I am trying to think printmakers thoughts
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I've gotten up, had breakfast, took meds and now I've been sent back to bed. Not yet recovered from my vacation. Sending you sleepy vibes
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Hopefully she will be kind and helpful and there will be a good click with the eldest. A good support worker can be brilliant, i hope she will be
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Behind the Bee
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
We don't have bank holidays here, but I returned from vacation yesterday and today I spent in bed to recover
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I thought they meant it was a dress distressed by cavias. I pictured them running around on the dress, making a little nest for themselves. But it was from the brand Cavia.
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Wish it was easier
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I don't know Not because you should feel shame Maybe your brain is so used to feeling shame that it can't really get rid of it, totally independent of any need? The shame grooves are stuck. Very very very unfortunate. I really wish it was otherwise and I really wish I knew how to polish it away
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I've tried reducing it but I did get depressed quite distinctly and it got better when I started taking my usual dose. I am taking it now for 20 years
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I was in an extreme rapid cycling situation. I first got depakine (=valproic acid) which helped a lot, reducing the high points but not much of the depression. Then I got lithium as add on and this reduced the rapidness, gave overall feeling of stability and it reduced depression
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Why why why didn't they notice it earlier? I mean, you've been into contact with Psych folk. I remember getting diagnosed with bipolar and I was over the moon because it was the best available DX (I was manic at the type) I hope you get good help with meds and general support
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Actions against it are mostly prohibiting under 16s access to social media. Which is both impractical, unsuccessful and with serious drawbacks
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Schatzig :-)
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I have a lot of suicide words in my mind, but they never feel like a possible action for me. But if i was repeatedly speaking them out loud to a chat bot (or a forum) who confirmed me that it was a good idea and that i should etc i don't know, I might
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
Cute. Schat=treasure so treasury? Precious
Rowena (@wijsgeer.bsky.social) reply parent
I can vote for good experience with lithium. When starting it was a bit of a hassle with repeated blood tests, but I was in hospital so everything was both hassle and organised? Now I have half a year blood test.