🏴☠️🌈OFMD, GO, Kaos, IwtV, any good queer media. I read a lot, crochet, knit, sew, and play video games. I like new friends 💜 18+ I share nsfw stuff Late 30s, demisexual & panromantic, living in the Midwest https://linktr.ee/ardnaid
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Trueee. I just haven't really followed him or afi since like 2010, so I was caught off guard to see him rocking almost-Calico Jack 'stache lmao God, if they're all in their 40s and 50s now that means I'm getting old
WHAT THE WHAT IS THIS
It was just a shock! Like not what I expected him to look like these days. I had the same a few years ago when I saw Gerard Way and he looked like Generic Tired Dad instead of an emo twink lmao In my head, because I still listen to the stuff that's 20 years old, they're frozen like that y'know?
I just have a feeling we're going to get news today/this week. I just can't decide if I'm hopeful or not, because what if the replacement is somehow even worse?
Just saw a recent picture of Davey Havok and uh... 😶
I hate the hypocrisy of people like that, especially when they're hurting their own supposed loved ones. 🫂🫂🫂 My mom pulled this too, supportive of lgbtqia+ folks, even mentioned having a crush on a female friend. But I told her about my first girlfriend in college and she lost it. I'm NC now tho
Needles in general don't bother me that much, but I think it's more seeing the needle and knowing what was going to happen? I've been fine with piercings, even when there was blood. But not anymore. :(
He's such an underrated talent! So hilarious. At least the ofmd fandom has him now 💖
I used to be too embarrassed to ask and I didn't want to be a bother but then I went and the phlebotomist freaked out because he hasn't seen anyone react so badly lmao. I was drenched in sweat in like 10 seconds. He said it's no problem, they'd rather you ask to lay down than have someone pass out
I'm the same! I've never liked them, but as long as I looked away I'm fine. 30s hit and now I have vasovagal syncope triggered by blood draws (and anxiety... And I'm always anxious so that's fun) But yeah, next time mention it, ask to lay down and to have a juice or something ready for you.
Some VERY cool art in here, US friends! event.auctria.com/6c6bd411-6a4...
ok this is happening!!!!!!!!!! each day will be a genre prompt and then you can just pick a show from that genre to turn into an ofmd AU 😌 if there are any tv genres ppl wanna see represented, let me know!
You takin' my picture without permission, human?
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Yesss you get it!
So awful! One of the worst mini games in a game 😭
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Picked up Final Fantasy X for the first time since... 2019. 😬 Currently deciding if I should start over because I don't remember how to play, or just continue and hope. But if I start over I have to do blitzball and I don't wanna :(
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Wanna do something weird? Too late, I already did
Bad shit always happens at the worst possible time 🫂🫂🫂
Omgggggg. I need this, if you ever do a pattern 😮 (my skills will be there one day maybe)
Every time I'm out, I see stuff that makes me think of them and I always have to take a pic to show my pirate pals. I'm sure it gets annoying but can't stop won't stop :(
But then I did read a couple fics where Ed was cursed to be a cat
*not* his husband. Jeez typos
And Stede Bonnet would absolutely buy this for his kitty.* *Actual feline kitty, now his husband. Although...
Ed Teach's reusable grocery tote.
Oh that's good to know!
Threw up during the night and I was absolutely out cold and didn't wake up 😭 usually I'm such a light sleeper I wake up immediately when she's sick So now I'm torn if I want to take them again, will I sleep too hard that my child won't be able to wake me or was that my body just catching up on rest
Verdict, maybe not allergic to these ones? So I have to figure out what triggered them and avoid whatever it was, but it doesn't seem to be the CBD so woo! I also slept fairly well, still woke up a bit cuz pain. Probably the best sleep in weeks though. Bad night for it however, since my kiddo
Oh I bet he'd have *a lot* to say 😂😂😂
I found samsung Taika and they are perfectly tweeded together bsky.app/profile/lily...
Oh yes yes yes mhm I like it
Oh I almost forgot, a couple of my friends vend at ren faires and such, and one of them picked me up this awesome keychain at their last one. It is so fun to fidget with!
That shirt is so cool!
say something about this
I can just imagine how hard it would be to agree on all of the yarn elements!
Keep your fingers crossed for me, I am going to try a gummy to help with anxiety and maybe get to sleep more than couple hours. It's a different kind than the last one I tried, so I'm hoping no possible allergic reaction this time.
I bet @lyratalise.bsky.social's knitting boys would do this. But they'd probably have far too fancy mini skeins from sheep they helped shear while on a date and then hand dyed in their wedding colors. 💖
I'm so bad with that too
Brought a couple projects to my craft group today. Didn't work on a single one. Instead I spent all 3 hours untangling one skein of yarn... And I'm not close to done 😭😭😭 I like untangling yarn normally but this is fighting me (I did help a friend learn to knit so that was a bit of a break at least)
Every so often I'm reminded Juggalos exist, usually when I run into one, almost always at Kwik Trip.
sometimes i think shows hire Rhys partly because they want to dress him up in outfits, and they're so fucking real for that
1. 🫠🫠🫠 2. Can't wait to see who he's having sloppy smoches with in the rhyikaverse
I forgot to order bugs for my beardie and now I feel bad. Her meal today had to be a little smaller so I can stretch what is left until payday. I can feel her glaring at me. :( It's obviously not foolproof but this is why I have 1000 reminders and alarms, because I can't remember shit.
My latest earworm has been Golden from Kpop demon hunters. Good song but ugh enough already. Well, my brain has decided to fixate on a new song as well, but a little different. It just keeps repeating Frenchie and the Swede over and over, to the tune of the Pinky and the Brain theme song 😭
Very important revelation: did y'all know you can use an air fryer to make s'mores?! I can't wait to try it
3. cont. who I am, then when I return I've lost a bunch of connections and I'm also possibly annoying people.
I feel like I have three modes (lately? Or maybe always) 1. Post way too much about anything and everything for a period of time and then stop, possibly annoying people. 2. Just post depressing shit that no one needs to read and possibly annoying people. 3. Don't post for ages, people forget 1/2
Oh absolutely. I'd love that so much. And we're all such a talented and resourceful bunch, we have someone with any skills we need!
I'm just saying photos of "proof of life" aren't going to kill my hopes.
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I think you're funny and kind and interesting and your family is poop. 💖
I still get butterflies when I watch the trailer. The excitement that day was so strong. I hope one day we get to relive it all with ofmd season 3
One of my absolute favorite parts of Trailer Release Day, was David posting it on Twitter minutes before the official release. Love that for him (and us)
I mean, if it wasn't like 300k, I totally would go for it.
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Most of my craziness was on discord I think but I've got this, lmao
I want another piercing, it's been too long since my last one 😞
I had the shittiest week, and I saw a group selling fresh caramel kettle corn so I got myself a treat and it is so tasty but now I feel absolutely guilty for spending $6 on it. Even though the money goes to a good cause and the kettle corn is delicious.
edward teach
Stede Bonnet codes Moscato. Even the name, Daddy Kool lmao
I saw the hat right after the autism and it was like kismet lol
I almost got it honestly lmao. I like the idea of taking lots and making them weird. But it was 5 bucks
Anyone need a little extra autism? Only $3! Or maybe a cap that says "horse"? I fucking love thrift shops.
Oh yeah, that is absolutely 100% true
Friend asked me out for coffee, her treat, as a thank you for pet sitting. I ordered something new, which was supposed to be a "caramel explosion" and I had a very Stede Bonnet moment. This drink barely even tastes of caramel! 😒 (I just said it in my head, didn't want to seem disrespectful!)
Yeah, they were probably just looking for ways to be cooler than me. 😡 Sad that even in my dreams I get rejected lmao
See, another reason, you need to stock up for the end of times! Need material to make stuff to barter with! Better get all the yarn just to be safe
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I wish I could go with you? Except I'd unfortunately do the opposite Oh you think it looks pretty? Treat yourself. So soft right? Get itttttt.
Fell asleep for my usual 2+3 hours, woke up literally sweating because I was having a dream I was on a date and they asked me to name a queer author and all I could think of were fic authors so I didn't say a name and they called me a loser and left. :(
Asked if I had a degree, or any knowledge of Excel and word, you know, the ones listed at the top. It was just a little part time gig but it would have been perfect. Walking distance, within school hours, not much physical labor. Oh well. :(
"Can you explain the large gap in your employment history?" Which is explained on my resume, I have my schooling listed as well as the fact I'm currently a stay at home parent. But I don't think she looked at it because I include programs I have proficiency in, and my accounting degree, and she-
I was thinking about emailing midweek since there's a holiday. I was semi-hopeful because it's been posted for a month, but the way the phone calls went killed that hope. She literally asked if I was still interested, I said yes, she said she has a few questions and immediately went in with -
Anywho... pretty sure that job I applied for that would fit perfectly in my schedule, won't be happening. They called and immediately started a phone interview, which I was not prepared for and also in the middle of a depression and anxiety wallow, so I was extra bad at answering.
So many au possibilities here...
Hey #OFMD folks, have you seen this shirt around? Always wished you could have one? NOW'S YOUR CHANCE! The creators said they'll do another print run if we've got 25 orders. They'll be $30 + tax + shipping. 1/2
Oh I have loved that shirt but
We've got a couple and I looked last weekend but I didn't find anything besides a pack of eyeballs lol. I'm hoping to go again this weekend and maybe check another thrift store
I wrote like 300 words on a fic idea I did a thread one a while back. Will I ever finish it? Who knows. But I wrote something, that's a step.
I've been trying to find some Halloween net fabric I've seen there before but no luck. I do want to see if I can find leaves and floral picks with critters or mushrooms. Otherwise I have wire and foam clay, maybe I can make something like that
As if the usage of AI wasn't bad enough...
I was looking at a pattern roundup and had to do a double take when I saw this.
Oh smart! I was planning to see if the dollar store has anything but I might actually have some old plastic containers that might work... If I can find them 🙄
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Finished this shirt just in time for school pictures! Now to whip up a whale, then Halloween costume prep. Kiddo wants to be a swamp forest witch, so any suggestions for accessories and such would be great! (Handmade or cheap because I have zero dollars ATM)
"wow that sucks lol I saw you were still looking for a job do you want to join me at young living" and then went into an MLM spiel That's cool yeah sure, so much for that friendship I guess
When you talk with an old friend and they ask how you're doing, and you say something like "oh I've been in constant pain for almost a year, my anxiety is at all all time high, and I don't know what the point of living is anymore" and they *literally* reply-
I forgot about DW. I'll go check it out, maybe it will help to get out all my nonsense where no one has to read it.
I'm gonna go find some sort of distraction to put on TV while I work on finishing her shirt for picture day (haha another cost coming up cool cool cool at least it's not a necessity) and try and stay off here while I'm mopping and rambly
So used to hearing "no, we can't afford that right now" that it's ingrained on her soul. I wanted to do better for her than how I grew up... At least it's not quite as bad as my childhood but who knows with the way the world is going. I'm sorry for my long rambling pity posts. I miss livejournal
I'm being extra hard on myself because I messed up the budget somehow, I had saved and moved stuff around for our little zoo trip but now I'm short and it's just so frustrating. Like god forbid I take my child out to do something fun and want to buy groceries at the same time. She's probably-
I'm just so tired man. I feel like I'm in a race where my start was severely delayed and I'm getting nothing but constant blue shells even though I'm already in last place. It's not just impossible to get ahead, it's impossible not to keep falling behind.
I did find a job that I could do and applied, so fingers crossed, but I'm so pessimistic these days I have no hope of even getting an interview.
I wish there was a BioLife nearby so I could make some money. But also it's weird to think I want to sell my fluids just to pay bills. I'd probably pass out anyway, I used to sell plasma in college and it was a struggle, but now with having vasovagal syncope, I have a feeling it would be worse. 🙃
Sure would be nice to sleep more than a few hours at a time 🙃🙃🙃
