Lady Aranea
@ladyaranea.bsky.social
I'm a spider-girl VTuber/Vsona, and social justice advocate! I stream video games, sing, and infodump about politics, emotional health, and other stuff I'm interested in. Come visit on Twitch at twitch.tv/l4dyaranea #MonsterGirl #Twitch #ENVtuber #Vsona
created September 8, 2023
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I understand why cisgender people wouldn't give a shit. It's easy to look away when you won't be directly impacted (even though you will, since giving the government the authority to regulate your sex affects everyone).
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I've voted Blue every election starting 2004 (when I became able). I even voted for Harris, despite my hatred for her (she spent a large part of her career putting my sisters in prison with men). If the party nominates someone who is actively campaigning on adopting MAGA rhetoric about me, it ends.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I agree. He's a mercenary and all he wants is power and influence. That's why we need to make sure he doesn't make nominee for president.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
What were we distracted by? The adoption of MAGA positions toward my community by my party poses an existential threat to me and those like me.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Then it's weird that you were treating the MAGA position, or even Newsom's, as reasonable. They're all under the illusion that it's VERY easy, and that it includes surgeries for kids. Nobody is viable for bottom surgery before 18, or top surgery before 16, barring some very weird edge cases.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Cool. Then we're agreed that nothing needs to change, and we can jettison the MAGA opinions on the topic, because they are absolutist on the stance that no one should transition prior to 18. You did know that it already requires medical teams for a kid to medically transition, I trust.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
My position on this issue is "let medical teams figure it out on a patient-by-patient basis." That seems imminently reasonable. Do you agree?
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I don't think that "stop treating MAGA like reasonable interlocutors to agree with and appeal to" is "unicorn perfection". I think it's the bare minimum when it comes to opposing MAGA. But what do I know? www.cambridge.org/core/journal...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Most of the competing beliefs and interpretations I'm aware of, from the cis community, treat being trans as an undesirable outcome to be avoided at all costs. I'm not sympathetic to being viewed as an abomination to be eradicated (or at least minimized).
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I have a vested interest, as a person whose life was destroyed by being forced through natal puberty without even the knowledge that anything better was possible, to prevent future generations from undergoing those changes and experiencing enough distress to spend all of school dissociating.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Child development? Was there anything in those classes about the traumatic results of being forced to deny yourself and live as the wrong gender until adulthood? How about the long-term effects of body horror as you watch yourself change in ways that are inimical to your mental health?
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I have no control over how other people behave. I trust you to be an adult and decide whether you're going to advocate for the torture of children based on the science involved rather than whether adults were mean to you.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I gave you several. Check the thread following this one: bsky.app/profile/lady...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
No. They don't. They agree that the study they were conducting to measure brain development ends at 25. What they DO agree on is that preventing natal puberty is good for trans kids, because it prevents many of the changes that would cause gender dysphoria, and it allows them to avoid dissociation
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Despite the studies showing that forcing trans kids through that much of their natal puberty causes lasting trauma and distress, as well as increases the number of surgeries they need in order to correct what damage CAN be corrected after the fact? On what basis do you disagree with science?
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I would say that engaging in EFFECTIVE resistance to MAGA shit is a much better way to position themselves than posting memes on Twitter while hanging out on MAGA podcasts and agreeing with folks like Steve Bannon and Charlie Kirk about human rights issues.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Who the fuck medically transitions before puberty? Do you even understand how medical transition works? Social transition SHOULD occur before puberty. Newsom in his own words said you aren't fit to decide before age 26. Fully after natal puberty is wholly complete.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I'll believe that one shows the promise of giving civil rights to all when it expels the people who are offering to help MAGA strip civil rights from my community.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
More "lesser evilism will save us" bullshit.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
You didn't ask any of us those questions before, so what's the relevance here?
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
6- The anti-queer attitudes among Muslims rose to prominence as a result of Christians sabotaging Middle-Eastern governments so that more conservative factions had the political and cultural power, to justify Western imperialism in the area.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Pritzker has been doing way more substantial stuff; he even protected the Texas Democrats as they fled the state to delay the Texas gerrymandering plan. Janet Mills upended Trump's trans sports ban through legal threats Beshear won Kentucky (KENTUCKY) on a pro-trans campaign.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I hope your housing situation gets more stable! I'm sorry you're going through that!
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
He did do that. He's on the record agreeing with MAGA about trans rights. He thinks 25 is too young to know your gender. The enemy of my enemy agrees with my enemy about what rights I should have. He's not my friend. He's not having "considerable impact". He's laundering MAGA rhetoric to libs.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I honestly don't know what you'd consider "stupid stuff". Do you think empowering the state to legally regulate who is a "real woman" is "stupid stuff"? Because that's what the sports issue is.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social)
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Give me the thousands of dollars I need to leave. I'm a destitute tranny in a country that wants me dead, and my erstwhile allies think it's fine to hang out with MAGA pundits and agree with them about my rights. I don't see real solutions available.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social)
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Your idea of reality is wholly detached from the fact that American colonialism created the conditions that you're referencing. We killed the liberal factions and armed and equipped the conservative ones to give ourselves justification to keep killing.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
"I understand reality!" screams man who insists that Muslims are inherently anti-queer, and moreso than Christians (while Christians are engaged in a world-wide crusade against the queer community).
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Sounds like you agree with white supremacists about those gross brown people southeast of Europe.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Who are you talking about? Do you think propagandists, whose job it is to sway public opinion, have no power to affect things? Does Newsom have power to affect things? Are you aware of just how many liberals have taken his agreement with Charlie Kirk as carte blanche to accept MAGA positions on us?
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I don't think the majority do. I think the fundamentalists do. I think the rest of them possess exactly the same level and degree of anti-queer belief that other cisheteronormative patriarchal cultures have normalized. They're not special, and treating them like they are is ridiculous.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Nobody honest, anyway.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
The claim you're reacting to is that "ranked-choice voting promotes oppression, exploitation, and genocide" which isn't reflected in the post you quoted or the one you're replying to. bsky.app/profile/wper...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
necessary to the beliefs of western nationalists.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
"BARBARISM" is just a white-person term for "being from a different culture". Cruelty is cruelty. Keep treating entire demographics as inherently your enemy. I'm sure they'll be inclined to listen to you and amend their ways. Anti-queer thought isn't necessary to their beliefs; it's absolutely
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Awww, she blocked me.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Good thing Biden defunded ICE when he was in charge. Oops, wait, nope, record-setting funding expansions. immigrantjustice.org/press-releas...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
They have nothing when it comes to the violence posed by the US. Especially considering the fact that many of them were liberal democracies prior to US involvement.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Prove it.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
behind Clinton when he criminalized it in the first place (same year he passed DOMA, fwiw). You have to OPPOSE fascists to beat them, not adopt their goddamn perspectives. www.cambridge.org/core/journal...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Obama walked so Trump could run. You don't get to build the fucking infrastructure for mass extrajudicial human trafficking and then pretend to have no moral responsibility for the outcome. We've been begging you fucks to oppose the GOP nationalist stance on immigration for decades, but you fell in
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Cool, so your generalizations are full of shit.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I don't play hypothetical games.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Ok, well let me know when you've got enough Democrats on board who want to replace FPTP with ranked choice voting.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
That's so flatly obviously false if you just look at what's occurring in the US and UK this year. The queer community has been struggling to survive under Christians for the entire last century.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Ok, so you've ceded the point and now the government gets to legally invade every woman's privacy to determine who is a "real" woman. Describe how you keep them from using that to strip the rest of our rights. They're on the record publicly stating they want to.
Tamara Keel (@tamslick.bsky.social) reposted
Are you wondering why our trans friends seem so agitated about a thing that seems so minor? This thread might help clear that up for you.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
It's always cute when they think laws are generally reflective of the actual beliefs of citizens. Most Americans oppose arming Israel but here we are. Most Americans oppose MAGA but here we are.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
neutral than Christianity. Focusing on Islam is stupid.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
You know what will change their minds? Brutal bigotry against them and prescriptive assignment of belief from the outside based on the flimsiest pretext. At no point in history has Islam matched Christianity for brutality, hatred of outsiders, or human rights abuse. Islam is way closer to morally
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Nobody made the claim you're reacting to.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Do you know what the electoral college is?
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Obama deported 7000 without due process in just one incident. Immigration has always been brutal and racist in this country. Lesser evil compromises built ICE. www.cambridge.org/core/journal...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
It was rubble under Biden, and protestors were being brutalized and incarcerated under him, too. This isn't a real argument. It's delusional.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
You're a mean one Mr Krabs. You really are a heel. You're at cuddly as a cactus As charming as an eel *record scratch* "HEY! WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU SAYING ABOUT EELS? YOU COME FUCKING SAY THAT TO ME FACE!"
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
The world. This idiot is in the UK.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
"This group consists of 1.9 billion people and all of them believe exactly the same shit about trans people" certainly is an attitude to have.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh so it's not the entire religion. It's literally dependent on sect and internal attitudes of the people involved. Got it.
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
You don't have to say it. Your assumption that we don't understand politics is obvious in everything you say to us.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
It seems like a done deal if he's announcing it already.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
For fuck's sake, modern transphobes are using literally the same arguments the nazis did. www.vox.com/culture/3640...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Stop compromising with transphobes. Stop treating their bullshit like it's reasonable. Stop building coalitions with transphobes. Educate and rehabilitate who you can and shut out those you can't. Put your cis body and presence in between ours and theirs and be the first line of defense and attack.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
There was a successful ovarian transplant for a trans woman in that clinic.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social)
This idiot thinks attacks on trans rights are recent.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
By absurdly suggesting that our struggle isn't a century old.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh so you're just completely ignorant of the history of trans rights. Who was Magnus Hirschfeld? Who was Dora Richter? Who was Lucy Salani? We've been fighting as long as anybody to just be allowed to exist, and you fucks have sided with the nazis at every turn.
Ana Valens | 🔞 (@acvalens.net) reposted
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Ok, but have you considered that some self-important asshole of a stranger might know your capabilities better than you?
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Exterminating trans folks, actually. Surely you knew that, though.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Demanding that trannies in a country that considers refusing to disclose medical history to be a factor of sexual assault be the ones leading the effort in the streets doesn't make it sound like you are aware of our give a shit about the struggles of others.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
That guy, who you allege is fighting a fascist regime, has spent months hanging out with MAGA pundits and agreeing with them about trans rights. bsky.app/profile/lady...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Good luck. You don't listen to trannies now, so I'm sure you'll do a great job advocating for us going forward. Same as every other cis "ally". You all think you're our daddies and mommies.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
It's telling that he thinks that's a win for us.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
People like you stop making excuses for abusive assholes.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
We're already having to fight every other party on this shit. Nobody is going to join an entirely new party that doesn't even have political power to fight them about it.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm going to have so much less space for secrets. 😭
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm sure. I simply have far less occasion to encounter people who agree with me about politicians for such silly reasons than I do to encounter people who think we should be choosing politicians based on how palatable they are to open white supremacists.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Liberals are the ones I've seen with parasocial relationships like that. I have no illusion regarding my connection to a politician. They're auditioning for a job and I'm appraising then.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
They are delusional about the outcome, but I'm sure they believe that endlessly compromising with fascists will somehow end up beating fascism.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Their idea of purity is obedience to the party.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Ok. Well the people you described aren't actually real. All the folks accused of purity testing by centrists have specific concerns with specific candidates that materially impact their lives.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh. That explains a lot. I wonder where I'll need to keep my secrets after bottom surgery.
รℓσαɳε ℓყรɓεƭɦ 🏳️🌈 (@sloanelysbeth.bsky.social) reposted
this is the most disgusting government of my life.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
"Don't hang out and agree with MAGA on human rights issues" is pretty fucking concrete. Nothing abstract there.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Which is funny as hell because they were saying exactly that leading up to 2020.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
When are the primaries? At least give me a year, for fuck's sake. You've said "in November" so many fucking times, and it's September right now.
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
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Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social) reply parent
Do you think our lives get better if democrats start adopting MAGA attitudes towards our rights, yes or no? www.cambridge.org/core/journal...
Lady Aranea (@ladyaranea.bsky.social)
Remember: NOT divisive: Adopting policies that actively strip rights from members of your coalition, and undermine their ability to exist in public safely. DIVISIVE: Speaking out about the adoption of policies that actively strip your rights and undermine your ability to exist in public safely.