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@malorienilson.com

Editor, writer, lover of dinosaurs, chaotic energy, poltergeist in a human disguise. Just like any modern ghoul trying to have it all—I only wish I had more time to seek out the dark forces and join their hellish crusade. they/them

created July 28, 2023

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I am happier knowing of this wonderful cow! All Hail Viva la France the wonder cow!!!

1/9/2025, 3:33:00 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I need to watch this immediately.

1/9/2025, 1:55:11 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I do think that convention center in particular is especially plagued and always has been. I am casting a spell of fortification on your mask. 🙏

31/8/2025, 7:57:40 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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That actually is what started this! I listened to some of that because of this thread: bsky.app/profile/amyh...

31/8/2025, 7:51:18 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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For my own edification, here is one of the most iconic bossa nova albums of its era. Most people will be familiar with the first track, Girl from Ipanema, but the whole album slaps. Please enjoy the excellent vibes this Sunday afternoon. 🙏 www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cxd4...

31/8/2025, 7:34:29 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This one has a Kraftwerk song on it, which after listening is TECHNICALLY correct, but misses the vibes. lmao youtube.com/playlist?lis...

31/8/2025, 7:31:51 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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After listening to AI cha cha of the pretend 1950's, I went on a quest for some better sounds and found this nice playlist with cited recordings (still going through and verifying, tho, lol). @amyhoy.bsky.social may be of interest! youtube.com/playlist?lis...

31/8/2025, 7:25:55 PM | 6 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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100% in agreement. Bottom line.

31/8/2025, 7:11:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

Yes, that is more precise and a better descriptor than my "conservative" *nods*

31/8/2025, 7:05:46 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I dunno, maybe my brain just always wants to come back around to "LLMs are just badly dressed conservatives" It isn't a direct 1-to-1, but the idea that we absorb the history of our culture and have a sense for what works based on it. The semiotics of dress is closely tied to music too, after all!

31/8/2025, 7:00:32 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah, I would love to get a resurgence of actually great bossa nova with fun concepts! I wish I'd worked on composition basically at all. 😢 Regarding patterns etc. it did remind me of this fashion thread (absorbing culture and having a feel without maybe knowing specifics) bsky.app/profile/diew...

31/8/2025, 6:56:18 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah, especially because you actually like cha cha/bossa nova music, so you have a good feel for it. And I think most people that listen to music will have absorbed at least some of that because it is such a human thing, and we absorb the cultural history of the composition by experiencing it.

31/8/2025, 6:50:25 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yes, I think this is exactly it! And that lack of sense of memory is really uncanny here too, because I think it is true—it has no memory for this song, even though the structure demands that you return to the top and repeat refrains. It does it, but it doesn’t know when to do it.

31/8/2025, 6:41:51 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Oh, good. Nice to see MIT press is still the hot take machine. /s Not sarcasm, excellent breakdown here from Gabrielle Schwarz.

31/8/2025, 6:25:17 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Boy the people that followed me for helpful browser tips are going to be sorely disappointed when they figure out that I am just over here posting about dinosaurs and cello practice. Hi and welcome anyway! 😆

31/8/2025, 6:14:15 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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And, I guess, bonus. It still got memorized over that time. XD But truly, I think that there are ways to break down practice into a more precise science that can be taught much more effectively, and I would like to work on breaking it down further. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

31/8/2025, 6:06:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It's 500 more steps and 1000 times more work. Practicing is a lot more tiring and takes a lot longer for the same amount of play time. I'm still playing the solo piece I am working on right now worse—after all, I spent three weeks throwing myself at it, overwhelmed. But I think it is getting better.

31/8/2025, 6:06:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So, I have been experimenting with listening to a recording multiple times and focusing only on a specific element for each listen and taking notes on that. Then practicing just those notes, recording again, repeat. This would work without recording as well—same principles of focus.

31/8/2025, 6:06:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It was impossible for me to hold all of the things I noticed in my head at once. I would forget things that I noticed in tone, or dynamics/expression, intonation, as I encountered new things to note. Instead of trying to incorporate every note at once, I needed to focus on one thing at a time.

31/8/2025, 6:01:50 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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2. I don't think many people are very good at breaking down and teaching the principles of practice. For instance, you might say, "record yourself playing and listen back for areas to improve." I did this SO MUCH, but I think that I was just trying to account for way too many things.

31/8/2025, 6:00:20 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Then, I'm practicing worse technique overall. And because I'm generally dedicated and will keep throwing myself at a passage for hours at a time, this can actually be so counterproductive—practicing errors just makes those errors unavoidable. It is a deeply distressing cycle.

31/8/2025, 5:46:25 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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First, working memory: I didn't know I am Autistic and an ADHDer then, but now I'm a lot more familiar with my issues around working memory. With how lessons and practice typically go, I am trying to incorporate way too many elements into my playing at once, and I crash out. I literally play worse.

31/8/2025, 5:46:25 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'm experiencing a worsening of my playing with practice, and this used to happen to me a LOT growing up & entering undergrad cello performance. At the time, I was mostly self-taught and didn't have tools to really work through why that is the case, but I've been thinking a lot about it now. 🧵

31/8/2025, 5:41:06 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Then, only a few bars later, we have a sax solo. This is very wacky and sounds very off to me. So even though technically the thing is playing the "right" notes and it sounds mostly like Bossa nova, it still sounds very wrong to me. I could go on a lot, but this feels like way too much already.

31/8/2025, 5:12:06 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The instrument solos are a good example (though the phrasing for these is so weird)—the clarinet has more space than the saxophone. BUT the clarinet solo is so short, and the song returns to the top of the progression even though we were further along in the phrase.

31/8/2025, 5:12:06 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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There are other things like runs in scales having too many notes—using too many half steps along the scale (for my taste at least) so it sounds less intentional and like they are just running through notes. Reminds me of the jazz joke—the point is to hear the notes they aren't playing. Well...

31/8/2025, 5:06:02 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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So, you will get a B natural (instead of flat) at an odd place in the chord progression that feels pretty divorced from what we instinctively know of Bossa nova (kind of how you talk about AI programming being divorced from a knowledge base and tradition—the same thing is happening here)

31/8/2025, 5:03:02 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I've only listened to the 1st 2 songs, and there are a couple of things that I noticed just on cursory listen. 1: "accidentals," which are notes that are written outside of the key (in this case A flat major) which create discord that does not have the right resonance or come to resolution.

31/8/2025, 5:00:42 PM | 9 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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I am glad so many people are finding this useful! The notifications are a bit overwhelming at this point though, so I have muted the thread.

31/8/2025, 4:35:56 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This is so sick omg

31/8/2025, 6:03:02 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It is one of my comfort shows. I am a big ol' sucker for Joan and Sherlock's relationship. ☺️ Sounds like my kind of Saturday, tbh!

31/8/2025, 2:34:29 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I take it back, this is my first choice. The more I think about Hannibal being Samwise and Will being Frodo, the more I cackle.

31/8/2025, 2:22:27 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Unironically, I think Hannibal is Samwise and Will is Frodo lol

31/8/2025, 2:20:38 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

I will have you know that Mulder and Scully would have been my first choice had Amy not already made her excellent selection. Though, I almost go real wacky with it and posted these two:

Hannibal Lecter (Mads Mikkelson) and Will Graham (Hugh Dancy) facing one another. Hannibal has his right hand wrapped around the back of Will's neck. It is a rather intimate moment.
31/8/2025, 2:19:52 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Ok, hear me out. A Lord of the Rings remake but with these two taking the One Ring to Mordor:

31/8/2025, 2:17:06 AM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Good call! I just set my IP blocker and went about my day. lol

31/8/2025, 1:54:40 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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A post has escaped containment. I will proceed to disappear into the ether until it passes. 😶‍🌫️

30/8/2025, 8:50:00 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Amy Hoy (@amyhoy.bsky.social) reposted

you can become your own “I know a guy” Guy! the secret is SMALLTALK with EVERYONE i got a great handyman recommendation from a lady i bought a chair from last week bc i complimented some work in her house

30/8/2025, 4:07:44 PM | 60 4 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just a heads up to anyone using Firefox:

Text reads: Mozilla, in its finite wisdom, embedded LLM bots into recent versions of Firefox for the vitally-important purpose of... naming tab groups. Now, some users are noticing CPU and power usage spikes caused by a background process called Inference. Ugh. Reminder again for Firefox users to visit your about:config page, search for the browser.ml.chat.enabled key, and set that to false: Displayed is a screenshot of Firefox showing the config search bar with the listed search. The word
30/8/2025, 6:07:50 PM | 1301 646 | View on Bluesky | view

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It's almost persimmon season. ☺️

30/8/2025, 6:01:15 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This is the best. 💜

30/8/2025, 5:31:37 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It comes in PURPLE It is embarrassing how much weight this has on my purchasing decisions.

30/8/2025, 5:28:42 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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How novel! XD Thank you for this, I was talking to some people in discord that had the Harvest Right machines, but having functioning customer support is definitely worth a LOT to me.

30/8/2025, 5:23:27 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Me 🤝 the evangelical preppers I grew up around 😭

30/8/2025, 5:05:46 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I do not eat meat, and I have strict health-related dietary restrictions. At this point, I am really starting to feel the urgency/pressure to buy a freeze dryer. Calling all those with freeze dryers: do you have recommendations on machines/where to begin?

30/8/2025, 5:03:10 PM | 6 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Still scheduled a follow-up full panel for him. He is getting older, and I would just like to make sure that he is doing alright and that nothing is masked by cat behavior (not showing pain or discomfort, etc.)

30/8/2025, 4:55:24 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Cat update: it was 1 million percent his old food. After confirming the company sold and the recipe changed (with no indication on the packaging etc.), I immediately switched, and over the past several days he has been improving. He is almost back to 100%, and I am very relieved.

30/8/2025, 4:53:27 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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He wouldn’t be the first authoritarian to stage pictures to subvert the notion that anything is wrong. 😌 Keep ✨manifesting✨

30/8/2025, 4:03:18 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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And much like monocropping, it has disastrou effects. Biodiversity is essential for survival, not to mention to thrive.

30/8/2025, 4:00:38 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Rhiannon Bevan (@rhithewitch.bsky.social) reposted

www.rockpapershotgun.com/a-culture-of... Essential read. Be sure to boycott Microsoft (and therefore, Xbox) to support the workers risking their jobs to fight against Microsoft's complicity in the genocide

30/8/2025, 10:19:07 AM | 845 477 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture 💞Girlstandstill🦉Veilguarding Rogue Trader (@girlstandstill.bsky.social) reposted

I think about this James Baldwin quote a lot, especially now. “The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this may be incapable of morality.”

27/8/2025, 11:08:00 PM | 677 220 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Jay (@kakapojay.bsky.social) reposted

Onto the most fragmentary of the Kem Kem theropods so far, an indeterminate dromaeosaurid known from some teeth and claw material! Size comparison and some thoughts below ⬇️ #sciart #paleoart

A dromaeosaur dinosaur, brown and white
29/8/2025, 10:52:41 PM | 133 26 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com)

I keep remembering Spicomellus and then vibrating with excitement.

29/8/2025, 10:57:07 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

lol T just started saying THINK OF THE ALS dramatically and then hooting like an owl. The confusion compounds!!!

29/8/2025, 10:36:34 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Every time I see "Chat with AI" or something like that in a sans serif font, I feel like it must be very difficult being named Al (as in Albert etc.). Think of the Als!

29/8/2025, 10:26:21 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

I feel like people that have this turned on are a different sort of people. I could honestly never. Not that I don't like the people I follow, just...that is a LOT.

29/8/2025, 10:24:53 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

About 50% of the time. 🫠

29/8/2025, 10:22:59 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Hey, friends! Please take some time to do this today, and as many days as you can. 🙏

29/8/2025, 10:21:41 PM | 14 9 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com)

Took my niece on a Barnes and Noble date and then to lunch. I highly recommend hanging out with the five year olds in your life. Very cool way to spend the day.

29/8/2025, 8:25:07 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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This recording the classical music station is playing has someone in the audience coughing a deep, rattly , mucusy cough and it is really triggering my misophonia. 😡

29/8/2025, 3:21:50 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

It does get a bit frustrating when literary references become a sort of superficial pattern recognition game used to avoid actively engaging with the current moment—I saw the pattern, therefore I have done a thing. It really limits the scope of fiction as a tool, and, I think, misses the point.

29/8/2025, 1:52:02 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

Fiction has been a huge part of my life and has truly aided me in being able to move through this world, but that came through critical thinking and also engaging with the world around me. Even a framework of fiction as alternate history requires rigorous analysis and comparison to work!

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At some point, you have to realize that you are an adult—it’s time to stop looking for the helpers and instead be one. It’s about adults modeling behaviors for children. Deflection and avoidance is a disease, and it’s how we wind up with no helpers & a bunch of half-baked references instead.

29/8/2025, 1:27:39 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture 🌈Tilly Bridges 🏳️‍⚧️✨ (@tillybridges.bsky.social) reposted

y’all know what one of the first nazi book burnings was right? y’all know why they did it y’all know trans people were one of their first targets and even the ALLIES left us in the camps when liberating everyone else y’all see what’s right in front of you, right?

29/8/2025, 3:14:41 AM | 2076 1247 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

I am very curious what split ergo you use (because I am a split ergo enthusiast lol)

29/8/2025, 2:38:43 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I am still reeling from them thinking that admitting to pirating the book would somehow help their case?

29/8/2025, 2:24:27 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I feel like Lake Superior is a bit of a try hard with its name and positioning 😆

29/8/2025, 2:05:57 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Natee (they/them) (@himmapaan.bsky.social) reposted

✨️Original artwork available✨️ Back to reality with a resounding crash after a short break, and a bank balance that left me blanched. 🥲 Variegated Rose Study Watercolour, painted image approx. 95 × 115 mm. £200 + £6 UK or + £15 International tracked postage. Or please feel free to make an offer. 🙏

Watercolour painting of two Variegated roses in pink and pale yellow.
28/8/2025, 9:18:15 PM | 460 96 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

Adding casters to things is very easy, I just had never done it before. I don't know how I'd gone my whole life without needing to add wheels to something, but here we are. Now, to add some to my plant shelves for easier watering. 🥳

28/8/2025, 9:21:57 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com)

I am a DIY master! ...in that I added casters to the ottoman in my office so now, not only can I easily move it out of the way, it is finally at the correct height for my seating. 2.5" doesn't seem like. a lot, but it is hell on hypermobile knees. I have achieved comfort, which feels like an A+.

28/8/2025, 9:15:15 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com)

The flood of AI spammy fake publishing email is making email (an already stressful thing for me) so much worse. May they fall into the center of the sun. 🙏

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Profile picture Rebecca Solnit (@rebeccasolnit.bsky.social) reposted

Re the detransitioning trans person who shot up the school: individual crime does not beget collective guilt, but if it did it is always worth bringing up that the great majority of mass shootings are by (cis-gender) straight white men.

28/8/2025, 4:41:40 PM | 858 140 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

I don't begrudge anyone a good time, though all of you disrespectful clowns have made me loathe BSU football with a passion (whereas I was neutral before). Just please choose to not be losers.

28/8/2025, 5:14:34 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com)

Now that football season is upon us, I have a request: If you are going to games at BSU, be respectful of the surrounding neighborhoods if you are parking in them. Please stop blocking emergency vehicle access, accessibility accesses on sidewalks, strewing trash everywhere.

28/8/2025, 5:13:00 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Chise (@sailorrooscout.bsky.social) reposted

Just a heads up. I was able to schedule my COVID vaccine appointment. Online it will ask “do you have a condition that puts you at high risk for severe outcomes from COVID-19 virus.” Click yes and it will allow you to schedule an appointment. No questions asked. No proof required. Pass it on.

28/8/2025, 2:12:51 PM | 10471 5650 | View on Bluesky | view

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Had to take emergency Benadryl again last night along with extra Zyrtec. I think the wasp sting is finally calming down, but I feel exhausted today. Can barely keep my eyes open. 😴

28/8/2025, 4:15:48 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Martha Wells (@marthawells.com) reposted

Re-upping this again, please spread far and wide:

28/8/2025, 2:55:28 PM | 759 556 | View on Bluesky | view

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Please help this person find this cover because I would very much like to hear it as well. 😌

28/8/2025, 5:59:03 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Rebecca Solnit (@rebeccasolnit.bsky.social) reposted reply parent

The roses pictured were at the cottage Orwell lived in from 1936-1940s and may be ones he planted. He took a bullet fighting fascism, did more against it as a writer, noted in a column, "last time I mentioned flowers in this column an indignant lady wrote in to say that flowers are bourgeois.”

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28/8/2025, 2:22:36 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

The fact of the matter is the circumstances that led to this person choosing this path are very likely social and driven by precisely the people that will use it as a cudgel.

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I wish there was any way to see this and not have every other thought about why this happens immediately buried in overwhelming fear about how this will be used against all trans people going forward.

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Profile picture eel, i (@eliacugini.bsky.social) reposted

wrote up a quick account of a trans teenager who was murdered by their father [allegedly] and is being treated as a cis woman by all relevant media coverage. hasn't been picked up by queer media even though he wrapped them in a pride flag after killing them eliacugini.medium.com/onyx-cornish...

27/8/2025, 1:17:02 PM | 232 92 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just watched Good Madam with the Deadlight Theater. Whew! What a ride. Excellently written and shot.

28/8/2025, 12:32:45 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The thing is, it IS very important. To me, specifically. I just haven't figured out how to wrangle the ADHD into believing that is a sufficient enough motivator.

27/8/2025, 10:45:30 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com)

Independent study is weird because I'm sitting here creating a syllabus for the fall and then I'll spend loads of time trying to trick my brain into not remembering that this is entirely made up. Please, brain, believe these deadlines are very real and important. 🙏

27/8/2025, 10:44:37 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

"I am here to be rude because this is a rude technology." 👏👏👏

27/8/2025, 10:00:14 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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T just sends me things to get me riled up link: anthonymoser.github.io/writing/ai/h...

Screenshot of an iMessage conversation. On the left is T's message which is just a link to a blog post titled
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Yeah, I think you are right! It does make the times that I need to apologize a lot more thoughtful, and I think I am more aware of my impact more generally!

27/8/2025, 9:49:12 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

When I say sorry to my therapist (less now, but used to be a lot), she would fully stop and make me answer this question: did you do something to cause me harm? No? Then why are you apologizing? It was deeply uncomfortable for me. 😅

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Profile picture Charlie Jane "Lessons in Magic and Disaster" Anders 🏳️‍⚧ (@charliejane.bsky.social) reposted

Now more than ever, we need to be supporting our indie fiction mags, especially ones that feature bold, startling writing. Please give what you can! 💝

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Profile picture Amy Hoy (@amyhoy.bsky.social) reposted

lexaprogrammer didn’t frame this as advice but it IS great advice. sometimes people truly do not want to be helped, but their complaints are worth mentally noting anyway bc more help-able people might have the same challenges AND want a solution

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Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

😂 😂 😂 Go go gadget venn diagram

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Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

Yes, this is how I understand it as well. I feel like I need to make a geometry proof of bbq lol

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Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

Yeah, generally I have found that letting go of pedantry is the best way in pretty much all cases. ☺️ As a person terrified of the California raisins as a child, I agree. No thank you.

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Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

But I do really like that we all have our own versions of hanging out outside, cooking over flame, and sharing it with people. It is a nice thing!

27/8/2025, 7:55:48 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

Yeah, I think that my curiosity about how people talk about it is rooted in the ‘tism. Because as a younger person, I would have been upset by calling it something “wrong,” and while I still am perplexed, now I am just curious. I am only insistent about bbq (food) vs. hamburgers called bbq 😆

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Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

BBQ sauce is just BBQ sauce. Common ground 🤝

27/8/2025, 7:49:04 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

Yeah that makes sense! My grill had a smoke tray built into it so you can kind of smoke your food and I didn’t have to have two expensive things in my tiny space 😅, so that also added to the grill/bbq/smoker crossover.

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Profile picture malorie (@malorienilson.com) reply parent

A true love language 🙏 😍 💕

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