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Megan

@mesoho.bsky.social

Woman. Intersectional feminist. Inclusive of everyone (that is inclusive themselves). The "Tolerance" Paradox is not a paradox: We are inclusive all who do not wish to harm us. (It was never philosophy. Just sophistry)

created February 13, 2025

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Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

You didn't contribute to that at all. I thoroughly enjoyed speaking with you. I think it was more to do with other things I felt helpless about. So many people are having an awful time and a lot of heartless people are enjoying it. That spun me out. I'm back in balance now ♥️

1/9/2025, 8:19:47 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I had three different cis women approach me on Saturday. One of them saw me form about 25m away. She changed path to approach me. Each one of them complimented my hair. (Which was looking great I must say) I maintain that there are not many TERFs. Even JKR's Xwitter is 80% American and/or bots

1/9/2025, 8:10:52 AM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

The Labour government LOVES foreign paedophiles. Sir Queer Harmer gets on very well with a massive one. Makes deals with him. Is condemning immigrants and trans people to lives of segregation and misery just to please him

1/9/2025, 8:04:20 AM | 3 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Front Page news on the Bloviating Bigots Corporation website. The "great" British public have chosen this year's storm names "Wubbo" 🙄😒 At least the "wits" didn't come up with Stormy McStormface Although at least Stormy is a name of sorts

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1/9/2025, 7:58:57 AM | 0 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Thank you. I appreciate it. I was just a short wobble in the end. My nervous system got a little disregulated, but my therapist had previously shown me how to deal with it, so I was just going to take a break. I’m around again now just for shorter periods

1/9/2025, 5:16:16 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Hi Poppy thank you. It was really just social media overload. Sent me into a doom spiral. My therapist previously gave me tools to manage it. Just curate my access. I thought I’d be gone for a week or so but to turned out to just be overnight. I’m back on, just for less time. Thank you though

1/9/2025, 5:11:06 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Apply to Bluesky to be their Safety and Moderation Manager. It worked for Aaron Rodericks @aaron.bsky.team

31/8/2025, 8:54:23 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I blocked Arya Dung quite some time ago. I don’t feel I’m missing out

31/8/2025, 8:45:36 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

She has a voice like vinegar don’t you think?

31/8/2025, 7:27:31 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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31/8/2025, 5:04:40 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Come on terminal cancer

31/8/2025, 5:03:52 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Hopefully …

31/8/2025, 5:03:05 PM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I’ve not used it. I was trying to find something else, but possibly Fedica is an option? (NOTE I always lie about my data on Social Media. They don’t need it) fedica.com/blog/bluesky...

31/8/2025, 5:01:16 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

The Cougar Whisperer

31/8/2025, 4:47:47 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Most of them deserve it. Nadia is an exception

31/8/2025, 4:35:36 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Labour will be held in the same contempt as the Nazis in years to come, when this shitshow finally falls apart. A legacy of hatred

31/8/2025, 4:34:16 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Thank you The transphobic bitch won’t listen. She has not listened to trans people or actual experts at any stage of this fucking stitch up and she won’t now. But at least she can’t pretend she doesn’t know with all of the in writing protests This crime against humanity is being VERY well documented

31/8/2025, 4:33:01 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Wouldn’t want to be the horse trying to hold up that fat useless fuck

31/8/2025, 9:01:03 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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31/8/2025, 8:55:54 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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31/8/2025, 8:55:01 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture J O A N N E 🦓 🏳️‍⚧️❤️💋 (@shakyjoanne.bsky.social) reposted

This👇🏻

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4/8/2025, 5:49:55 AM | 11 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

It’s part of their “terrify the population” and “root out the non-productive weak” philosophy. This is straight out of their predecessors’ 90 year old playbook

31/8/2025, 6:11:33 AM | 9 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Shows this hatred is not a grassroots thing when the protests are coordinated in Anglo nations. There is very little support but it’s being coordinated and massively over reported by far right racist billionaires As part of the coup

31/8/2025, 6:08:32 AM | 5 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I mean it should be expressed that the far right parties Labour, Tories and Reform are LOUSY with stinking TERFs but I don’t care about them because I could never vote for them. I might have considered this one

31/8/2025, 6:04:36 AM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Hooty!

30/8/2025, 11:58:08 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I can’t tell them “I told you so” because I have a blocklist for them and subscribed to another. I block them on sight. And permanently. Same as with the Newsom zealots. Muted for reposting his Xwitter posts. Permablock for attacking, blaming, talking down to me or “lesser of two evil”ing me

30/8/2025, 9:45:47 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Agreed. And they have three of the bastards . I mean ATM “YourParty” appears to be a single issue Free Palestine party. I of course support Palestine. But that, copying the Greens’ homework and adding in Labour’s revolting transphobia doesn’t make an attractive new party

30/8/2025, 9:41:22 PM | 9 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

This YourParty (not ours) Xwitter post from one of their MPs. Bigoted segregationist twat wanting to “third space” us.

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30/8/2025, 9:34:32 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Thank you. Someone did point this out from Zarah Sultana on Xwitter though. Although her fucking interior social media team didn’t port it across to Bsky. I will still hope, but I doing think there’s enough reason to trust RN

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30/8/2025, 9:32:29 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Is this about the outing of Adnan Hussein or some other gruesome thing?

30/8/2025, 9:28:50 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Safe third spaces for TERFs maybe. Most women (including trans women) just wanna go about our lives without this gender apartheid shit. So a segregationist third space should be provided for segregationist TERFs

30/8/2025, 4:25:55 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I have thought about it. I want it to be true. Only from now on, no more male bodies thanks. It’s taken me ages to fix this one!

30/8/2025, 2:00:49 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

*The once and future king. *Y Mab Darogan *The return of the crucified Messiah *The politician who will “make everything better” *When the benevolent aliens come *One day everyone will see sense and agree with me. *When he dies it will go back to how it was The dreams of the oppressed and of cattle

30/8/2025, 5:00:22 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

You can only appeal to humanity in people who have any. The protestors have none

29/8/2025, 9:34:16 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Trans women DO NOT make women’s spaces unsafe. They are also OUR spaces that we have been in for 65 years without incident. Stealing our rights, our healthcare, our dignity and our access to our spaces is a horrific act based on lies and bigotry If you can’t see this you are NOT an ally of ANY kind

29/8/2025, 9:13:24 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Well well that was from today! Clearly her media team hasn’t ported it over here yet then. 🤔 Could have avoided this if you’d included the date. It is similar to one she did 3-6 months ago 3 of YourParty MPs ARE homophobes and transphobes though With Adnan Hassan expressing trans apartheid TODAY

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29/8/2025, 9:10:03 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Okay I’m blocking your anonymous account now. If you want to continue this desperate attempt to attack trans people and you want MY responses, switch to your main account and stop being a fucking coward

29/8/2025, 9:00:17 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I am not. Why are you denying?

29/8/2025, 8:57:45 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Yes I am absolutely saying Newsom is a monster. Because I pay attention and you don’t. Now put this shit on your main account. With you’re face and your name on it, or don’t waste my time

29/8/2025, 8:57:21 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

You don’t listen. So what are you trying to demand of others. You want capitulation not discussion and that v shoots not going to fly, new anonymous account guy / contrarian bot Why not say this with your whole chest on your main account? If you can’t or you’re name and your face on it STFU

29/8/2025, 8:55:39 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Bigotry has a fucking MASSIVE part in YourParty (but not mine)

29/8/2025, 8:42:26 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

YourParty MPs:- Shockat Adam chaired a group that opposes LGBT teaching in schools. Adnan Hussain has shared anti-trans posts on social media. Ayoub Khan has spoken implying an opposition to same-sex marriage. Adnan Hussein posted TODAY that trans women should be banned from our spaces

29/8/2025, 8:41:35 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Interesting you snipped out the date of posting. I remember seeing this the first time too. Please do me the respect of not trying to dunk on me. I have seen ALL of her posts. I’m sure you bystanders think we pay attention even less than you do. Three of their six MPs are homophobic or transphobic

29/8/2025, 8:38:20 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

When both sides field a monster then both sides can justifiably be called out. WE ain’t voting for either monster. Not theirs. Not yours. You have been told. Maybe we will affect the result. Maybe we won’t. But if you sell us out again, maybe you get more Trump. Your choice. Not a negotiation

29/8/2025, 8:35:40 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Bullshit. You betrayed us already. You infantilise us, bully us, tell us that we are wrong and stupid and deliberately misrepresent us. You will do ANYTHING but listen to us. You ALREADY dropped us. You NEVER “loved and supported us” YOU made your choice. We didn’t make you. OWN it fake allys

29/8/2025, 8:30:55 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

YourParty MPs:- Shockat Adam chaired a group that opposes LGBT teaching in schools. Adnan Hussain has shared anti-trans posts on social media. Ayoub Khan has spoken implying an opposition to same-sex marriage. Not OUR Party 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Annette would not be impressed.

29/8/2025, 6:53:32 PM | 51 11 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

She has definitely spoken for trans people, quite passionately and unequivocally on her speech tour with Bernie though. I remember crying watching one of them. And she has challenged transphobia in congress too.

29/8/2025, 6:47:10 PM | 11 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Cause you're a prick maybe?🤷‍♀️

29/8/2025, 1:21:19 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

People should swallow their pride and vote for a genocide enabler? Oookayy ...🙄 ... 😒 ... nah! That another genocide enabler got in is not the non-voters' faults. Its the fault of the GOP and the GNC.

29/8/2025, 1:20:14 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

And I get that. But its an immovable fact. No trans person is gonna vote for plastic Hitler. Nominate someone who will not throw trans people under the bus. If you want their votes. Otherwise nominate Newsom and just, lose again probably

29/8/2025, 1:17:47 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I was very explicit that I am talking about the attacks on trans people's existence. NEWSOM AND TRUMP ARE EXACTLY THE SAME Fuck your sealioning trauma Olympics. We are being killed. But you don't care. You attack us for refusing plastic Gavin We wont sacrifice OUR lives for YOUR comfort.🖕😁🖕

29/8/2025, 1:13:37 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

For clarity, I'm taking a self care break. Regrouping. Not anything more drastic. To my friends, community, REAL allys and other decent people on here, look after yourselves. Curate your exposure to the grimness. It helps. See you down the road a bit I hope. One day he will be dead. Outlive him

29/8/2025, 9:09:25 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social)

Bluesky is destroying me today. It's just inviting horror into my phone. I'm sorry I can't help you financially. I know everyone is scared. Me too. I know the political & TERF orcs are ramping it up again. But I'm just, SO exhausted. Tapping out. Stay safe ♥️ (not TERFs & fascists. YOU can die)

29/8/2025, 8:58:35 AM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Cis people care about themselves only

29/8/2025, 8:50:32 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Sounds very much like YOUR government too.

29/8/2025, 8:47:29 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Happy birthday Annette. I'll bet ANNETTE would support transgender rights. Unlike you

29/8/2025, 8:46:07 AM | 10 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Honestly Nadia, you have been a lioness for us. But I'm DONE. Your party doesn't listen. YOUR government is eradicating us There's no appeal to humanity that can move a dead corrupt hateful heart I'm exhausted. FUCK your government. FUCK this CUNTry and FUCK your inhuman laws. No more begging🖕😒🖕

29/8/2025, 8:45:00 AM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Especially Labour

29/8/2025, 8:31:39 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

No Labour already support sex perverts and the PM loves paedos. But admittedly, so do both parties

29/8/2025, 8:31:09 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

NOT👏A👏TRANS👏WOMAN👏 Per capita, Scottish Labour MSPs are A bigger threat to “womenandgirls”™️ than trans women are.

29/8/2025, 8:19:21 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

They can’t do ANYTHING right. Fucking assholes!

29/8/2025, 8:13:51 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

So what exactly is this piece of shit?

29/8/2025, 8:03:48 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Normal trans people yes absolutely. It’s like having hope for the first time. Enjoy it. It lasts as well. Even with all THIS (gestures vaguely with distaste everywhere) going in, I have never stopped appreciating it. The cis people? No idea. So many of them seem perpetually angry.

29/8/2025, 7:59:33 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

That will help

29/8/2025, 7:50:51 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Labour? No thank you! Not after they moved far right.

29/8/2025, 7:46:29 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Was this her AFTER the hit (sorry “accident”?

29/8/2025, 7:45:46 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Margaret thatcher I think

29/8/2025, 7:44:39 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

They really can’t paint Margaret Thatcher properly

29/8/2025, 7:44:21 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Well it’s no surprise really. We always knew Thatcher was a raging bigot

29/8/2025, 7:43:33 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

It was clear on rereading. The mistake was entirely mine. I should not post when I’m still waking up. Have a good one

29/8/2025, 6:15:47 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

😂😂😂

29/8/2025, 6:12:18 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Always.

29/8/2025, 6:11:10 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Done. OMG that was horrific. I really am so sorry. If it was at a NewStan I would have no remorse for it. I loathe those transphobic shits. But I DEEPLY apologise for writing that to you, for my misreading what you said

29/8/2025, 6:08:14 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh shit! I’m so sorry. I really did didn’t I? I’ll delete my monstrous reply now

29/8/2025, 6:04:19 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh same here. In my 50s

29/8/2025, 6:02:47 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Yeah it’s our fault for not voting for the old boy’s last minute replacement, who also supports genocide. Biden had opportunities to put Trump away much earlier than he did. But he did not. Own your own shit. YOUR team fucked it all up by its own cowardice

29/8/2025, 5:46:03 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Don’t lecture trans people on accepting a guy who wants to eradicate us. Fuck your “lesser of two evils” bullshit

29/8/2025, 5:42:05 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

It means it’s working. I’m 17 months in and they are still sore to the touch. But still growing 😁

29/8/2025, 5:36:08 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Wow a slogan. Well that’s convinced me. That’s almost as shit as “my country right or wrong”. Be honest what you are demanding is “Vote for my guy. Your lives are a price I’m willing to pay” Or “Accept worse” In the words of Anthrax “Fuck Off And Die”

29/8/2025, 5:18:09 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

A trans woman who knows what this anti trans homeless hating, child fucking hypocrite has done is wrong, and one of his enthusiastic zealots who accepts a VERY low bar for his handsome plastic hero is right? Don’t make me laugh you fucking cretin LGB does not equal trans. Prick.

29/8/2025, 5:12:59 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

No you need to grow up and stop nominating people who do fucking horrible things like supporting genocide. Stop demanding people accept worse. Provide better. NewStan Zealot clown.

29/8/2025, 5:08:32 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

And like I said, NOT the transphobic court jester who wants to hurt community. Full Stop. Trans people are just as f*cked with Newsom or Trump and we won’t support either or the two evils. Just if Trump steals a 3rd term, cis folks are f*cked too. So don’t nominate Newsom. Your choice

28/8/2025, 10:27:26 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

We stand with the TRUE best hopes JB Pritzker and AOC. Court Jester Newsom serves a purpose as a distraction on social media.

28/8/2025, 8:58:05 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

JB Pritzker is the ACTUAL best hope (paired with AOC) for the 2028 ticket. Not Plastic Gavin

28/8/2025, 8:49:27 PM | 22 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Because of Xwitter posts trolling Trump? It’s funny and his social media manager should be paid way more. But I desperately hope that’s not the “best” chance. If that’s all it took, Mark Hamill should be prez

28/8/2025, 8:21:20 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

You know that’s a very good point. I sometimes forget. If you let words like that go, even when they’re joking, then it sort of becomes acceptable in casual conversation and people who don’t mean it in a jokey way then start joining in and … well we know where that leads to.

28/8/2025, 7:53:27 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I get that. I agree he should too. I just don’t like him. But if he can get under 47’s skin (possibly irritate him so much he has a heart attack) then all to the good.

28/8/2025, 7:50:11 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

So we mess up. But thankfully, we also forget why we argued or indeed who we argued with. But you and I? We are good. I respect you. I know you have skin in the game and are a true ally. Plus you’re a mom who loves her trans kid AND dealing with all this 💩 (gestures vaguely everywhere)

28/8/2025, 7:48:30 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

As today. But honestly, this too will pass. People we argue with today can be friends tomorrow. As you probably know from experience (and thank you for sharing some of your own challenges there. It sounds crazy) it’s hard to consider everything when you are being bombarded with chaos every day…4/

28/8/2025, 7:42:06 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

And it frustrates us when others support someone who doesn’t support us. A lot of Newsom supporters, rather than believe us, disbelieve us, out tell us that we should take one for the team, or attack us. So we can be quite belligerent. Sometimes, like today, we overreact …3/

28/8/2025, 7:39:03 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

We all get most of our info from the media and it is easy to take it at face value. But for trans people, we don’t trust the media because it ALWAYS lies about us. So we always fact check. Especially about where they stands on trans rights. So we don’t invest in someone who might harm us …2/

28/8/2025, 7:36:55 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Hi Poppy, I could see from the first that you were a good person. That you called out the Tranny slur is testament to that. Whether it was a result of misunderstandings is sort of neither here not there to me. You saw a wrong and you called it out. That is allyship…. 1/

28/8/2025, 7:33:58 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh definitely they are. But there's limits to their reach. A British citizen overseas is subject to the laws of the land they are IN. Not where they are from. And at the moment you cannot be held liable for what you do overseas if it is not a crime there. I'm just trying to think around the problem

28/8/2025, 3:45:14 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

It's not my place to try and speak for everyone here. I think I'd justifiably take heat if I tried. I feel that given the pressure we are under in these horrific times, arguments are inevitable sometimes. Especially on social media. My appeal to all is to let this go. Tomorrow's another day.

28/8/2025, 3:33:19 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

You caught me on a good day. 😜 No I get it. It's overwhelming isn't it? Honestly I think I cope because I've been seeing a brilliant therapist this last 4 months. I'm still scared too, and I still get in scraps online. And I know how much more scary it is for a mom worried about her kid. ♥️

28/8/2025, 3:25:01 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

Thank you. And I completely understand. In similar situations I have not backed down either. I have reread my posts and one of them does appear confrontational even though my later posts were conciliatory. So for my part. I apologise.

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Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

If they tried to shut it ALL down, what other precedents does that set to require alignment with other laws? If we can force the laws to be applied consistently in a way that adversely affects cis folks, that might make those self interested f*ckers actually CARE about what's happening to US

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Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

I appreciate you want to defend LGBTQIAA. I'm not here to dogpile you. Goddess knows we need allys. Most have fled But with love and respect, trans people's humour (as a result of what we are facing and have faced) is dark as hell. And we often operate on "Attack the witch, expect the whole coven"

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Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

WE use Tranny about ourselves. We have reclaimed it . We know TERF orcs use it about us too. Trans people shitposting is what this site was built on before the great Xwitter migration. Whatever beef you have with the lady you are responding to, this is not the hill you want to die on

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Profile picture Megan (@mesoho.bsky.social) reply parent

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 Sorry. I tried. It did not go well

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