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Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking.

@mgrammar.bsky.social

The guy who used to write Motivated Grammar. Erstwhile blogger: https://motivatedgrammar.wordpress.com

created September 29, 2023

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Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Because AI lies all the time. I tried to find any evidence of this in Cherryh's book and came up empty. It's possible it's in there I just didn't look in the right place. But AIs are so notorious for making things up that it's irresponsible not to confirm this is real before spreading the rumor.

24/9/2025, 2:03:37 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I think it tells them what they want to hear. It's hard to convince (some) people that AIs are inaccurate because the AI likes to tell the user they're right. I've started giving my students a task to ask an AI about something they know well, and that's the quickest way to convince them it lies.

24/9/2025, 12:32:45 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

That's a pretty obvious piece of evidence that the AI is just making up an answer; it's incredibly unlikely that Cherryh would've had that misspelling in the published work. Barbara probably copied Acyn's misspelling and then the AI repeated it while making up a source.

24/9/2025, 12:28:40 AM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

That's almost certainly not true. You should never trust AI bots for something as important as this; they constantly hallucinate. It's incredibly irresponsible to share this as if it's true! There are so many good reasons to be mad at her; this isn't one and makes all of us look bad.

24/9/2025, 12:25:33 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

"I believe in freedom of religion! I also believe in discriminating against you for your religion! I am both non-contradictory and a liberal?"

24/9/2025, 12:04:21 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Not to mention that it's clear he falls for the most tepid of praise! "I couldn't be bothered to read your book, but I basically agree with it" is a dismissal. Yet he's holding it up like it's a signed contract reading "I will never meaningfully disagree with you".

23/9/2025, 7:00:20 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture David Dayen (@ddayen.bsky.social) reposted

The headlong push to authoritarianism is starting to hit some hurdles, writes Robert Kuttner. prospect.org/politics/202...

23/9/2025, 2:17:17 PM | 46 15 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture ryan cooper (@ryanlcooper.com) reposted

ICYMI, this series is one of my favorite things I've ever done

23/9/2025, 5:03:13 PM | 175 24 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Sucks she supports Mamdani only because "he's the nominee", when the other candidates are a gov who resigned in disgrace, a vigilante, & a mayor whose campaign finance charges were dropped by sucking up to Trump and claiming they were lies cooked up by the Biden admin (which includes Harris)

23/9/2025, 5:10:54 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I hate to hand it to a Tory, but footnote 4 is awfully well delivered. "Oh yeah, also, there's an obviously corrupt Lordship, but we'll have to deal with that another time." It lands less well when you remember their corrpution, but in isolation, it's good snark!

23/9/2025, 4:46:36 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

"Urge" is such a weird verb to use with Trump, because he's almost uniquely incapable of urging. He declares, he demands, he asserts, he tells, he forces. Or he just rambles nonsensically. Urging requires some sense of rationality and a belief that others gets to make their own decisions.

23/9/2025, 4:41:08 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social)

Scootch is mad at me because she can't tell time. She thinks that it is 10am already and that I am being negligent in my one important job: feeding her. I don't enjoy being told *I'm* wrong by someone who is wrong. But at least she has the decency to look cutely outraged at my uselessness.

A black-and-white cat walks on a wooden floor, with an irritated face, because she wants food NOW A black-and-white cat sits on a wooden floor, with an irritated face, because she wants food NOW a close-up of the previous picture so that you can see just how angry her eyebrows are.
23/9/2025, 4:35:35 PM | 3 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Just like with the Iraq war, I know it's inevitable that everyone will turn out to have been silently against this genocide in retrospect. But it's really hard for me to believe that anyone who couldn't even tolerate on-campus protests were actually secretly on the same side as the protestors.

23/9/2025, 1:03:18 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Look back at him and his ilk; it's all people who got microphones not just because they were compelling, but because they were conservative and anti-Islam. Bill Maher, Richard Dawkins, etc. There were equally good debaters (PZ Myers, etc.) who weren't praised because they weren't Thatcherite enough.

22/9/2025, 5:58:58 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

His "debating" with Christians was based not in a "No Gods, No Masters" idea, but a "No Gods, I Should Be Master". Media outlets could cover him because he wanted to overthrow religion because it helped to achieve his Thatcherist "no such thing as society" idea.

22/9/2025, 5:58:58 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Hitchens's atheism was conservative, and even if I benefited from it by ditching my tattered religious trappings, I ended up worse by having him as an inspiration because of his rampant Islamophobia and fever for West Asian Wars. I would've gotten to atheism without him.

22/9/2025, 5:58:58 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I dunno... I think a lot of Hitchens's and the New Atheists' popularity was that they weren't actually to the left in any meaningful way, including their "radical" ideas, and thus could be safely platformed and agreed with by people with power.

22/9/2025, 5:58:58 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Sorry to be jumping in on this so late, but this isn't new. It was the subject of three studies starting in the late 1990s, and it's older than the US. The reason it's centered in Pittsburgh and the South Midland dialect region is it's a Scots English construct and arrived with Scottish immigrants.

22/9/2025, 5:05:57 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Oh, yeah, sorry, I re-read what you copied and it's obviously "no one would listen to me that they didn't go conservative enough!!"

22/9/2025, 4:56:33 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Wasn't his objection to Walz as a "risk-averse wasted opportunity" that he was too lefty? As I recall, Yggy et al wanted someone like Shapiro, fresh off his support of crackdowns on campus protesting. This seems more like doubling down on "we gotta sell out our supposed values" to me?

22/9/2025, 4:54:58 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I'd love for that to happen too. Speaking from my experience in the US, where the leaders of our "Labor" party still seem to hate the far-left more than they hate the far-right, I have my doubts. But if y'all can do it, maybe it'll inspire our leaders to find their voices too.

22/9/2025, 4:50:06 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social)

I'm trying to get myself to blog again, so I started reading through some of my old posts to rekindle the excitement of the old days. I hope you don't mind if I occasionally share ones that I think were pretty good. Here's one on comma splices: motivatedgrammar.wordpress.com/2012/07/23/c...

22/9/2025, 4:43:52 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Right there with ya as a Padres fan.

22/9/2025, 3:39:15 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Good news: he didn't disagree with Charlie if he thinks that!

21/9/2025, 11:58:50 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I'm fine with offering forgiveness if *asked* for forgiveness. But so many of the "repentant" Trump voters getting profiled are saying "I was right to vote for them, but they're not fixing things like they said they would". They think the things they voted for would work if not for Trump's enemies

21/9/2025, 8:50:43 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

The collapse of the Iran deal was such a convenient illustration of this. The GOP told Iran: "go ahead and sign if you want, but we're ripping it up whenever we get power" And they did, and the Dems mostly just shrugged bc it's Iran, ignoring that no one else would trust us anymore either

21/9/2025, 8:41:11 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

It's this classic photograph, but in reverse. I look forward to us getting it going in the right direction again.

21/9/2025, 3:47:48 AM | 8 2 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I just re-read the 2024 expose about Lincoln University's football team from USA Today and, hoo boy is it a wild ride! The players living out of a warehouse owned by the coach's family was one of many weird twists and turns. www.usatoday.com/story/sports...

21/9/2025, 1:24:36 AM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social)

I read, in the book "The Flavor Matrix", that the tastes of corn and vanilla go well together. As a social scientist, I felt the need to replicate this finding, and I can now confirm it. Unfortunately, I have no idea how to use this information. Open to any suggestions you might have.

20/9/2025, 8:10:29 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Thanks for pointing that out! I missed it at first and it made me laugh out loud when I rewatched

20/9/2025, 5:25:44 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social)

Got blocked last night for disagreeing with someone's language prescriptions. Guess who's back, baby!!

20/9/2025, 5:19:52 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social)

I was researching the mythological Sirens, in order to improve a jokey metaphor. I found someone citing Cicero, who claimed that the Sirens' appeal was not their song per se, but rather their impressive knowledge and their willingness to share it with passersby. Is this a common interpretation?

20/9/2025, 7:50:21 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Huh, apparently Dreyer blocked me for my usage? Maybe this is a more contentious preposition than I imagined. I stick by my analysis, but maybe you should check with one more person to break the tie.

20/9/2025, 6:01:56 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Yeah, in my dialect, "of" absolutely doesn't work there. I'm guessing you're writing something like "With only a few games left in the season, there's not much margin for error"? Definitely only works as "for" for me.

20/9/2025, 5:52:22 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I've got a pet theory similar to yours. I think some people want to be seen as liberal, because it's a more moral position. They say things like "I'm as far left as you can be, but...". So when they encounter someone (or some idea) to their left, they have to reject it or admit they're not far-left.

20/9/2025, 4:43:27 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

In use, it'd be something like "I conducted a poll and found that 43% of people eat sandwiches, with a 4% margin OF error" but "I have to be careful cutting this shelf; I'm fitting it into a 4-foot-wide alcove and there's not a lot of margin for error".

20/9/2025, 4:33:53 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

"Margin for error" is a reasonable usage, it's just for a different meaning. "Of" is when you have something but aren't able to determine its precise value (e.g., mean in a statistical analysis of data you've collected). "For" is when you don't yet have something and build in uncertainty.

20/9/2025, 4:33:53 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Saying "Nice place to visit but I wouldn't want to live there" is downright idiomatic! We all know this - Rigby even moreso than those of us with less lavish travel budgets - but it just falls out of their brains when feigned ignorance is more useful.

19/9/2025, 5:44:44 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I feel like I've been saying the same "It's not measurable but trust me!" thing about AI, but in reverse. Researchers see things like "95% accurate" and say that's good! But those 5% of failures, delivered by a magic computer that users mistake as infallible, are costly in hard to quantify ways.

19/9/2025, 5:33:22 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

You know, I don't ever seem to have written about that! I'm pretty surprised. So thanks for reminding me of this one. There's no better motivation than debunking a grammar myth that also allows me to say "actually, I *am* right!".

19/9/2025, 5:27:59 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

So thanks for getting me to learn something new in investigating an old lie!

19/9/2025, 5:20:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

(I found out about the contemporary usages from a quick Wikipedia check to make sure that I was remembering the dual/plural distinction correctly, and it's a good read if you're interested!) en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dual_(g...

19/9/2025, 5:20:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

The only thing I like about saying "alternative"/"between" => 2 and "options"/"among" => 3+ is that it introduces a feature that's cross-linguistically common but not in English: the dual/plural distinction. I forgot it existed in Old Eng, and I didn't know dual pronouns exist in some Englishes!

19/9/2025, 5:20:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Thanks for the ideas! I've always had a particular hatred for that last one, plus the similar "between" vs. "among" distinction. I've (and the OED) see the distinction being about categorical vs. gradient. I wrote about it 16(!!) years ago: motivatedgrammar.wordpress.com/2009/11/03/t...

19/9/2025, 5:20:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture LA Public Press (@lapublicpress.bsky.social) reposted

Loyola Marymount just declared its faculty union doesn’t exist anymore. Non-tenure track professors say the Catholic university walked away from bargaining talks using a religious exemption to avoid federal labor laws—something labor advocates say has never happened before.

18/9/2025, 5:15:14 PM | 263 152 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Atrios (@eschatonblog.com) reposted

I see people with nothing battling ICE and rich dipshits like Klein bonding with ben shapiro

18/9/2025, 6:52:20 PM | 287 56 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Mignon Fogarty (@grammargirl.bsky.social) reposted

When I want to SHOUT, I write in all capital letters, but some languages don't have capitals. How those languages portray shouting is just one of the many cool things I talked about with Adam Aleksic in today's podcast. Check it out! APPLE PODCASTS: bit.ly/3KazlQP SPOTIFY: bit.ly/3Io3jjQ

18/9/2025, 5:42:58 PM | 12 3 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

That's really cool. I'm a little sheepish to admit I hadn't thought about that. It reminds me of how tonal languages express intonation, vs. non-tonal languages. I enjoy listening to rock music sung with tonal lyrics to illustrate how there's both within-word and within-phrase tone structure.

18/9/2025, 5:51:41 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

"an interesting place to start a conversation" "Prove me wrong" plastered all over the tent I'm sitting under is the right way to start a conversation. Posting the edited clips up on YouTube with "Non-binary person DESTROYED with facts and logic" is a good summary of a conversation. smh

18/9/2025, 4:07:57 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Thanks for making the first screenshot his "Never really heard much about...", because it's such a great reminder that if he cared about it, HE could've said something.

18/9/2025, 4:02:02 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Josh Sternberg (@joshsternberg.com) reposted

It's wild to me how ostensibly smart people cannot/could not/will not see what is so obvious. @mmasnick.bsky.social nails it. And my hunch is we'd be a better society if the Very Serious People with the Very Serious Ideas opened their fucking eyes. www.techdirt.com/2025/09/17/t...

There are many problems with this statement, but Klein’s fundamental error reveals something much more dangerous: he’s mistaking performance for discourse, spectacle for persuasion. Kirk wasn’t showing up to campuses to “talk with anyone who would talk to him.” He was showing up armed with a string of logical fallacies, nonsense talking points, and gotcha questions specifically designed to enrage inexperienced college students so he could generate viral social media clips of himself “owning the libs.”
17/9/2025, 6:26:42 PM | 1884 504 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Fuzzy Mike (@fuzzymike.bsky.social) reposted

for basically everybody working in entertainment, the news, academia; it's gotta feel like you're barely holding off count dracula and suddenly the leader of your ragrag group and all your friends around you pop their fangs

17/9/2025, 11:51:25 PM | 32 7 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

*Ezra* doesn't take the disagreements or their stakes seriously! No matter how explicitly Kirk said we can't live here with him, Klein just pretends that Kirk didn't mean these things. I won't be lectured on taking arguments seriously by people who don't take arguments seriously!

17/9/2025, 9:04:50 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social)

Does anyone have any grammar myths out there that I could debunk to add a bit of levity to my life? Every time I try to think about linguistic prescriptivism, I just think about the people getting fired for listing their pronouns. I need something inconsequential like "'different than' is wrong".

17/9/2025, 6:30:12 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Wow. How could anyone so accurately describe Kirk's Watch List and say "well, he'd never do that"? I thought it was sarcasm! I haven't seen that precise of a mistake since Naomi Wolf's book based on her assumption that "death recorded" meant "executed" when it actually meant "not executed".

17/9/2025, 6:30:10 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Every time that anyone in this administration writes something, it's so much *less* polished and coherent than you'd expect. Again, skepticism's warranted. But this sounds more like how someone who believed they'd done the right but hard thing would talk than how a Kash Patel underling would talk.

16/9/2025, 11:45:06 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Apologies for the tangent, but your explanation helps me understand this dumb baseball problem as well. There're too many people whose stated goals conflict with the known consequences of their actions. I guess it's just a longer version of the purpose of a system is what it does. Thanks again!

16/9/2025, 11:40:30 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Some folks replied: "As a fan, my goal is to win the championship! If he doesn't want to get booed, he needs to play better." I countered: if your goal is to win, and a guy says "cheering helps me win, booing undermines my confidence", you should cheer, because it furthers your goal... No change.

16/9/2025, 11:40:30 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Thanks, that was far more succinct than I expected and it's pretty airtight! I've been in an ongoing argument in a baseball forum about booing your team's players when they have a bad game. A player, in an interview, said it was inspiring to get cheers and deflating to get booed.

16/9/2025, 11:40:30 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Judging by the funding cuts & overreaction to pro-Palestinian protests at the UCs and CSUs, Newsom and the Regents might have a lower opinion of the state's universities than Trump does. Trump thinks they're dangerous foes that need shut down; Newsom thinks they're dummies replaceable by ChatGPT.

16/9/2025, 10:50:39 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I'm not saying "don't be skeptical", but I guess I'm saying "don't be so skeptical". Maybe most young people don't talk like this. But most of them aren't confessing to murder in their text messages, either.

16/9/2025, 10:41:49 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Fuzzy Mike (@fuzzymike.bsky.social) reposted

conservatives spend so much time harping on "small government" that I don't think enough people fully understand that all the attacks on government departments, research, and nonprofits are about eradicating anything that will have the capability to resist once the need to resist is irrefutable

15/9/2025, 11:59:12 PM | 9 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I misread that headline as sarcastic! I couldn't believe the subhead. Yikes.

16/9/2025, 10:32:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

That makes sense to me, but I have no idea how to explain it to, e.g., the New Yorker readers I know. If you have the time sometime, I'd love to hear how you're explaining it to people who don't already see their ideas as surefire losers.

16/9/2025, 10:30:10 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I'm more willing to care if someone shows even an inkling of regret. I'm a softie, and a barely-believable "I didn't know what Trump stood for" can trigger a little of my empathy. But "I voted for this! Why is he doing what he and I said he'd do?" while still wanting to be in charge over me? No.

16/9/2025, 10:23:01 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Letting Chotiner make these monsters look like fools but never seeing any consequences, or even followup coverage (by the New Yorker or anyone else), feels like the biggest taunt of them all. To be an editor with that much power, having these interviews in your lap, and to say: I've done my part...

16/9/2025, 10:15:32 PM | 7 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

Thanks! I read it last night, and then when I read your post today, you helped me get more depth out of what the students were saying. Thank you for your insight!

16/9/2025, 10:08:40 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

There's a good article interviewing students at San Diego State after our president sent out a campus-wide email in the wake of Kirk's death. Like you said, it was clear how much fear and distrust he engendered on campus, which our administration ignores. timesofsandiego.com/politics/202...

16/9/2025, 8:18:06 PM | 1 1 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

His treatment of students was terrible. He denigrated people at every level, targeting them for his mob's justice. After he posted himself "destroying" non-binary students & posted our professors on his Professor Watch List, administrators let him waltz into our space and told us to respect him.

16/9/2025, 8:18:06 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture jenn m. jackson (they/them) (@jennmjacksonphd.bsky.social) reposted

When I was placed on the Professor Watchlist in 2021, people sent death threats about my children. I had security officers monitor my 8yo at school. Where is all the outrage for those of us who have been targeted for years? Where is the outrage for our families? My own colleagues are silent.

15/9/2025, 8:25:28 PM | 17479 4891 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I agree with you. I worry because someone who I respect for their research into the alt-right keeps pushing for the sort of restraint you're describing. But I think it's "yeah, in principle, I agree, but the horse left the stable far too long ago to worry about shutting this gate"

15/9/2025, 10:17:45 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

My rule of thumb is that, outside the limited set of tasks that IQ-style assessments are directly designed for, whatever value you gain from responsible research using intelligence metrics is outweighed by the irresponsible research/analysis that accompanies it.

15/9/2025, 10:13:42 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

Profile picture Perfectly Calm Person. Not Panicking. (@mgrammar.bsky.social) reply parent

I once worked with a researcher of mono vs. bilingual kids' speech pathologies, and realized that IQ-style assessments were not good at handling even that small difference.

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Has anyone ever written a mea culpa for their glorification of "Hillbilly Elegy"? Speaking as white guy who grew up closer to Appalachia than Vance & also went to an Ivy League, I find it very difficult to let go of my bad feelings toward the people who venerated him like some great oracle.

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I think it's because it has numbers and personally benefits him. Understanding why the research is bad requires more complex thought than "number's higher, I win!". Why would he want to put more effort into something when he fears the reward is "I'm not actually special"?

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I'd screenshotted these a while ago, and when I looked back through them now to upload them, I was honestly stunned. I had remembered they were bad, but not this bad. I wish I could tell you what these meant in context, but the context doesn't help at all! It was a fascinating & terrifying read.

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Sorry for ranting. I hope to turn this into a proper and more readable post if I ever do resurrect Motivated Grammar.

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But if you take on the mantle of prescriptivism as a hobby, you may find that slowly morphs into yet another way to prove your own superiority, and then just a way to prove others' inferiority. We all must stay cognizant of how we drift over time, and to fight against the bad currents.

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And this is why I've always thought it is is important to fight prescriptivism in all dimensions, even its more justifiable or respectable dimensions. Linguistic prescriptivism is a gateway drug. Some people (editors, for instance) can handle prescriptivism responsibly because they to it as a job.

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Linguistic prescriptivism didn't die and I feel sorry for thinking it might've. Instead, it's been folded into the pervasive prescriptivism of our current society. You don't speak, look, sound, act, dress, the way that those with power do? You're toast.

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The hatemongering LibsofTikTok found this woman, a Navy physician for the Navy whose crime was giving her pronouns. LoTT forwarded this to Pete Hegseth, and a man who says he doesn't wash his hands because he can't see germs fired a 21-year doctor with the tweet: "Pronouns UPDATED: She/Her/Fired."

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I started this thread by saying that linguistic prescriptivism seemed dead to me, given that guys like Lamb & Gwynne were dying out. But I saw this article over the weekend, from our recently defunded local PBS station: www.kpbs.org/news/local/2...

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No one writing like Lamb, or like Gwynne, respects the communicative power of language. They respect their command over it, communication be damned! And while the QES always claimed that it was just about language, it's pretty clear that Lamb & Gwynne cast themselves as valiant defenders of society.

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This wasn't an old book. It was published in 2016. Its final chapter was "Opinions on the Characteristics of the Chinese, Japanese and English", and that was barely racist compared to the rest. I've added two examples of his writing; the first to show the racism, the second to show the nonsense.

Nationality differs from race. Boxer Nicola Adams, MBE, was a plucky Gold Medal winner at the 2012 Olympics. She was born in Leeds, England, and her nationality is British, yet with her black skin and African features, no one could take her as being of English ancestry. Here are factors which help a nation minimise internal and external conflicts: • Clear natural boundaries, such as a sea, mountains or broad rivers, to minimise border disputes. • One race. • One culture. • One language. • One religion or none. • Sufficient resources and land for housing, industry, agriculture and leisure activities, but not enough to provoke envy from other nations. • Friendly neighbouring countries, if any. • Enough people to allow for a range of specialised services. • A balance between adventurous innovators and cautious traditionalists. Not all changes and ‘reforms’ are good, but neither is stagnation. A real-life mixture of differences was between motor-racing supremo, Bernie Ecclestone, and his Croatian wife Slavica, a former model. He was 28 years older; she spoke Croatian and Italian while he spoke only English. At 6 feet 2 inches (188 cm), Slavica was nearly a foot taller than Bernie, who was 5ft 2½ in (159 cm). They divorced after 23 years. Another example was British pop star Mick Jagger and his lover, American dress designer L’Wren Scott. She became a catwalk model for Chanel in Paris, famous for her 42 inch (107 cm) legs. She was 6 ft 3 in (190.5 cm) tall and aged 49 when she committed suicide, while he was 70 and more than 5 inches (13 cm) shorter.
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I found out that he had written a genetics textbook, "Human Diversity", so I figured I'd look through it to see if he followed his rules. I stopped paying attention to the grammar three pages in. His textbook was barely comprehensible. He switched topics on a dime, with racism the only through-line.

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The QES was a barely-extant group who would get occasional glowing write-ups in 2000s conservative British tabloids, prescriptivists to the core. They said they were shutting down years ago, but changed their mind. I always found it odd that their head guy (seemingly only member) was a geneticist.

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Gwynne is also an ultra-conservative Catholic who writes books claiming the Pope is a pretender (look up sedevacantism). No wonder his combination of linguistic and political beliefs fit the right-wing so well. As I dug for more content, I found that the Queen's (King's) English Society survived.

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He was a nobody. That is, until he happened to connect with some English ur-conservatives, and was hired to tutor their children. Suddenly he gained connections with politicians, and his book received praise from The Spectator, the headmaster of Eton, and supposedly even Prince Charles.

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GG is terrible. It is prescriptivist, yet the author is a horrible writer. His lectures to the reader on how to write better are less useful than his ability to display how to write worse. I hope to make some blog posts about its advice in the future. But the key thing about Gwynne is political.

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"Prescriptivism Must Die" was my motto and, well, I started to wonder if that mission had been achieved. Maybe the Dead Kennedys got their wish and the (Grammar) Nazi Punks finally did Fuck Off. I went back to my bookshelf and pulled out one book I had always meant to talk about: Gwynne's Grammar.

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When I thought about restarting Motivated Grammar, it was difficult to find the same grammar gripes as when I started it in 2007. Newspapers rarely run "Kids say 'graduated high school' and it burns my beans" columns anymore. No one talks about "Eats, Shoots & Leaves" anymore.

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I've been posting more than I would like about politics and AI stuff recently. I feel that it is necessary, but you also need some content about language. That's, after all, supposed to be my area of expertise. So: I had been thinking that prescriptivism was on the decline. 🧵

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Conservative notions of free speech boil down to “*I* get to say what I want, and *you* get to shut up, or be persecuted by the state.” prospect.org/education/20...

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Oh, nah, my fault for misunderstanding! After people used "autism" to excuse a fascist salute, there's no way you could say something so obviously absurd that I won't believe it could be real. And this modern notion that someone with ASD behaves like a 4channer just sickens me, so I overreact.

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Mamdani is the Democratic primary winner, running against a disgraced sex creep bully, a Guardian Angel, and a guy who got out of federal charges by sucking up to Trump. There's just no possible justification for Jeffries dragging his feet! The other options are absurd!

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My point is: all of us choose what we say and what we don't. We often regret what we choose to say, and what we don't choose to say. I sure do. Let's not pretend that any of us are compelled to say anything, especially without prompting. Let's not pretend we think our words are meaningless.

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I deleted the post. Even regular readers probably didn't see it. No one commented on it, thankfully. I had complex feelings that I wasn't mature enough to explain, about owing him credit but also despising him as a person. And rather than risk expressing my thoughts poorly, I chose discretion.

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After posting it I thought back on Hitchens's life, which was Hobbesian in its nasty brutishness. He was cruel, he was misogynistic, he was racist. Whatever I had gained from him was nothing compared to what he did to others. He may have inspired me, but had I been a woman, or an Iraqi in 2003...

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I think the only post I ever deleted from Motivated Grammar was a note I made about Christopher Hitchens's death. Hitchens's brand as a skeptic and an atheist influenced me in college, and arguing against orthodoxy was one of my goals with MG, so I thought it was appropriate to offer a short eulogy.

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