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@papaalphakilo.bsky.social

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created July 5, 2023

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I’m not in a relationship but my mindset got noticeably better when I started going out of my way to try to be nice to everyone I interact with. Be nice! Be grateful! It costs you literally nothing and improves your day and the other person’s day.

3/9/2025, 5:27:37 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I’m giving Sparty CapEx and budget to run our in-person D&D game. Chairs, gaming table, 3D printer, artwork, food, all funded.

3/9/2025, 5:19:43 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Yeah there’s some strategic thought there. We can’t roll over any time though, so I have to go for it.

3/9/2025, 2:21:10 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Oh yeah that’s definitely the play. One of these years I’m going to say “fuck it” and take Thanksgiving through the new year off. But going back will be so painful, probably won’t until the end of my career.

3/9/2025, 2:19:27 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Going to be some 4 day weekends thrown in there too, and an extra week of Christmas break at least.

3/9/2025, 2:13:16 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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We get Black Friday and Christmas Eve through NYD as holiday time, too.

3/9/2025, 2:11:36 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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You gotta take the time! Covid helped me really appreciate the staycation. I’ll extend the holiday break and give myself short weeks in October through year end.

3/9/2025, 1:59:17 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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“Any other individual related by blood or affinity whose close association with the employee is the equivalent of a family relationship” hell yeah

3/9/2025, 1:56:43 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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They also seem to have quietly updated our personal time policy to 72 hours and expanded the definition of “family member” to be a lot more inclusive. I give HR a lot of shit usually but this company’s HR policies are Good, Actually.

3/9/2025, 1:54:34 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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We’ve officially reached “how much vacation can I cram into the rest of the year” season. I started off so good but have 16 days off remaining, not counting personal/sick days.

3/9/2025, 1:48:34 PM | 15 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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See also: “I don’t think about you at all” from Mad Men. Don spent the *entire day* in his office thinking of nothing else.

2/9/2025, 10:54:48 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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you know what, you're right, I just scrolled past, I probably should find one of those posts and block instead

2/9/2025, 8:55:44 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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the old people kill it, too. Just masterful casting all around.

2/9/2025, 8:02:08 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I don't know why the scientists build them!

2/9/2025, 7:58:14 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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2/9/2025, 4:57:24 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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he's rude to not share the tea with us

2/9/2025, 3:29:23 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'd swap Bishop and Rogue, need to have all fliers in the outfield IMO

2/9/2025, 1:09:44 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'm extremely triggered by Cyclops having his plant foot in the air for some goddamn reason.

2/9/2025, 1:06:48 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Looking good

1/9/2025, 11:01:35 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Does it have the proper CRONCH?

1/9/2025, 10:47:26 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Scott Frost

31/8/2025, 7:42:01 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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her and the guy she had an affair with, right? right???

31/8/2025, 4:19:17 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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BK early timeout on the road in a big game - drink!

30/8/2025, 11:58:55 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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everyone knows RTs are endorsements

30/8/2025, 9:09:55 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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IU's OOC scheduling is so gross. For all Cignetti's trash talk, not a serious team.

30/8/2025, 7:35:12 PM | 2 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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I can't believe we've got 5 more months of this Meghan Trainor commercial ahead of us

30/8/2025, 4:52:45 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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WHALE JAMZ cc: @hollyanderson.bsky.social

30/8/2025, 4:42:34 PM | 8 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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30/8/2025, 4:11:58 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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ugh I hate how much fox fucks around getting the game started

30/8/2025, 4:10:42 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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holy shit that drawing is CURSED

30/8/2025, 3:58:03 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Corso is gonna dot the “I” isn’t he?

30/8/2025, 3:53:00 PM | 8 2 | View on Bluesky | view

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yeah that's what came to mind as the band came onto the field

30/8/2025, 3:53:28 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It’s the socks for me

30/8/2025, 5:21:42 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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A little chips at SDSU, as a treat

30/8/2025, 3:36:22 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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There weren’t any of these places on my side of town as a kid so we went to White Castle. Now I live closest to hunter house but it feels too bougie, though they are a legit slider place. Telway is the spot for me.

29/8/2025, 5:49:50 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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There’s a hibachi place on my drive home that is operating out of a food truck in the parking lot of a restaurant that I believe they are remodeling (slowly).

29/8/2025, 5:47:27 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Parents infantilize their children so much these days. It's so gross. Children can grow and learn very easily. "Hey sometimes men love men or women love women like I love your mom/dad" is a VERY EASY MESSAGE for a child to learn.

29/8/2025, 5:40:11 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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if you are a sit down restaurant that has regular burgers but also "sliders" you are not fooling anyone, those are small burgers, not sliders.

29/8/2025, 5:36:41 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Okay but what about these hibachi burritos? (seriously though, feel better, and sometimes you need the rest and dialed down stress from a quick takeout lunch more than you need the good food)

29/8/2025, 5:35:46 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Not a slider joint Slider joint

29/8/2025, 5:32:40 PM | 18 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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See also: sliders. If your building is bright new and shiny and the word “sliders” is in the name, it is not a proper slider joint.

29/8/2025, 4:49:15 PM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Never a doubt!

29/8/2025, 4:26:18 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Surely this ends well for the Huskers!

29/8/2025, 4:14:55 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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fresh, homemade Caesar dressing is so good! haven't made it in years but it was one of the first things I made that really surprised me

29/8/2025, 1:49:08 AM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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this game could end up spicy

29/8/2025, 1:23:08 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Guessing pyrotechnics smoke

29/8/2025, 1:14:32 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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How many subscriptions did @nikolaidenmark.bsky.social and @actioncookbook.com bet on this game?

29/8/2025, 1:13:56 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I run across it every couple years and just have to read the entire thing.

29/8/2025, 12:00:37 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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oh BABY, we're so back, fake punt TD pass!

28/8/2025, 11:51:25 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I've read this article at least 4 or 5 times over the years and it hits every time. A classic of the genre.

28/8/2025, 11:50:33 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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those are absolutely canned beans, not even the good shit like del monte, we're talking dollar store brand

28/8/2025, 6:18:15 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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We got James Earl Jones the next year which was pretty awesome even though he wasn't a writer, he gave a great speech and his Q&A was amazing. Someone got him to record a voicemail greeting.

28/8/2025, 12:51:53 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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it might be the best adapted screenplay of all time, the characters were flat and boring, and the plot was slow as hell. Just bad and unengaging.

27/8/2025, 11:15:14 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I only tried Andromeda Strain (which I liked more for the concept than the writing) and Jurassic Park but tried Congo before they tried to make it into a movie and gave up on Crichton's writing altogether.

27/8/2025, 11:13:48 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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oh wait, Hunt for Red October is 3 on my list, behind the collected works of Robert Ludlum. The Bourne books are *shockingly* bad.

27/8/2025, 11:12:22 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Starship Troopers is an interesting case b/c the movie is trying to do something drastically different than the book.

27/8/2025, 11:10:59 PM | 7 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Crichton is another bad writer who got inexplicably popular in that era but Jurassic Park was an okay book.

27/8/2025, 11:09:03 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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He came to a literary festival at ND while I was a student. It was a bit of a departure b/c we usually didn't invite "commercial" authors. All he talked about was how much money he made. I knew some folks running it and they all said he was a dickhead behind the scenes, and a creep to the women.

27/8/2025, 11:08:03 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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#2 behind the godfather

27/8/2025, 11:05:01 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Never had one IMO IMO IMO. Bad writer and a huge asshole.

27/8/2025, 11:02:22 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It’s so chill and good that’s very lunch spot in the world started taking online orders during covid and never stopped, but also didn’t increase staffing, so ordering in store is infinitely slower.

27/8/2025, 4:45:02 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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exactly, which makes it so remarkable what McDonalds is able to do. You walk into one you KNOW without a doubt what you're getting. Even Wendy's and BK is a total crap shoot.

27/8/2025, 2:51:52 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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If your goal is "make good food for people in clean, well-run restaurants" then your chain should almost certainly stay regional. National chains are HARD. There are remarkably few good ones. If your goal is to cash out by selling to PE, then by all means expand.

27/8/2025, 2:25:22 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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it was a bit too chilly to have my coffee on the deck just now b/c I didn't want to dig around to find sweatpants, feels so good

27/8/2025, 1:44:54 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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how did she let a gregggggggg get that

27/8/2025, 1:00:04 AM | 44 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Catholic primary schools around here vary WILDLY apparently. The one in the fancy suburb is $23k, the ones in the more middle class suburbs are $7-9k. For the record the fancy suburb one is just a couple miles from Cranbrook, where, like, Mitt Romney went.

27/8/2025, 12:55:38 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I knew it was going poorly for the white dude based on what people were saying but I didn't realize just how poorly until the black guy's buddy walked up to pick up the jacket, completely unbothered.

26/8/2025, 4:53:56 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I work for a tier 1 auto supplier.

26/8/2025, 12:49:59 AM | 7 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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Galvanized pipes man. I crumpled one a few months ago when trying to replace a p-trap, it was like paper.

25/8/2025, 10:29:25 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Flight under 3 hours in the air, I'll take either but prefer window so I can lean against the wall and nap easier. Anything over 3 hours, give me an aisle seat so I can get up as needed.

25/8/2025, 8:31:59 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Adrian Martinez.

25/8/2025, 5:54:46 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The NCAA fucks this up every year. It’s awful.

25/8/2025, 5:49:28 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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They honored it for a couple years and are now rug-pulling him. He moved across the state to follow his wife’s job when she graduated medical school and we didn’t want to lose him.

25/8/2025, 5:38:47 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Just heard my department is losing an extremely talented person bc HR is reneging on a deal to let him permanently work from home.

25/8/2025, 5:30:06 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Core, look away Two words too many

25/8/2025, 5:28:48 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Egbuka might end up being enough of a steal that it doesn’t matter though.

25/8/2025, 5:10:38 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Pretty good. WR is a bit weak, I would have taken one where you took Henderson. RB production is more replaceable via waiver wire in general and you ended up with a good RB bench.

25/8/2025, 5:05:58 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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It became the norm in 2008/2009 but had been trending that way for the decade prior in my experience.

25/8/2025, 2:17:44 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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asking jon morse if Division 2 football counts

24/8/2025, 11:56:01 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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it's giving burt reynolds lounging on a bearskin rug

24/8/2025, 11:48:26 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The mutual admiration between all of the pillars of the D&D actual play community is genuinely heartwarming.

24/8/2025, 8:44:35 PM | 4 1 | View on Bluesky | view

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They may not win a ton of games this season but at least they'll be interesting, a huge step up from last season.

24/8/2025, 6:18:16 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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lotta bored parents, siblings, and players knocking around between games of weekend-long travel tournaments

24/8/2025, 6:05:10 PM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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there's a lot of evidence that sacks are a QB stat more than a OL stat, and while his OLs at Colorado were particularly bad, his sack stats were just outrageous. He's got a good enough arm, and he's accurate, but how much of that accuracy is b/c he took sacks instead of throwing the ball away?

24/8/2025, 4:01:14 PM | 5 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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they'd need a belt sander for me

24/8/2025, 3:38:04 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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24/8/2025, 3:34:10 PM | 6 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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A side of bruschetta for the table. For you, the chorizo grilled cheese. For your ladyfriend, the curry. If the tofu is fried, tofu, otherwise mushrooms.

24/8/2025, 1:40:08 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Echoes of Eden, if only for the green chartreuse, which I've never had, spicy brussel sprouts, and steak frites. The summer pasta is intriguing but it's either going to be a 9/10 or a 4/10.

24/8/2025, 1:34:38 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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cc: @nikolaidenmark.bsky.social @chloedenmark.bsky.social

24/8/2025, 12:47:20 AM | 3 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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You know what else? I had to listen to some of last year's playoff games on the radio and was VERY pleasantly surprised. It got downright nerdy, breaking down hitting/pitching splits, etc., and none of the negativity that dominated the Jim Price era.

24/8/2025, 12:43:40 AM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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at least, not when the reading is liberal or leftist. They don't seem to have any problem when the interpretation is conservative, no matter how flimsy the evidence.

24/8/2025, 12:40:10 AM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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The point the OP is making, I think, is that the political readings are all there, unhidden, but Catholic parishes VERY rarely draw those direct lines between scripture and liberal politics. Bishops and above, sure, sometimes, but the church paper at St. Theresa's down the block? Basically never.

24/8/2025, 12:39:27 AM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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23/8/2025, 11:55:56 PM | 2 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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Cleveland Browns OC Thomas Rees. 🥴

23/8/2025, 9:50:33 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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23/8/2025, 7:30:13 PM | 4 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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what was that defensive formation on 4th and 1??

23/8/2025, 4:43:12 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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first CFB reception of the season by an OL on a deflection, this rules

23/8/2025, 4:28:47 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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I'm a neutral in this game but Aer Lingus/Avila Stadium is making this week 0 game in Ireland A Thing.

23/8/2025, 4:20:28 PM | 1 0 | View on Bluesky | view

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23/8/2025, 4:18:32 PM | 0 0 | View on Bluesky | view