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This is one of my favorite movies.
Socially awkward penguin, introvert, artist, foodie, mom, happily married, partner in crime, Californian, giant nerd, gardener, lover of music, trying my best to be a kind human. I stand with Ukraine, I stand with California.
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This is one of my favorite movies.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
Happy national dog day from my gentle giant, Fezzik (the brindle dog) and my velcro dog, Gypsy Danger (the black and white dog).
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
All of the emotions. All of them. Sometimes at once.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Also this is such a beautiful picture of you!!!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
You're a Cancer!! This makes sense! I'm also a Cancer. β€οΈ
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Strawberry shortcake. Simple, not too sweet, but still a solid choice that's loved by many.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Just looking out for my fellow artists. π Karen's work is incredible!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Fun fact! Even though they are associated with summer, key limes are a late fall/winter fruit.I have a key lime tree in my yard. They start ripening mid to late November. My kiddo is a December baby and asks for key lime pie made with our limes for her birthday every year.
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Please credit the artist! This particular piece was done by @karenhallionkenney.bsky.social
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Please credit the artist! @karenhallionkenney.bsky.social
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
One of my utmost favorites is Spiritfarer. It's part puzzle, part cozy management game. It does deal with dying and death and there were a few spots where I ugly cried. But it's such a beautiful game with a gorgeous soundtrack. It got me through the pandemic and I replay it frequently.
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Sending you love. β€οΈ
Shawn Patrick Farrell (@shawnfarrell.bsky.social) reposted
Quiznos? Cosi? Subway? Jimmy John's? Jersey Mike's? Any sub shop I visit from this day forward will be judged not only on the taste & value of its sandwiches, but their weight, velocity, & stability of their wrapping.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I'll vote for whoever I feel is the best candidate in the primaries. It won't be him. If he happens to make it past that, then he'll get my vote.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
As a Californian with a partner who works in state government, it's been very frustrating watching everyone be like "praise Daddy Newsom." Meanwhile, dude has checked out of doing any true work for his state. Everything he's doing currently is a calculated move for the presidential office.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I just celebrated my 21st wedding anniversary with my husband. We cooked a lovely meal together then had what we call a bistrot date. We let the kids eat whatever they wanted, wherever they wanted and we took our fancy little meal to a quiet room, turned on soft music, lit some candles, and enjoyed.
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Ditto. π
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
List 10 horror movies so we can get to know you better! Shaun of the Dead (2004) The Cabin in the Woods (2011) Army of Darkness (1992) Zombieland (2009) Llamageddon (2015) Poltergeist (1982) Nosferatu (2024) 13 Ghosts (2001) The Ring (2002) Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
We stayed like that for the remainder of the song, and in that brief moment, I was reminded of how rich my life is. I realize I am privileged. I realize not everyone has the luxury to revel in small things like this. I'm lucky I can and it certainly gives me the strength to keep fighting.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
None of them are particularly partial to classical music (they don't dislike it, but they don't seek it out), but they're all standing there, transfixed. My 13 year old, who hasn't been super cuddly for years, is now on the couch, head on my shoulder. And it was just such a beautiful month. (4)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
As we're sitting there, enjoying a feast of sight and sound (Claire de Lune is one of my favorite classical pieces), I notice all of the kids (my 2, my niece, her friend) have started to migrate to where we're sitting. (3)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Reminiscent of olden days, when we were young and dating and we'd watch the WinAmp visualizer for hours while cuddled up, talking. Yes, I realize this dates me. (2)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Last night, I was lucky enough to revel in a glimmer. My partner and I were sitting in my front room, listening to Claire De Lune, while watching his visualizer screen saver. (1)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
Have you heard of glimmers? It's where you find little things that bring you a moment of joy. This world is freaking heavy lately. Let's take a moment together, to just breathe and reflect. Tell me about a glimmer you found recently. I'll share mine in the comments.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
Anyone else have a quieter than usual evening last night? I normally don't celebrate the 4th as it is because I'm too busy trying to keep my dogs calm. But last night felt different. Just me?
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
My oldest kiddo has been puppy sitting her and her brother. She's leaned into the dramatic shenanigans this week since her humans aren't home. This picture was snapped shortly after she yelled at my youngest for diving into the deep end, then went and sat in the bushes, watching like a hawk.
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That's Maddie. She's the pool lifeguard. She belongs to my friends.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
Please repost with something green. π
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Echoing these statements.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
This came on the radio last night while driving with my oldest. We both agreed that it's sad and scary how commentary of the state of the world in the 80s still feels relevant to what's going on today. It's frustrating, really. youtube.com/watch?v=Yq7F...
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
From the *year* you turn 12. Not test. Two things: we really need an edit button and I shouldn't post before I've been fully caffeinated. π€¦ββοΈ
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
Post a song from the test you turned 12:
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I think it really depends on the deck. I have a deck (that my ended up gravitating to my daughter more than me) that would totally be anise flavored. My main deck, though? Gives off more mossy, vanilla, smoky bourbon vibes, though.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Princess Bride is my utmost favorite movie and book. I really just need to start listening to your podcast. Our entertainment tastes are very much alike. I adore Scott Pilgrim. The soundtrack is our go-to road trip album.
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Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Yet you voted against impeachment. And you voted to censure Al Green. How, exactly, are you helping the citizens you represent? Trust,we'll remember every traitorous action when it's time to vote for you again. Or are you counting on him taking away voting rights so you can stay in office?
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Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
No, medical emergencies are never ever fun. Hoping you're all well. β€οΈ
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Same. As a person who tries her best to be a kind presence in this world, it's so very hard to live in this country sometimes.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
While they are not pacifist, they value peaceful solutions first and view violence and war as a last resort.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
My spouse works with an incredible Sikh man.He's the most gentle soul I've ever met, but he faced ugliness and hate after 9/11 and made a conscious decision for the safety of his family to stop wearing his turban, to cut his hair and beard, and to basically "blend in." It's heartbreaking.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Jefferson Airplane, Moody Blues, The Doors. All solid albums I can just put on and let play. All albums I have memories of my parents doing just that.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I fear for my Sihk friends as well. I know how they were treated after 9/11 because ignorance saw them as terrorists because of the turban they wore.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
They're either writing strongly worded letters against this, or they're licking his boots. Whatever the case, stopping him feels like a hopeless task.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Perhaps to save face?
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
"Now is the time for peace," he says after inviting violence. Jesus fucking christ, I'm so tired.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
π Username: Petunia Pronouns: She/Her Height: 5'11" Sexuality: Bisexual Sign: Cancer Piercings: 3 Tattoos: 1, but more to come Drink: Coffee or water Food: I'll try anything once Pets: 3 cats, 2 dogs, and a fish Relationship: married for 21 years to my best friend of 25 years.
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Sending you love!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Agreed. Plus, Newsom isn't liked much outside of CA. Hell, he's polarizing in CA. I really don't think he's the answer, but we'll see. I've said it many times already. If he's the best choice, I'll vote for him. But damn, I know I'm not the only one who is tired of picking the lesser of two evils.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
My gentle giant, Fezzik. I know that things feel very hard right now for a lot of us. I hope that this picture can bring you a moment of respite today.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
And when I say Joshua Tree is close to Hesperia, I know it's a good hour and a half away. But encountering anyone from the Mojave Desert feels like a crazy, random happenstance to me. I don't get out much. π
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Hesperia.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
So what are we doing about it? He needs to be removed. All of them do. Time is running out.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Joshua tree!! That's close to my home town!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm glad to hear it. β€οΈ
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Checking in today. I hope you are well! Sending love from sunny California. β€οΈ
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Too cool! Thank you for that recommendation!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Oh yeah. Totally. Didn't see that one coming at all.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
My exact words while reading this headline.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
That's kinda what it feels like, huh?
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Excuse me? I've been nothing but polite myself. You're the one deliberately misunderstanding me here. You've done nothing but goad, looking for some sort of reaction. And now you're threatening me? I don't care about followers or perceptions on social media. I'm gonna keep speaking up. Deal. βοΈ
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Love!!! How incredibly gorgeous!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Did I ever once indicate that I didn't recognize that? No. Quit trying to willfully misunderstand what I'm saying.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I feel that, love. You're not alone.
George Conway ππΊπΈπ₯ (@gtconway.bsky.social) reposted
@pelosi.house.gov: "On January 6th...we begged the president of the United States to send in the National Guard. He would not do it...And yet, in a contra-constitutional way, he has sent the National Guard into California. Something is very wrong with this picture."
luna (@imlunahey.com) reposted
slavery was legal. (and still is) segregation was legal. never use legality as a guide to morality.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Adding my voice to this sentiment. While equal pay is important, it's not going to matter if steps are not taken to stop the blatant misuse of power that is happening currently. Stop sitting on your hands and do something.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I know it's hard right now. I know finding a sliver of hope is next to impossible. But please don't give up. Your existence matters. I am glad you exist.
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Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
But also "could" doesn't mean I will. At least not on this thread. Lest I upset the "criticism isn't helpful" crowd. π
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Okay, Fi! It's very nice to meet you!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Want a picture? π
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I don't think it's that black and white, sir. I've worked very hard to find my voice. I will continue to speak out in hopes that it helps others find their voices. Change is messy, and staying silent doesn't help.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Giving you a follow back. Hi, Fiona!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
My spouse is a manager for the state. I could tell you so many stories.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
That's a fair assessment. I appreciate you sharing your resources. I'm always in the market for unbiased news sources!
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
No candidate is ideologically pure. No candidate is perfect. Even Obama did questionable things. That's my point. And pointing out Newsom's flaws, even while he's doing good and standing up to the regime, isn't a bad thing. Period.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Perhaps Amanda is following the press that she's speaking of in order to point out their misdeeds? That's important too. I feel we need to pay attention to and point out the press outlets that are pumping out propaganda, lest we be led astray.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
As much as you wanna paint me as unhelpful in my criticisms, I'm not against doing what is necessary to stop what's happening currently. If we can stop it. But assuming we can, we still need to take steps to fix the obvious flaws.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
If that's what it takes to stop this, obviously I'm for it. Clearly that's the lesser of two evils in this very flawed, two party system.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Clearly, you don't. I literally just said: I'm no Democrat. I'm registered no party preference for a reason. If a better, viable third-party option were presented and voting for them wouldn't mess things up, I'd do that. I only vote Dem out of necessity.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm done defending my views, honestly. You're hell bent on misunderstanding me regardless of what I say. π€·ββοΈ
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
And you're entitled to your opinion. I'll still keep calling out political posturing with a critical eye when I see it. I'm no Democrat, btw. Registered independent. If there were a legitimate, viable third party candidate that I could vote for that wouldn't screw things up, I'd definitely do that.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I NEVER CLAIMED IDEALOGY PURITY. Holy freaking cow. I think at this point you're really just trying to prove you're somehow "more right" than I am.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Mainstream media is owned by the regime, so of course they're going to be critical of democrats. Pump propaganda into the propaganda machine. It's part of why Trump has worked so hard to shut down the news outlets that don't bow down.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Support and criticism can exist simultaneously. I know many who still voted for the candidates they criticized. We've been voting for the lesser of two evils for what feels like an eternity.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
It's not. Just. The podcasts. That's my whole point. And I will continue to point that out. Everything he does is political posturing. Everything. And I don't feel bad or wrong for pointing that out. I can be supportive and critical at the same time.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Being vocally critical of Newsom? I feel that the criticism is constructive. My whole point in all of this is that we can be two things at once. We can be supportive of Newsom while also examining his actions with a critical lens. I personally don't feel like ignoring his flaws is helpful at all.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Anyway, I could ramble on, but I won't. I'm an open book, though. And mostly pretty approachable (I think). At the end of the day, I'm just trying to make a positive impact on my little corner of the world. Even just a little bit. (End)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Because up to this point, every single thing he's done, every decision he's made has been political posturing. There's been rumblings for a long time that he's gonna run for president. All of this makes him look much more favorable.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
This. This is what I'm getting at. I appreciate Newsom's courage. I appreciate that he's standing toe to toe with a fascist regime. I appreciate that he's fighting for us. And I stand with him every step of the way. But that doesn't mean I can't also speak up about his questionable actions.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I'm learning to speak up. This is a big one because I'm a survivor of childhood trauma. My parents were addicts. There was domestic violence in my house. I'm also a survivor of SA. I've been taught to be small since I was little, so taking up space and being loud still feels new and scary. (3)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
I'll give another rundown of me for any curious. I'm a proud, lifelong Californian. I strayed a bit in the first half of adulthood, but she called me back, and damn, am I happy to be home. I'm very liberal. I have witchy tendencies. I'm an artist. I'm a mom. My household is very queer. (2)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social)
I see I've gained new followers for being a loud mouth in comments. So, hi everyone. I don't post much personally. When I do, it's usually to try and combat a lot of the doom I'm feeling. Hence the pictures of nature, my garden, and my animals. At any rate, welcome. (1)
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Who's focusing only on the flaws? I've said many times that I commend him. But I'm also allowed to be critical. I'll say it again, we should be critical of our ejected officials. Hold them accountable. Part of how we've got here is because the right hasn't done that.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Again, I commend his current actions, and I'll cheer him on. He's certainly doing more than a lot of our elected officials are doing. But seeing his decisions play out the last 6 years, he's gotta do a lot more to convince me that his actions are more than just political posturing.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
We can celebrate it while still being critical of our leaders. I feel like that's part of what we're fighting for here. If we don't hold our leaders accountable,which is what we're doing, hell, it's what Newsom is doing, what are we even doing?
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
But also, hi, did you see the investigation happening in Rockland County, NY now? I'm no election denier, but I've said from the start that things are fishy. The fact that they're looking into election results there is certainly bolstering my suspicions.
Petunia (she/ her) π«π (@petuniapirate.bsky.social) reply parent
Best believe if there's a better candidate put forth in the primaries, that's who I'm picking. If he makes it past the primaries, that's certainly a different story.