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Ian @sandiegian.bsky.social

Whether it’s Shawn Mendes, Crumbl guy, or anyone else, being a gay man and calling someone gay or suggesting they are is not good! What if they’re currently struggling to come out and are trying to find a safe space to do so and what they see are nasty queens with out of pocket comments?

aug 28, 2025, 6:49 am • 1 0

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Ian @sandiegian.bsky.social

That space doesn’t feel safe at all. As a gay man, we need to do better. Talking with lesbians, trans people, queer POC, my eyes have been opened to the toxicity with gay men. Let’s be better for everyone in our community and those looking for a safe spot to land within it.

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