Girls and women can generally tell when you're being nice to get in their pants. It's not unexplored territory.

We're talking about messaging. Sending young men the message that genuine kindness is actually a great strategy for finding romance (or even just getting laid) is a winner.

Boys already tried to be nice to girls, but they didn't dispense sex. So they listened to the "red pill" talk: do the opposite to secure sex, treat girls badly. That didn't guarantee sex, so they took the "black pill": inceldom. Their error was seeing girls as responsible for providing them sex.

Bf course kindness is seen in today's world as weakness so there's lots of work to do. But I'm convinced that Nice Guys Finish Happy is a good message for everyone.

I'd rather avoid any notions of entitlement and frame it as equality. Treat others how you want to be treated. Be honest about your intentions because you know it's confusing when they do it. Honor yourself by behaving respectfully and kindly , this will attract good people.

And genuinely nice, not nice until you score and then back on the bullshit.