People still acting out of cowardly self interest are in no position to tell others to sacrifice their own rights for a coalition. Maybe if Newsom democrats made a sizable material sacrifice of their own equivalent to slowly dying of osteoporosis, being SA'd in prison, etc, etc, we could unite.
Alan Turing taking it upon himself to make a tremendous sacrifice helped beat the nazis. Rumkowski telling other people to sacrifice their children in order to satisfy the nazi death machine did nothing
We have a lot of liberals who think of themselves like Turing but are behaving like Rumkowski.