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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

'I added nice men to my book because I was uncomfortable when I realized the only men in it were the bad guys, I didn't want to do accidental misandry' Ah the not-gonna-make-it demographic at it again.

aug 28, 2025, 5:15 am • 189 12

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Be Crime, Do Gay @aceofplace.bsky.social

Maria Ying, holding a sopping wet cat out to her(s) audience "Here is a man who is not a villain! His sister beats the shit out of him it's awesome"

aug 28, 2025, 6:39 am • 11 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

😇

aug 28, 2025, 6:41 am • 4 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

it will happen again in book two. the beating will continue.

aug 28, 2025, 6:41 am • 4 0 • view
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TangledVirus of the South District. @tangledvirus.itch.io

I add "good" men that show later that they are just as bad if not worse than every other man, because we all know one or two of those.

aug 28, 2025, 12:48 pm • 7 0 • view
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Misandria @andria-girl.bsky.social

knew too many of those

aug 28, 2025, 1:41 pm • 1 0 • view
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A. Anthony Duran 🛸📚 @aanthonyduran.bsky.social

To avoid accidents, I do intentional misandry.

aug 29, 2025, 12:32 am • 1 0 • view
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Emma MacFarlane (she/her) @scotsdragon.bsky.social

‘I added a man because I needed someone who could conceivably be a clueless bumbling idiot even if he means well.’

aug 28, 2025, 8:22 am • 10 1 • view
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Lotus⚙️Workshop @lotusws.bsky.social

Writing a nice guy into the story, and trick audiences into thinking he'll be important only to horribly kill him off for kicks.

aug 28, 2025, 7:12 am • 3 0 • view
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Lavender Clad in Decadence @lavenderwitch.bsky.social

there are only bad guys though......

aug 28, 2025, 11:47 am • 2 0 • view
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Green @wordymelt.bsky.social

Adding a non villainous man to my wip who is also kind of a piece of shit

aug 28, 2025, 9:36 am • 1 0 • view
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Goblin owl @goblinfluencer.bsky.social

"You say you need a man to carry on your dynasty, sounds like a skill issue to me" – Viveca Hua, I assume (probably more eloquently than that)

aug 28, 2025, 6:46 pm • 2 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

basically

aug 28, 2025, 6:47 pm • 1 0 • view
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mina 🏳️‍⚧️ @benna.dev

intend your misandry!

aug 28, 2025, 7:04 am • 4 1 • view
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Rachael the Hobbit @rachael-the-hobbit.bsky.social

Yeah fuck em lol 🌹

aug 29, 2025, 4:57 am • 1 0 • view
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Brooke(Smol Indie Muscle Auntie) @gymbrat.bsky.social

There was a gaggle the other day bitching about the opposite, for some reason.

aug 28, 2025, 1:32 pm • 2 0 • view
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Brooke(Smol Indie Muscle Auntie) @gymbrat.bsky.social

Like, weirdly angry at trans women writing stories with few men, and/or the men in the stories being awful

aug 28, 2025, 1:37 pm • 3 0 • view
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TamelaRedfin @tamelaredfin.bsky.social

What? Men being horrible AND suffering the consequences? That feels like a bigger issue. In writing, he can straight up "forgive" a male stalker if his mom didn't hug him. But we will throw a woman in the dirt if she disagrees with Ms. Pick me.

aug 29, 2025, 12:38 am • 2 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

lol?

aug 28, 2025, 1:38 pm • 4 0 • view
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Lynn Zero | PlayNeoNeuro.neocities.org @lynnlandra.bsky.social

They should do the misandry. On purpose.

aug 28, 2025, 5:33 am • 9 2 • view
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Abigail Gloom Says ACAB @abigailgloom.bsky.social

Cowards. Whenever you feel the impulse to put a good man in a story, add 2 bad ones to be murdered later.

aug 28, 2025, 11:44 am • 10 0 • view
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Kacie Fever @feverreaver.com

Interesting

aug 29, 2025, 2:35 am • 0 0 • view
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TamelaRedfin @tamelaredfin.bsky.social

Ah, but I'm sure they have a jealous ex character who is needlessly rude and takes it out of her ex. Her only trait is also "crazy bitch."

aug 29, 2025, 12:35 am • 0 0 • view
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Maja @majkalirajka.bsky.social

so misandry is when men are bad guys? then I guess we have a lot of misandry irl

aug 28, 2025, 5:33 am • 18 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

facts are misandrist after all

aug 28, 2025, 5:34 am • 20 0 • view
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The King In Green (she/her) @thekingingreen.bsky.social

Another reason to love Sundered Moon. All the men are either incredibly minor characters, evil fuckheads, or both

aug 28, 2025, 5:43 am • 1 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

Is it a desperation to please men, or fear of being seen as a 'man-hating bitch'? So curious.

aug 28, 2025, 8:20 am • 65 2 • view
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Misandria @andria-girl.bsky.social

i want to say both, but it usually just boils down to a desperation to please men anyway

aug 28, 2025, 1:35 pm • 3 0 • view
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Fix Your Heart or Die. @petrochemicsoul.bsky.social

It's a shame because the loudest shitearse guys are gonna assert both anyway irrespective of the work's contents if it's not got a level of "oh, men are the bestest and all feminine types think only of them" going on.

aug 28, 2025, 8:26 am • 7 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

exactly

aug 28, 2025, 8:26 am • 4 0 • view
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Kos, that kobold you know (Comms Full) @draekos.bsky.social

You add good men to your queer fiction to appease the patriarchy. I add good (trans) men to my queer fiction as a love letter to all the cool trans dudes I know. We are not the same

aug 28, 2025, 8:32 am • 3 0 • view
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Maja @majkalirajka.bsky.social

or centering men to the point of not being able to imagine a story without them in every important role? there are so many ways to be dumb

aug 28, 2025, 8:26 am • 1 0 • view
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🏳️‍🌈Maxy Makes 🇦🇺🦘 @91vaults.bsky.social

Stuff I write has a lot of nice men in it but that's cause I want them to be there, not out of some bizarre misplaced sense of fairness (nice men who do not get romantically involved with any lesbians)

aug 28, 2025, 7:18 am • 2 0 • view
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Benjanun Sriduangkaew @benjanun.bsky.social

I just have no men in my writing tbh (GO only has one because he exists to get beaten up and have half his bones broken, because it's funny)

aug 28, 2025, 8:19 am • 6 0 • view
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comrade tradwife @birdofvictory.bsky.social

the one guy in Cert is like. the main character's gamer friend from before she came out who stuck with her when the in-game social group cut her off when she came out. we don't know his name, only his online handle. otherwise, not a man to be found

aug 28, 2025, 5:41 am • 3 0 • view
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Rachael the Hobbit @rachael-the-hobbit.bsky.social

I think fictional characters should have a role in the story, even if it's minor, and you can't please every demographic, so don't treat character creation like a checklist...

aug 29, 2025, 4:55 am • 0 0 • view
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Maxie Canoe @maxieknue.bsky.social

Literally this Either have positive masculinity (golden retriever men) or don’t have men at all unless they’re in villainous roles Is it so hard to

aug 28, 2025, 5:26 am • 2 0 • view
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schertz87.bsky.social @schertz87.bsky.social

Sometimes a villain is a good guy if he directs his anger towards the rich and real criminals.

aug 28, 2025, 5:28 am • 0 0 • view
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Rachael the Hobbit @rachael-the-hobbit.bsky.social

aug 29, 2025, 4:59 am • 0 0 • view