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Gleafer @gleafer.bsky.social

You know what’s fun? My hold of the English language being dicey now that I have perimenopause brain. Why are words? This be hard.

sep 1, 2025, 2:59 pm • 49 2

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Hedda T Bear @wellthumbed.bsky.social

It’s like when you forget an actors name, but you remember every single thing they’ve ever been in, even the weird ketchup ads from when they were just starting out. You can rattle off their full biography. Do you remember their name? Do you balls!

sep 1, 2025, 5:48 pm • 3 0 • view
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dakinitrading.bsky.social @dakinitrading.bsky.social

Last night, the way I got to remember the name of the movie Snatch was by going to iMDB and looking up movies Brad Pitt has been in. 🙄

sep 1, 2025, 10:01 pm • 3 0 • view
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Hedda T Bear @wellthumbed.bsky.social

Seriously, I do that on an almost daily basis.

sep 2, 2025, 2:54 am • 1 0 • view
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Hedda T Bear @wellthumbed.bsky.social

I think of it as words being on strings above my head, like kites. I reach for a string and can’t garauntee I’ll grab the right string. Sometimes it’s like playing 6 degrees of separation with language.

sep 1, 2025, 3:51 pm • 5 0 • view
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Song of the Ineffable Catboys @bloodsong.bsky.social

I already had trouble with the word trains jumping tracks and racing off laughing maniacally! You're telling me it gets WORSE?

sep 1, 2025, 4:19 pm • 0 0 • view
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Kirk ✨18+ @kirkfzero.bsky.social

dude I'm like that already and I'm 33!

sep 1, 2025, 5:56 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kirk ✨18+ @kirkfzero.bsky.social

my working theory is that we all got some low level of long covid and/or brainrot from the internet being dead and politics being a car crash

sep 1, 2025, 5:57 pm • 2 0 • view
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saerdana.bsky.social @saerdana.bsky.social

Well I used to be very proud of my spelling abillity…

sep 2, 2025, 12:55 am • 0 0 • view
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PeanutHamper @kimberspiff.bsky.social

This is one of the biggest annoyances for me about perimenopause! I sound like an idiot fully 75% of the time these days.

sep 1, 2025, 3:07 pm • 4 0 • view
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Gleafer @gleafer.bsky.social

I swear I used to be smart…ish.

sep 1, 2025, 3:10 pm • 4 0 • view
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blackthorn-roses.bsky.social @blackthorn-roses.bsky.social

It really is an exercise in vocabulary..the word you need eludes you, so you spend an embarrassing amount of time using 374 *other* words to describe the thing. And it's never a cute as calling cinnamon "spicy sugar"

sep 1, 2025, 3:01 pm • 7 0 • view
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Masnadies @sff-fan-in-exile.bsky.social

I had a teen tell me a few months ago that they didn't understand how I can be so good with other languages and have an obnoxious and inappropriate (like too formal) vocabulary and yet fail all the time to manifest the simplest words in English. Well, give it 30 years and you'll see...

sep 1, 2025, 3:40 pm • 4 0 • view
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Mary @batsgirl.bsky.social

More chocolate make words go betterer?

sep 1, 2025, 3:27 pm • 4 0 • view
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Gleafer @gleafer.bsky.social

Yes please!

sep 1, 2025, 4:19 pm • 4 0 • view
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Roderick Godsell @rodga.bsky.social

I think you speak good England!

sep 1, 2025, 9:49 pm • 1 0 • view
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Gleafer @gleafer.bsky.social

Thank you!

sep 1, 2025, 9:54 pm • 0 0 • view
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Roderick Godsell @rodga.bsky.social

I am from English, so I should know😀

sep 1, 2025, 9:59 pm • 1 0 • view
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AngelaDH @angeladh.bsky.social

Oh sweetie! Wait until you are post menopausal! Some of the words are just gone by then and everything will piss you off!

sep 2, 2025, 3:33 am • 2 0 • view
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24Crows @kai-the-spiral.bsky.social

This is a thing?? .......could explain a lot.

sep 1, 2025, 5:28 pm • 2 0 • view