I have learned one thing in the anti-harassment training we get through work, something I've actually used a few times on the El.
I have learned one thing in the anti-harassment training we get through work, something I've actually used a few times on the El.
What was suggested in the training is if you encounter someone being sexist or racists towards another coworker and aren't comfortable enough to confront them directly, they suggest "kick a garbage can" or something to create a distraction so the person being harassed can get away.
When someone (a man, normally) randomly interacts with a stranger who is obvious uncomfortable, just by jumping into the conversation, it can break the annoying person's patter and they taper off and go away. It is the "distraction" technique.
I used it this weekend when a man started interacting with a woman (by herself) who was obviously uncomfortable, and he got to the part where he asked for her number, I jumped into the convo and offered "Jenny's". When I didn't let go of the conversation, he wandered away.