Well, always hard to say. As with real life hooking up, some guys who ghost keep looking for something and someone new.
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Which objectively seems foolish to me. If you like the person you are with and the vibe is right, why not just develop that more into the ideal relationship?
aug 25, 2025, 12:07 am • 0 0 • view
Ok, I don’t want to be harsh in discussing men like this, but many simply do not want to be emotionally available. They do not want a relationship, they just want the sex. And no matter how hot or how incredible the sex is, they think it will be more hot and more incredible with the next guy.
aug 25, 2025, 12:15 am • 0 0 • view
I’m not generalizing, though. Going by my own experiences and what I hear from friends and guys I chat with on line.
aug 25, 2025, 12:15 am • 0 0 • view
No worries, Ive also heard similar from both men and women in the dating circles. Personally I find it an incredibly stale way to date but what do I know. Being single I mean lol
aug 25, 2025, 12:17 am • 0 0 • view
But it’s really not dating. It’s hooking up for sex. Dating would mean spending time with another guy *not* having sex.
aug 25, 2025, 12:34 am • 0 0 • view
Absolutely! Fundamentally though it seems more that the short term pleasures are put on some kind of pedestal as the thing to do. Rather than, as said, date the person
aug 25, 2025, 12:37 am • 0 0 • view
Yeah, especially since dating and getting to know someone can enhance sex.
aug 25, 2025, 12:53 am • 1 0 • view