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Actual PhD Grace Peng @gspeng.bsky.social

My mom was criticized for teaching my sister and I to disagree with her occasionally. Mom replied that you can't have democracy if people are not allowed to voice dissenting opinions

aug 25, 2025, 9:05 pm • 14 3

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Actual PhD Grace Peng @gspeng.bsky.social

There's a Chinese saying: if you raise a dragon, expect to be singed. My mom said that people misinterpret it. The point isn't to avoid raising dragons altogether. We need a society with people who stand up for what is right. What they believe. It's just personally inconvenient for their moms 😉

aug 25, 2025, 10:04 pm • 5 3 • view
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Derrell Durrett @derrelldurrett.bsky.social

My parents more unintentionally raised one, because their hope was for compliance, but then they demonstrated the virtues of being true to one's values and stubbornly so, and accidentally raised a contrarian (by their lights).

aug 25, 2025, 10:53 pm • 2 0 • view