- be interested in something and be able to talk about why you enjoy it - be able to ask the person a question, and then a relevant follow-up question based on their response - understand consent - exec pantydrop.bat
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Also, meet for coffee first. If you can't manage 20 minutes or so in each others company then theres no point going further. Also no one is put out greatly in either time or cost so its less stress for everyone. It's also a 'lower threat' setting since theres no alcohol unlike going for a drink
sep 3, 2025, 4:40 am • 79 4 • view
Probably the single best indicator for success in dating that I’ve ever seen is the ability to take “no thanks” for an answer (or say it yourself!) and quickly move along. As the saying goes, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
sep 3, 2025, 11:12 am • 19 0 • view
As a folllowup, I should say that this sounds like a pretty blithe statement but it's actually a difficult skill to master! We're social creatures, and hearing _one_ person say "nah, you're not my thing" is hard. Hearing dozens of them and not taking it to heart takes practice to put it mildly.
sep 3, 2025, 12:55 pm • 13 0 • view
not a small part about why I've given up
sep 3, 2025, 9:03 pm • 3 0 • view
Maybe you're just not meeting them in the right kind of places? Because you're smart and you're handsome, so unless you have the personality of an orc or a wet log, you just haven't met enough of the right person.
sep 3, 2025, 9:21 pm • 1 0 • view
Oh my personality is dogshit irl, it’s why I’m killing it on bluesky
sep 3, 2025, 10:35 pm • 10 0 • view
Well, at least you know your weaknesses.. 😉
sep 4, 2025, 12:02 am • 0 0 • view
I honestly believe its not unhealthy to 'give up' now and then and just do other stuff you enjoy
sep 3, 2025, 9:36 pm • 2 0 • view
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
sep 3, 2025, 9:52 am • 3 0 • view
It really is that easy. And if I may add - Mr Shirtless Strip Mall guy obviously loves himself way too much to have any love or time left over for me or any other woman
sep 3, 2025, 6:11 am • 10 0 • view
They really don't get it. It's the handsome ones I stay away from: they expect you to admire them all the time. I wanted a relationship with a whole human being with fully developed thoughts and feelings, not an actor posing for pussy.
sep 3, 2025, 1:08 pm • 3 1 • view
Exactly!
sep 3, 2025, 1:09 pm • 2 0 • view
Be interesting and interested.
sep 3, 2025, 5:32 pm • 1 0 • view