Yeah…

Holy shit yeah this the one 😮‍💨

Nothing positive 😅

No. I have wanted to contact people where the silence was accidental (couldn't find address, or illness caused long break in which I just couldn't get the energy to write anybody.)

Yes, but there's a reason we don't talk anymore.

Yes! I knew they’d like it but I resisted the urge. Not opening that door again.

Same with dead relatives "Heh, mum'll get a kick out of this bus crash video...oh 🙁"

You can still always send them ❤️

Honestly, no.

Ya, but even worse, wanting to send a track to someone you used to DJ with, but dont speak to anymore.

Maybeeeee….

So many times

YESSS Sometimes I see or think of something funny that no one else in the world except one other person would find funny.

I've not known you before but here, have this.

Often

Years later, yes.

No. They’re dead to me.

Yes. But I don't. No good ever comes of it for me.

For about 30 seconds, and then I remembered, "When their phone isn't ringing, THAT will be ME.

omg

Oh this hurts 😢

Yup

Just a bag of maggots in their mouth.

Always

Sleeping dogs.

Best answer. 🏆

All the time

All the fuckin’ time.

There's love and there's bonding. Bonds are way stronger than love and relationships. The bond will endure even when you now hate this person's guts. Because hating someone is a way to stay connected to them. That's why true freedom can only come from forgiveness. Cut the cord and move on.

All the time... fucking restraining order put a stop to that game.

I would have KILLED to have the internet back in 1976, and again in 1978, 1981, lol pretty sure they would not have a device to read anything i sent...or even agreed to what a MEME is. lol but If i dont want to talk, I dont think any comms is the way to go, do you? if I am hurt that bad.

More importantly the internet would have schooled me on what narcissists are and that alone would’ve changed the course of my life.

I have. I sent a postcard of a voodoo doll to my ex who broke it off. It read: The marriage may not have been magic but the divorce can be. His parents told me that he took it seriously and freaked out. 😆

No. Let 'em stew in their own juices.

Yeah. And I’ve even made that mistake a time or two.

A huge YES!!!

Yes, did it. No reply.

Pretty much weekly. Sigh.

I’ve wanted to send them a flaming bag of poo 💩

All the time. But when I left Facebook on inauguration day and deleted all my memes, I was humbled by how little difference they apparently made to the people who should’ve been paying attention to them. Made me feel like I was merely screaming into the void the whole time.

Ending the relationship is the only way to stop the hurting

Yes. Many times.

I want to send them all the ones who say how horrible men can be. Does that count?

Don’t.

Just about every day recently. I’ll get over it but it’s still kinda fresh.

OMG yes

You can send me a meme and pretend. Happy to play along. 😄

I send a lot of things to my dad's IG account. He died in 2018, but I think he'd like the silly stuff I send.

Yes. But what’s the point. You can’t fix stupid. And I say that with a lot of sorrow over the loss of former friends.

Ditto.

OH YES!

I honestly just go ahead and send it because I have no social skills, and cannot possibly understand why anybody I love... Wouldn't love me? Almost everybody loves me? Still confused.

Eventually he's going to be like, "she's clearly insane," and I can't say otherwise because, really, in this day, what is sanity? But also? I'm still going to randomly send memes, even to friends from decades ago?

Lmfaooo Amen sister

Yup. Can't do it during the moratorium, but down the road, maybe.

I DO. I also send it. If you don't want random memes & holiday greetings from me; unfriended me. Change your email.

How about when it's a meme only that one person would get? So sad.

No🌬️

No There’s a reason why the relationship ended The healing takes some time, but you will move on Been there, done that Take it from me, it’s best to close that chapter Spending too much time on that person may make you miss opportunities to meet the one person that can bring joy to yr life

All the time. There are so many fitting ones out there.

Yes

Nope. When I’m done, I’m done. No further contact.

No he is dead to me🧐😗

Ugh, break ups were easier before the Internet.