It's just a fact that neurotypical people are the majority and don't think or speak literally like you would want. That means it's up to you to be specific when you want feedback that neurotypical people might often find objectionable and just wrong to give in a certain way. It's not fair.
OH MY WORD. THAT'S 100% ABLEIST. AND THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT. Physically disabled can be ableist against ND, and vice versa. Or internally ableist. I won't be responding anymore but feel free to keep arguing. For the last time, please reread the post and comments as many times as you need. Be well.✌
Sorry, I don't agree with your definition of "ableist". You keep thinking "rereading" will change something. That's a problem in itself.