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Dr. Alc @alcoremortis.bsky.social

My dad refused to let me read his favorite mystery series until I was 18 because of the sex scenes. They ended up being ludicrously tame compared to the ones I’d already accidentally stumbled on by reading books with swords on the cover.

aug 11, 2025, 2:34 pm • 5 0

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Southern Violet is Not UNhappy @southernviolet.blackskycomra.de

Yeah my parents never banned books (cuz they knew that would be the next thing I read specifically cuz they told me no). Rather they just kept on top of what I was reading and talked with me about it. They taught me how to think through choosing books instead of choosing for me, too.

aug 11, 2025, 8:19 pm • 1 0 • view
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Rivikah @rivikah.bsky.social

My current policy is to content note them for my kid. So far he's chosen to skip the ones with sex scenes. I'm no longer content noting for death. Just sex and particularly distributing violence.

aug 11, 2025, 2:42 pm • 2 0 • view