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Kat Nic Everdeen 💛📚✨ @katniceverdeen.bsky.social

I didn’t start really seeing myself in stories until my 30’s, which is a big contributing factor to me not realizing I was disabled until my mid 20s and not coming out as queer and non-binary until my 30s! Now my daughter gets to read children’s books with disabled protagonists and queer families 🥹

apr 21, 2025, 1:10 pm • 3 1

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Bywater Books @bywaterbooks.bsky.social

What a beautiful story of empowerment about you and your daughter—thanks for sharing! ♥️

apr 21, 2025, 2:00 pm • 0 0 • view
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Nicola Woods 😷🍁🥞 @haecnicola.bsky.social

Yessss! Also I am so in favour of neurodivergent people identifying neurodivergent traits in fiction where it isn’t canonized. If Lorelai Gilmore or Anne Shirley had been canon ADHD I would have been diagnosed much earlier than 36 😂

apr 25, 2025, 6:44 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kat Nic Everdeen 💛📚✨ @katniceverdeen.bsky.social

Oh my gosh it’s so funny that you name those two specifically bc I’ve always related to both of them so much! I was diagnosed in 2nd grade, but didn’t really relate to my diagnosis much because I felt like every other kid with it was a hyperactive boy where I was a starry eyed anxious dreamer &

apr 25, 2025, 6:49 pm • 0 0 • view
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Nicola Woods 😷🍁🥞 @haecnicola.bsky.social

That makes so much sense. Knowing they were ADHD would have helped you relate I’m sure 🥹 I was a sort of weird hybrid as a kid, very deeply fixated on the “wrong” stuff & occasionally a little hyperactive. My diagnosis was “difficult” lmao

apr 25, 2025, 6:53 pm • 1 0 • view
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Kat Nic Everdeen 💛📚✨ @katniceverdeen.bsky.social

Type A overfunctioning perfectionist who rotates between over functioning and demand paralysis.

apr 25, 2025, 6:50 pm • 2 0 • view
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Nicola Woods 😷🍁🥞 @haecnicola.bsky.social

Oof oof ooooooooffffffff.

apr 25, 2025, 6:55 pm • 1 0 • view
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josedolores.bsky.social @josedolores.bsky.social

We certainly grew up in dark and confusing days. I envy the kids the freedom they have to live their best lives.✊🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

apr 25, 2025, 4:55 pm • 0 0 • view