But if we actually want to win so we can reform cops, and ICE, etc, you have to find a path forward in suburbia, where everyone is married to a cop, or brother is a cop, or son, or somebody they know. And where the middle aged men who aren't cops wish that they had been cops.
okay, fine, have that argument, but the one I'm having is that it isn't *confusing*, and all the things you're mentioning as downsides are people *dislike what it means* which is not the same thing as *being confused by it* and this is the character of every "no it's actually confusing" interaction
you're describing people who understand the words they hear and think those words are *bad* not people who can't grasp the words