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Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social

CW: topic of abuse? I don’t know how to content warning this tbh Last year, my survivor support was, unknown to me, two people who had longstanding crushes on me and their respective “nominally polyamorous” partners.

aug 18, 2025, 1:36 am • 5 0

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Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social

When one of them fucked me while my survivor support was still ongoing I had told them I was terrified of losing my support network and they told me their partner wouldn’t care. They also pretended it was casual.

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Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social

Instead of telling me they as they later told me, that they “already loved me,” they said “you fuck your friends right?”Within weeks then were telling me I was perfect and they wanted me to be part of their family and parent to their child.

aug 18, 2025, 1:36 am • 6 0 • view
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Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social

We were still actively dealing with my abuser. Their partner said they were stealing their friend (me) by fucking me. The other person who had a longstanding crush on me and who had previously said “piper is the only person [my partner] will let me date”

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Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social

was also mad in ways that made no sense to me because I had no idea they were trying to recover that possibility. In retrospect I feel like everyone was fighting over me as the loot from doing survivor support.

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