if being christian is so important to you that you're going to put it on your dating profile, then i wish you the very best of luck but i would rather stay single than date you. i'm fully aware there are good people out there who are christians. and reserve the right to change my mind... but still.
Like nuns, but they generally don’t date .
Same for “apolitical” today. Code for: “I’m sort of embarrassed I voted for the demented felon.”
If the first thing a stranger wants to impress me with is their 'Christian' outlook, the conversation ends there
I agree. That says to me extremist and closed minded.
I prefer when I see "Christian" on a dating profile. Makes it super easy to pass.
That would be a big NO for me as well!
No one who proclaims his Christianity is a Christian. Not a real one (who are are rare as hen's teeth).
Is ChristianMingle not working?
Exactly. When people tell me that "they're Christian", I don't consider it an attribute. I consider it a warning
if being Chris Chan is so important to you that you're going to put it on your dating profile, then i wish you the very best of luck but i would rather stay single than date you. i'm fully aware there are good people out there who are Chris Chans. & reserve the right to change my mind... but still.
Now a days if someone is wearing a crucifix it is automatically a red flag.
I no longer believe good Christians exist.
Their bio says "traditional man/woman. christian", but they often behave like antichrists. They are shameless racists, loathe minorities, hate and mock other religions, support unfair treatment of people they think are inferior and don't deserve basic human rights How very christlike of them
I block anyone even on social media if they are so deluded that they put religion in their profile. I consider it a mental illness. Sometimes benign, but not usually.
Seems like sound criteria to me.
The worst deterrent I have ever seen in profiles is "god fearing..." just NO
It's like the people with "Saved" vanity plates. You just know they are insufferable.
A person's faith never needs to be announced - it's on full display in their behavior
#ThereAreNoChristians
As for conversation openers, it can be as good of a "I'll pass" indicator than "I'm not a racist, but" and "I asked AI..". Everything serves a purpose, I guess, and yes, sometimes the free market indeed does speak.
If you proclaim you're "christian" you're hiding something.
If you have to tell people you're a christian.....
Real honest to goodness Christians are very few and far between.
The ones who have to advertise it, are the ones who are least in following the teachings.
Wise choice. The best Christians don’t need to tell you about it.
People are specific. Over 4,000 religions on 🌎 7 billion people 2.5 billion are Christian You may worship fire in the desert You may not dig Christian's Diversity exists Go w/ the flow Not suggesting Tiamat worship Buy, whatever.
Trump ruined the term Christian by lying and claiming he is one. I follow the teachings of Christ. If that is true, then he is not going to try to have sex with you, because until marriage, that is adultery.
It happened so suddenly… It was all peace and love before… Trump ruined it. Not the crusades. Inquisitions. Witch burnings. Scientist arrests. Slavery. KKK. Or this guy:
exactly. I would run the other direction
The role identity of the person is locked in... the moment when that self-defined (i.e. they interpret holy words in their own way) religious identity overcomes everything, run... scary scary people who lost the lesson in the dummys guide of how to be human.
The sanctimonious are not good anything.
Same. Church, tigers and CrossFit were auto-lefts for me.
...tigers? is that code for something?
Lol you don't date men. Church and CrossFit you find with both men and women (as you know) but dudes loved posting pics of themselves posing with tigers. It was a thing. And it was as pathetic as it sounds. No idea if they're still doing it or not.
yeah idk if some lady posted a pic of her with a tiger gently headbutting her or doing some other "i like this creature" gesture, i think that would be a positive. cats are such a huge green flag imo.
That would be cute. But that was never what the tiger pics looked like. Dudes didn't even smile in them. I need to find a cat to hang out with.
Lol though I definitely had one woman I put off breaking up with for like... A month or so because I really liked hanging out with her dog. Part of me was like "Maybe I can make this work for the dog..." Obviously I did not.
i have only ever loved one dog nearly that much and he was this giant bear of a sweetheart named yogi. fortunately yogi belonged to my best friend's family and i was living with them at the time. i cried so much when he crossed the rainbow bridge. but i don't think I'd date someone even for him.
Tho I love several cats, in my heart I am a dog person. I love all the animals. But I especially love dogs. And some cats. But not all cats because some cats are bullshit. I have never met a bullshit dog.
true. but you can get a dog to love you with a bit of ham. you only get a cat to love you by consistency and respecting their boundaries. dogs are great but they're not living bs detectors like cats generally are.
My experience is the good people who are christians do not prominently define themselves as christians. It's where it sits in the priority chain that's usually the red flag.
In North America The cross may as well be a swastika.
Actually good christians wouldn't tell you about it.
yeah that makes sense. if someone's idea of being a good christian lines up well enough with my idea of being a good jew, then i suppose i don't much care about the details.
