I already had therapy this week but I caught myself developing a crush on someone who is objectively bad for me and need to be talked out of it ASAP
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Hi Zach - I don't know you, so maybe this doesn't fit, but for me, the crush is useful if I know that objectively bad part too and can say well, I want to find these good qualities without these bad qualities. I use it as a learning experience. Also, I am super anxious, so I see all bad potentials
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It is possible it's easier now in my 50s than it was when I was younger, I dunno. Anyway, for what that's worth... but I bet you seeing the objectively bad part already, means you'll be careful
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