100%, I know someone who was SAed by their family member under 15 & their cope was “it takes 2 to tango” - that was their coor to try to reconcile they were abused.
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I was born in the 50’s and it has never been ok, but I think in some cultures, it was more prevalent and kids didn’t have anyone to tell or anything to compare it to, so those girls were more promiscuous without knowing why?
jul 27, 2025, 2:04 am • 11 0 • view
Hypersexuality can be a trauma response also. Some may think thats how they get men to like them etc. Movies, tv & books often focus on sexual chemistry more than other compatibilities or even just really getting to know who someone is.
jul 27, 2025, 2:18 am • 11 0 • view
Considering women & girls used to be considered mens property, i think the culture of “i need to be picked (for the sake of survival)” has still run heavily through society & might more heavily in other cultures. It could come out as “i need to be rescued”.
jul 27, 2025, 2:18 am • 11 1 • view
Yes I agree, and we are not moving forward anymore, we are going backwards. They need to impeach.
jul 27, 2025, 2:31 am • 3 0 • view
As long as the republicans fall in line the dems have to wait until then midterms to hope to gain majority so that when articles of impeachment are brought forward they are successfully passed. The dems are too scared to bring it forward now in case it risks the seats they already have.
jul 27, 2025, 2:39 am • 0 0 • view
Rep Al Green went to bring forward articles of impeachment late May or June & the dems voted to table it sadly. I had been thinking there was still validity doing it now to get on record the republicans that are aiding & abetting unlawfulness but theyre prioritising a “successful” strategy i guess.
jul 27, 2025, 2:39 am • 4 0 • view
Are you in Australia? My grandmother was from there. I’m thinking of moving but now I can’t before midterms…
jul 27, 2025, 2:43 am • 0 0 • view
Yes, i am in Aus. We had our election this year & told our candidate that took up trumpian language to rack off, including his local seat 😹 Aus has its own problems as does every country but at least we dont have Trump!
jul 27, 2025, 2:45 am • 2 0 • view
The same in Canadian elections. We are definitely overrun with stupidity here. Have a good day! I need to sleep!
jul 27, 2025, 2:49 am • 2 0 • view
Yes i was using Canadas election as a gauge that hopefully Aus would go the same. Have a great evening and sleep well! 😊💙
jul 27, 2025, 2:57 am • 1 0 • view
I’m not sure. They don’t have the numbers. I’m telling all my friends they can’t die before midterms. They weren’t planning on it, but I had to go on the record😂
jul 27, 2025, 2:41 am • 0 0 • view
So many layers to this! Society still has much progress to make! (I wish Bluesky allowed for longer can comments & posts, sorry for a 3 sectioned comment!)
jul 27, 2025, 2:18 am • 10 0 • view
I know. I worked in ER’s my career and the trafficking and abuse by family and friends is awful. Also, foster families can be very abusive physically, sexually and psychologically. They are not the safe havens we all think.
jul 27, 2025, 2:21 am • 10 0 • view
Thank you for the work you did! 100% agree, there are some real horrors out there in the foster care world - these pro birthers only care about the birth but dont care about the life of the baby as they grow up. They dont care if they might be destinying them to a life of trauma💔😔
jul 27, 2025, 2:28 am • 9 1 • view