I'm due for a re-read on that one. I picked up All About Love recently again and am actually marking and annotating it, and I plan to re-read the will to change again after.
I'm due for a re-read on that one. I picked up All About Love recently again and am actually marking and annotating it, and I plan to re-read the will to change again after.
I hope I can actually read and listen to it this time. I'm not proud to admit that I was a little too young and not recognizing myself as nonbinary yet to read it with an open mind.
When I was still playing at being a man I remember reading it with a lot of rage at the perception of being somehow called out or criticized (often for behavior I don't even do and myself abhor) that prevented me from actually reading and absorbing the book.
While Im not nonbinary I do relate to the rest of that experience, you get pulled into this from birth and fighting it often means you loose any kind of support. Even in a lot of progressive spaces since a lot of people there haven't been able to break out of the patriarchical mindset either sadly.
I definitely feel that. It feels like for the last almost going on a decade now I've made steady but great strides in a journey of self love and acceptance, but I still struggle with finding the people who accept me and then being a good friend in turn and letting people in.
I've joined my local DSA chapter about a year ago and I've met some great people there. Highkey I worry about losing them if I end of having criticism of the chapter or if they let me down.
I've heard whispers online of marginalized people being discontent with white leftists that don't have diverse voices in their coalitions,
and I have heard the general consensus of the chapter seemingly err toward "there's no struggle but class struggle!" enough times to make me raise my eyebrows, but I really want this circle to be solid and not have to have any friction come to a head.