I was a super happy, outgoing kid, could light up a room with a smile. Buuut when I got to public HS and experienced physical/emotional abuse for the first time, I was totally unprepared Maybe getting smacked around and belittled as a kid woulda given me some coping skills :p
My parents were also Silent Gens. Growing up under fear & intimidation parenting isn’t a flex, but strangely it does make one immune as an adult to that kind of behavior from maladjusted adults who use it to attempt to control others. Now it just earns an eyeroll from me & not fear.
I totally get it, it's not a flex, but... I mean, it's kinda like getting immunized? Able to handle humanity's darker side better. Still, I'm glad family wasn't the root of my PTSD. I got immunized a little later, that's all.