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afrosabi @afrosabi.bsky.social

I know a lot of you sent me DMS when Dexter died and I'm going to get around to responding when it doesn't hurt as much. I'm not ignoring anyone... just a lot. I'm starting to cry just typing this so I know it's gonna be hard acknowledging all of y'all's condolences.

aug 24, 2025, 4:51 pm • 102 0

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Barefoot Lentil @barefootlentil.bsky.social

🫂

aug 24, 2025, 5:36 pm • 2 0 • view
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Piper @piperview.bsky.social

🧡

aug 24, 2025, 7:35 pm • 1 0 • view
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Barbara Oiler @bfoiler.bsky.social

Take as much time as you need, I’m just glad to see you back 💜

aug 24, 2025, 5:52 pm • 2 0 • view
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afrosabi @afrosabi.bsky.social

💙

aug 24, 2025, 5:55 pm • 1 0 • view
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THEE NWMagpie - #KHive - FREE L.A. and D.C. @thenwmagpie.bsky.social

I'm so sorry. 💔😭

aug 24, 2025, 6:53 pm • 1 0 • view
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Soylent_Orange @orangesoylent.bsky.social

🫂

aug 24, 2025, 7:20 pm • 1 0 • view
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MB Brown @mbbrownsf.bsky.social

Continuing to send love and peace to you as you grieve.

aug 24, 2025, 6:57 pm • 0 0 • view
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Tock @ltock.bsky.social

You've been through so much lately, my heart hurts for you. Don't rush your grief; take the time you need and do your best with the spoons you have. <3

aug 24, 2025, 5:52 pm • 2 0 • view
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Tisiphone @tisiphone.bsky.social

It's so very good to see you, lady. 🫂

aug 24, 2025, 4:58 pm • 5 1 • view
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afrosabi @afrosabi.bsky.social

🤗🤗🤗

aug 24, 2025, 5:00 pm • 5 1 • view
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notthatconnie.bsky.social @notthatconnie.bsky.social

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

aug 24, 2025, 4:54 pm • 1 0 • view
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Hippodameia8527🪷 @hippodameia8527.bsky.social

💚💚💚

aug 24, 2025, 6:27 pm • 2 0 • view
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Just Jen @tenej-jen.bsky.social

I didn’t want to add any extra burden, knowing how much it hurts when they leave. I have no expectations of hearing back. May your many warm and funny memories of Dexter bring you comfort and smiles, knowing his love will always be with you. It was so clear in every photo you shared. 💕

aug 24, 2025, 5:38 pm • 3 0 • view
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#ContessaLucia superfan/ მე მხედარი, არა მეგობარი შენი. @mkhedari.bsky.social

My heartfelt condolences to you and Zia, dear Miss Yvette.

aug 24, 2025, 4:54 pm • 5 1 • view
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Whip Clyburn Dem - MEDICAID LOVER @annaconda1.bsky.social

Awwww to tears when I saw Zia’s face this am (Not lil d) also awwwww to smiles to countess Lucia super fan handle

aug 24, 2025, 5:04 pm • 4 0 • view
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noreen @noreen28.bsky.social

🫂

aug 24, 2025, 7:22 pm • 1 0 • view
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Barbara Gordon @thebookwizard.bsky.social

I’ve missed you and can definitely understand you taking a break. I’m so sorry about Dexter

aug 24, 2025, 6:51 pm • 1 0 • view
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theevalerie.bsky.social @theevalerie.bsky.social

❤️❤️❤️

aug 24, 2025, 5:59 pm • 3 0 • view
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LANana-Nuestra Señora de la Muerte del Pan 😪 @lanana421.bsky.social

💔

aug 24, 2025, 5:13 pm • 5 0 • view
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Donna McCarty Peters @steeldiva.bsky.social

Dexter was special to you. His loss will require a lot of time for grief. Keeping you in my thoughts 🫂💜

aug 24, 2025, 5:38 pm • 4 0 • view
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Marama/MiffyAnn @miffyann94.bsky.social

I am so sorry. His little hoodies always made my day. He had a wonderful last few years and is across the rainbow bridge barking at squirrels.

aug 24, 2025, 5:39 pm • 2 0 • view
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realdeal2028.bsky.social @realdeal2028.bsky.social

I don’t think you need to reply to all. Especially since you are still grieving. This post should be enough. ❤️

Echinacea plants.
aug 24, 2025, 6:45 pm • 2 0 • view
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CharKatRocks @charkatrocks.bsky.social

🫂

aug 24, 2025, 6:45 pm • 2 0 • view
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Bibliophile1957 @bibliophile57.bsky.social

There is no hurry. Let your grief play out. I lost my dog 25 years ago and still cry for her every once and awhile.

aug 24, 2025, 5:19 pm • 5 0 • view
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Sean Angelina @memphisbelle1114.bsky.social

aug 24, 2025, 8:43 pm • 1 0 • view
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PortiaMcGonagal @portiamcgonagal.bsky.social

Oh Sis! I didn’t know and am so sorry to hear. Sending love and strength.

aug 24, 2025, 5:07 pm • 7 0 • view
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afrosabi @afrosabi.bsky.social

💙

aug 24, 2025, 5:10 pm • 3 0 • view
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Avery @averybols.bsky.social

Oh no. I didn't know. I'm so sorry. Take your time. You are allowed to grieve and it takes the time that it takes. You don't have to rush it. Allow yourself grace. My heart goes out to you & Zia.🫶

aug 24, 2025, 11:14 pm • 1 0 • view
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m-ia.bsky.social @m-ia.bsky.social

‘Been thinking of you (and Zia!)! …And that you gave Dexter a quality of life and love that nobody else even had ever even begun to imagine for him.

aug 24, 2025, 5:04 pm • 8 0 • view
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afrosabi @afrosabi.bsky.social

💙💙💙

aug 24, 2025, 5:06 pm • 1 0 • view
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Shady Cat Lady 🕍 @shadycatlady.bsky.social

Grief takes as long as it takes. He was such a special boy and so loved, it’s going to take time.

aug 24, 2025, 6:27 pm • 2 0 • view
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afrosabi @afrosabi.bsky.social

💙

aug 24, 2025, 6:31 pm • 2 0 • view
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Ella - or PJ if you like @ellaorpj.bsky.social

Aww. Hey there. I think of you and that little weirdo fuzzy butt from time to time. He brought many smiles over the years. Hugs to you and Zia.

aug 24, 2025, 7:38 pm • 3 0 • view
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afrosabi @afrosabi.bsky.social

💙💙💙

aug 24, 2025, 8:38 pm • 2 0 • view
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auntie2150.bsky.social @auntie2150.bsky.social

Oh no I am so sorry! You gave him a wonderful life! No need to respond to me just wanted to let you know how sorry I am and remember how lucky Dexter was

aug 24, 2025, 5:22 pm • 2 0 • view