So yeah, I've been absent for some time. I've been concentrating on myself. I've made some major changes in my life and I'm feeling good. If you care, here's what's been going on: (it's kind of a long thread)
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Good for you! Never too late to make friends and find love. I didn’t find love until 40, just enjoy the time you have.
aug 27, 2025, 12:06 pm • 1 0 • view
It’s never too late to start making friends, not too late to fall in love, you deserve the best. Have you heard of scentbird? it’s a perfume/cologne/fragrance subscription service. Back to creepy lurker mode now ktnxbye
aug 27, 2025, 1:37 am • 1 0 • view
You're never creepy. And I subscribe to scentbox! I don't subscribe to scentbird because their CEO is a huge whackadoodle and holds horrible views...
aug 27, 2025, 12:51 pm • 2 0 • view
I've been trying to get back on track with losing weight and I'm back down to 310, and trying to kick it in the ass. Gym membership is imminent, even if it's just to go ride the bike or walk on the treadmill for half an hour.
aug 27, 2025, 12:12 am • 22 0 • view
I got a raise at work, even after stepping down from my promotion that really wasn't a promotion, and over been able to clear out some lingering debt and now I can say that I'm completely debt free and ugh it makes me feel so good after barely scraping by for so long.
aug 27, 2025, 12:12 am • 25 0 • view
I've been focusing on growing my TikTok channel that talks about fragrances, but I'm thinking on pivoting to exploring big guy fashion and lifestyle... we'll see how that goes but here's a link www.tiktok.com/@eau_de_bear...
aug 27, 2025, 12:12 am • 21 0 • view
Honestly? It's really helping my self esteem and depression. I feel more confident and I'm not always lonely and pessimistic...Maybe I just needed a hobby? I'm actually making progress in therapy and am working on getting to the point where I can put myself out there to make friends and maybe date.
aug 27, 2025, 12:12 am • 25 0 • view
For the first time in my life, I feel like a functional, whole adult. I am living in a (older) two bedroom by myself, I have a good car, a decent job that pays a good wage. I have varied interests and hobbies. I feel like I'm charismatic, friendly, and easy to be around and to get to know.
aug 27, 2025, 12:12 am • 22 0 • view
I still have work to do on myself, like figuring out how to go out by myself and initiate conversation with people, for instance. But I really do feel like I'm breaking through my trauma to get too that point, for the first time in my goddamn life, after nearly 50 years on this planet.
aug 27, 2025, 12:12 am • 24 0 • view
Now there is this part of me that scared that it's too late to make friends and/or find love, but that's okay. For now, I'm actually okay being by myself. And I do have hope that everything I want is within reach. I believe in myself. Finally.
aug 27, 2025, 12:12 am • 34 0 • view
This is very awesome. 😁
aug 27, 2025, 7:35 am • 2 0 • view
Hey you, this sounds all amazing! You can do this 🫂🫂🫂🫂
aug 27, 2025, 7:31 am • 1 0 • view
Really happy to hear about all these positive changes! 👍
aug 27, 2025, 12:41 am • 2 0 • view
Thank you Stan 🩷🩷
aug 27, 2025, 4:02 am • 0 0 • view
❤️ 🎉 🤗
aug 27, 2025, 5:14 am • 1 0 • view
I'm so happy for you hon. You have been fighting this for so long, and your glow up is so inspiring. Literally tearing up as I type this. Keep up the good fight. 💜
aug 27, 2025, 3:16 am • 2 0 • view
Thank you baby. That means so much to me.🩷🩷🩷
aug 27, 2025, 3:41 am • 1 0 • view
🤗🤗🤗
aug 27, 2025, 4:55 am • 1 0 • view
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aug 27, 2025, 12:46 am • 2 0 • view
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aug 27, 2025, 4:01 am • 2 0 • view
It's definitely not too late! Met one of my friends when he was your age and we're really close now. But it's great that you're moving in the right direction and I've always believed in you, for what that's worth.
aug 27, 2025, 12:30 am • 4 0 • view
Thank you babe
aug 27, 2025, 12:35 am • 1 0 • view
I love reading this so much ❤️
aug 27, 2025, 12:15 am • 2 0 • view
Than you Jeffy. 🩷🩷
aug 27, 2025, 12:18 am • 1 0 • view
Good to have you back. I’m happy that TikTok has helped with your self esteem.
aug 27, 2025, 8:05 am • 1 0 • view