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jennifer sadiston @sadiston.bsky.social

I was doing speed WITH my dad when I was a teenager, does this mean my dad didn’t love me?

jul 2, 2025, 5:04 pm • 3 0

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𝕳𝖎𝖌𝖍 𝖂𝖆𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖉 𝕲𝖊𝖓𝖊𝖘 @canaryburgundy.bsky.social

no it means he's generous

jul 2, 2025, 5:05 pm • 3 0 • view
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jennifer sadiston @sadiston.bsky.social

He was working away one year and I had a 19th birthday party at which he appeared without telling me which was a nice surprise. He spent the entire party giving my friends lines of coke and telling them not to tell me.

jul 2, 2025, 5:12 pm • 3 0 • view
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𝕳𝖎𝖌𝖍 𝖂𝖆𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖉 𝕲𝖊𝖓𝖊𝖘 @canaryburgundy.bsky.social

Lmfao all of the stories you've told me about ur dad and parents in general are so good but none of them make me think anything bad of them at all & maybe that's a me problem but I don't think so. you're the age u are and still actively like them as ppl which is a solid win for everyone involved imo

jul 2, 2025, 5:19 pm • 1 0 • view
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jennifer sadiston @sadiston.bsky.social

My parents were on the whole very lovely to me, which I get is quite privileged. All my trauma comes from teachers and my ex wife

jul 2, 2025, 5:29 pm • 2 0 • view
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𝕳𝖎𝖌𝖍 𝖂𝖆𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖉 𝕲𝖊𝖓𝖊𝖘 @canaryburgundy.bsky.social

Awful, potentially ruinous teachers?? in Britain??? in the 80s and 90s?!)!?!?!!!??!?! can't believe this.

jul 2, 2025, 5:32 pm • 2 0 • view
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Megg @realmegg.lol

it means he loves you more than a normal dad does

jul 2, 2025, 5:06 pm • 0 0 • view
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jennifer sadiston @sadiston.bsky.social

He does, even though I’m his least favorite of his three kids (I have total middle child syndrome)

jul 2, 2025, 5:10 pm • 1 0 • view