...Zero Neurotypicals have ever given a shit about MY feelings. They assume they are being "kind" but they have no clue becaue they are self-serving sheep mindlessly following some unwritten rules and acting as enforcers by shaming those who don't conform to their standards. (Tact? What?)
think of it is how societies "get along". That's the whole "unwritten rules" thing. Avoiding saying anything that might upset someone, hence not going into detail about criticism, is just a "thing" in general society, most of the time. Germany is one exception.
You're taking this in a way it's not intended just like neurotypical people take your kind of honesty the wrong way at times. I don't know what to do with a phrase like "self-serving sheep" because I equate that with people who are usually conspiracy theorists, sorry. A "fakeness", as you might