There are good ones but it is very hard to find them. The men who have done the work are coupled already. Check out Jennie Young’s Burned Haystack theory. She’s on FB and Instagram. If I try again with men, I will use her techniques. (Ruthless blocking & no accommodating nonsense)
thank you for that tip! I'll read up...
She’s a professor of rhetoric & identifies all the 🚩 in men’s profile wording. Watching her reels & reading her commentary has helped me a lot in thinking through my own people pleasing & accommodating behaviors.
open.substack.com/pub/burnedha...