My ex-husband browbeat me into doing stuff I was clear about not wanting to do. That doesn't make her patient. It makes you an asshole.
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O Look, a white said a thing.
aug 3, 2025, 10:09 pm • 7 0 • view
You seem nice
aug 3, 2025, 11:58 pm • 0 0 • view
I was trying to let all the terrible responses go, but I can't. This is what dismissing women's feelings, opinions and experiences looks like. Do you have a no means yes kink in your marriage? I guess good for you, but posting it to the world is not helpful. I remember being made to watch
aug 4, 2025, 7:41 pm • 0 0 • view
The Virgin Suicides. Apparently he had such a charmed life that he'd never gone through it. I had 8 in my high school (of 1400 students) my senior year. This wasn't entertainment; it was abuse. Or the time I was browbeat into riding a Rollercoaster. Then threw up and the rest if my day was ruined.
aug 4, 2025, 7:44 pm • 0 0 • view
But at least he had fun, and thought it was funny that I threw up. So yes, I'm no longer as fun as I was. And I choose the bear.
aug 4, 2025, 7:45 pm • 0 0 • view
He wasn’t brow beating.
aug 3, 2025, 10:52 pm • 3 0 • view
Really?! That was your experience with your ex which does not apply to every relationship. I watch stuff my husband likes and he does the same for me. He was complementing his wife and you chose to attack him. Me thinks you’re the asshole.
aug 3, 2025, 10:35 pm • 9 0 • view
aug 3, 2025, 10:08 pm • 3 0 • view
I have to agree. The “right before bed” part is what clinches it. Possibly ruining someone’s sleep with disturbing images they’ve made it clear they don’t want to see.
aug 4, 2025, 2:57 am • 2 0 • view
You really have no idea what you're talking about. You don't know anything about their relationship. I don't either. Maybe you're the asshole?
aug 3, 2025, 10:14 pm • 11 0 • view
As someone who survived an abusive relationship myself: shut up. This is an absurd comment.
aug 3, 2025, 11:13 pm • 5 0 • view
Agree. I don't know why men feel the need to do this.
aug 3, 2025, 10:50 pm • 5 0 • view
Skydiving. There were no real threats, but I had to do it, and eventually other High-octane things because those were the things he wanted to do "together". Decades after, I have discovered I am an excellent gardener and my BP dropped about 50pts (maybe more).
aug 3, 2025, 11:00 pm • 3 0 • view
I tell T, my hubs, “no thx. I don’t want to watch __🎥__. I’d rather watch My Man Godfrey (for the 18th time)” So he ties me to the wing chair, puts toothpicks on my👁️👁️ a la Ludovico Treatment, & makes me watch an obscure film from The Criterion Collection. Invariably, I love it All marriages
aug 3, 2025, 11:06 pm • 2 0 • view
are different Don’t judge WA He’s being facetious His wife is fine and probably happy
aug 3, 2025, 11:06 pm • 6 0 • view